Don't Graduate Your High Schooler Without These Life Skills

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Don't Graduate Your High Schooler Without These Life Skills

Homeschool doesn’t last forever!

It's a sentiment which has the potential to wring the heart of any homeschool parent, even those who are still in the early stages, wondering if adding and subtracting are ever going to click.

They will.

And someday the kids who repeatedly misspelled school will be all grown up and graduated—moving away from home, heading off to college and careers, marriages, and all manner of grown-up life.

Someday, your homeschooled high-schooler will graduate. Besides using a curriculum that teaches them the reading, math, writing, and science they need, how else can you ensure that your kids are best prepared for life beyond homeschool?

Here are crucial life skills to make sure you cover with your teens before high school graduation. Be sure to consider these when you create a homeschool high school plan.

1. Personal Finance Skills

Your teen should have some experience with handling a personal budget and managing their finances at this point in life, but the stakes are higher when, post-graduation, they begin seeking further education or move out on their own. For most young people, this is the first time that the amounts of money that they are managing begin to number in the thousands of dollars. This is when young adults often begin paying all or a great amount of their own living expenses, from groceries and rent to insurance.

Being able to make both big and small financial decisions that are in line with their own values is crucial to starting adulthood strong. Far too many twenty- and thirty-somethings in my own generation look back on their early adult years and wish they had made different choices.

Have meaningful conversations about finances throughout their high school years and give them the tools they need to make wise decisions.

During their teen years, consider having your student watch as you file taxes, pay bills, and create the family budget. Discuss how your values and financial goals influence your decisions for spending. Talk about the vocabulary surrounding savings accounts, retirement funds, and credit cards.

Personal Finance Discussion Starters for Teens

One of the best ways to make sure that your teens are prepared to handle real-world finances is to have open discussions about money and financial choices. Here is a list of discussion starters:

  • What are your career goals? What further education, if any, will be necessary to achieve those goals? How do you plan to pay for this education?
  • Are you willing to take out a loan to complete college if it is necessary? Are there alternative ways to get such a degree without going into debt?
  • What are you willing to get into debt for? For example, are you comfortable with taking out a loan on a car?
  • Do you know how to check your account balances?
  • Do you know how to check your credit rating and how to freeze your credit?
  • What is more important—attending a specific college or finding an affordable college?
  • Are you comfortable filing your own taxes? What are the possible consequences to errors on a tax return?
  • How do your values influence your daily spending, your giving, and your long-term saving? 
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2. Strong Communication Skills

Your homeschooled student needs to be comfortable with receiving a phone call from a stranger and making one. This seemingly small task is one that has become a foreign experience in the generation that was raised with texting and social media! But there are still many times in grown-up life when you must make a phone call—to set up a job interview, to deal with a utility bill, or when you have a concern about your health insurance. 

Phone calls are just one aspect of the wider range of strong communication skills that are needed to prepare your teen for life after graduation. Clear email communication plays a key role in many, if not most, careers, and it’s also important to develop confidence in face-to-face communication with people of any generation and background. 

Communication Life Skills Discussion Starters for Teens

As you seek to help your homeschooled student improve their communication skills, discuss these topics:

  • How does the manner in which you talk to a stranger display your values?
  • How would you respond if a person at work was rude and disrespectful to you? Would your response be different based on whether the person was a customer/client, a boss, or someone lower in rank than you?
  • What communication strategies can you use to respectfully defuse tension during a difficult conversation?
  • What types of professional situations would be better addressed in a face-to-face meeting? Which would be better addressed via email or phone call?
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3. Household Skills

There’s no reason for the “bachelor apartment” phenomenon to exist, among young men or women. If your teens are equipped with the skills they need to maintain their homes, prepare nutritious meals, and keep their vehicles in safe working order before they leave the nest, then you won’t have to worry about becoming that parent of urban legend whose college student mails clothing back home to be laundered.

During the older teen years, when your kids often become busier outside the home with jobs, extracurriculars, and friends, it can become harder to enforce regular chore duties. But in spite of how busy schedules can become, making sure that your teens have adequate opportunity to practice and improve their household skills will prepare them to balance the maintenance of a home, yard, and vehicle while working full-time and raising their own families. 

Household Life Skills Discussion Starters for Teens

  • How comfortable are you with doing a routine car maintenance and safety checks on a vehicle before embarking on a long road trip (checking oil, tire pressure, etc.)?
  • Given your financial situation and location, what types of car maintenance jobs make more sense to perform at home? Which jobs are better handed off to professionals?
  • How can you best balance concerns regarding health, budget, and time when it comes to meals?
  • What types of home repairs can you learn to do yourself? When should you call a plumber or electrician?
  • What does the cleanliness of your living space reflect about your values and respect for other people who live in or visit their home?

4. Emotional Skills

The ability to gracefully handle the stress of adult life will be crucial for your children as they begin to leave home. There are countless intimidating first times ahead of them. Does your teen know where to turn when they feel overwhelmed with a new responsibility or situation?

Emotional Skills Discussion Starters for Teens

  • What are healthy ways to approach conflict in personal and professional relationships? What types of rhetoric should be avoided when arguing with someone you want to maintain a relationship with?
  • What healthy coping skills help most when you are faced with stressful life situations that you cannot control? Which are not effective?
  • In relationships, are you able to recognize signs and signals of manipulation, control, unhealthy dependence, or abuse? How do you foresee responding to the end of a romantic relationship? 
  • What people in your life do you trust most when you need to discuss difficult situations?
  • What role can forgiveness play in recovery from emotional wounds?
  • What assets do you have in your toolbox to combat anxious thoughts?
  • What responses to difficult seasons are you going to decide are “not an option” for you? (I.E. quitting a job without a backup plan, causing physical harm to self or others, etc.)

At these later stages of homeschool, it's time to move beyond simple physical skills into critical thinking, discussing why and how to apply the skills you’ve taught them. This is a key season as we seek to train the hearts and minds of our children. We pray they approach their own lives mindfully, rather than merely operating on auto-pilot or following the crowd of peers.

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11 Best Fiction Books for Animal Lovers

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11 Best Fiction Books for Animal Lovers

Supply your animal-loving child with a home library of books featuring beloved animals. In these titles, you'll fall in love with pets, farm animals, and wild creatures—fantastic and real. Sometimes the animals are the main characters of the book, and in other cases the animals are portrayed in relation to human characters.

1. Babe the Gallant Pig

by Dick King-Smith

from Sonlight's History / Bible / Literature B Package

You may have seen the movie. Don't discount the book!

Set on a farm, the book recounts the story of Babe, a pig. After being taken in by Farmer Hogget's sheepdog, Fly, it's only natural Babe would want to follow in his foster mum's paw-steps. Even with considerable handicaps as a sheepdog (namely, he's a pig), he manages to overcome all with his earnestly polite and soft-spoken ways, proving once again that might doesn't always make right.

After saving the sheep from rustlers and wild dogs, Babe convinces Hogget that his idea of becoming a sheep-pig might not be so silly after all. No one could have predicted what follows.

Pair it with a trip to a farm to see how sheep are raised.

2. Kildee House

by Rutherford G. Montgomery

from Sonlight's History / Bible / Literature B Package

A warm story about an asocial recluse who finally wins friends when he builds and moves into a cottage in the forest.

Your forest-loving child will be enchanted by the parade of raccoons, deer, skunks, and other woodland creatures that take over Kildee House and enrich the life of the man living in their midst.

Your kids may want to move to a cabin in the woods after reading this one!

3. Mountain Born

by Elizabeth Yates

from Sonlight's History / Bible / Literature B Package

Sheep are the featured animal in this touching, beautifully crafted, and thought-provoking work of fiction in which a young farm boy grows up.

This more mature book deals with several life issues: birth, death, real life farm activities, working hard and living off the land. The family never protects their young son from the realities of life, but instead allow his experiences to mold him into a caring, competent, and mature man. 

4. Charlotte's Web

by E. B. White

from Sonlight's History / Bible / Literature B Package

This heartwarming classic explores the friendship between a little girl, a selfless spider and "the world's greatest pig."

Keep your tissues handy. You will cry.

Pair this book with a trip to your state or county fair. Be sure to tour the animal exhibits!

5. My Father's Dragon

by Ruth Stiles Gannett

from Sonlight's History / Bible / Literature A Package

This story is a tale of fantasy featuring a dragon and other talking creatures. It's a delightful story about a boy who rescues a sweet young dragon from her enemies through the judicious use of the unlikely items he has stored in his knapsack.

This children's story allows you to begin talking with your children about typically difficult topics such as oppression, laziness, compassion and resourcefulness. Literature breaks through the awkwardness and allows us to dig into both the good and bad of life. 

Enjoy open-ended crafts after you read. For example, try this mapping activity.

6. The Story of Dr. Dolittle

by Hugh Lofting

from Sonlight's History / Bible / Literature A Package

Here's another fantasy tale where animals can communicate with humans. Dr. Dolittle sails off to save African monkeys from an epidemic and encounters amazing animals.

As part of an introduction to the world, your children will travel halfway around the world in this book. With a mix of fairy tale experiences and real world animals, this book for children adds joy to your global, cultural studies

7. Mr. Popper's Penguins

by Richard Atwater and Florence Atwater

from Sonlight's History / Bible / Literature B Package

A classic, absolutely impossible tall tale. It will win your child's heart — and maybe yours, too!

Though completely fictitious, this illustrated book for children introduces many historical explorers in the naming of penguins. 

After you read this animal book, visit the penguin enclosure at your closest zoo and imagine caring for a houseful of penguins!

8. The Cricket in Times Square

by George Selden

from Sonlight's History, Bible, Read-Alouds C Package

Chester, a cricket from Connecticut, moves into the Bellinis' Newspaper Stand in New York City.

His escapades at first threaten to ruin the stand, but lead, ultimately, to the stand's greatest success. Fun!

9. Stone Fox

by John Reynolds Gardiner

from Sonlight's History / Bible / Literature D Package

Ten-year-old Willy needs to win the big dog sled race in order to pay the back taxes on his grandfather's farm. But that means he has to beat the huge Indian, Stone Fox, and his incredible dogsled team.

A stunning, heartwarming story set in Wyoming. The author was inspired by a Rocky Mountain legend. Though the characters are fictitious, the dogsled race and its surprising finish supposedly really happened.

10. The Bears on Hemlock Mountain

by Alice Dalgliesh

from Sonlight's History / Bible / Literature D Package

Jonathan goes to get "the biggest pot you ever laid eyes on" — on the other side of Hemlock Mountain.

How he protects himself from the bears is the highlight of this short tall tale!

11. The Great Turkey Walk

by Kathleen Karr

from Sonlight's History / Bible / Literature E Package

"Git along, little . . . turkeys"? Yep! In 1860, a fifteen-year-old boy attempts to herd one thousand turkeys from Missouri to Denver, Colorado, in hopes of selling them at a profit.

In this sure-fire funny-bone tickler, part tall-tale but mostly solid historical yarn, Simon Green proves he's a man and worthy of respect. What fun! This book will make you laugh!

To see more top-notch books and our complete book-based homeschool programs, ask for a complimentary copy of your catalog today.

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7 Reminders to Refresh the Servant-Hearted Homeschool Mom

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7 Reminders to Refresh the Servant-Hearted Homeschool Mom

They say that no one minds being a servant until they’re treated like one.

Homeschooling mothers face this dilemma on a regular basis. We love that we are called to be Christ-like servants to our families, but we don’t love when we are treated like servants by our husband, children, or friends. It’s discouraging to serve day in and day out without any significant recognition, appreciation, or compensation. Not to mention serving is exhausting and contrary to our natural desires.

How can we think well about our role and continue to serve day in and day out? Here are seven truths that strengthen me on a daily basis.

1. Ask God for Grace, Moment by Moment

When God tells us to love Him with our minds, perhaps He is speaking primarily about developing the servant mindset of Christ. God cares about homeschooling moms who desperately need the grace to be Christlike in the daily grind. Make this one of your personal prayer requests and God will surprise you with strength and endurance.

“Let each of you look not only to his own interests, but also to the interests of others. Have this mind among yourselves, which is yours in Christ Jesus, who, though he was in the form of God, did not count equality with God a thing to be grasped, but emptied himself, by taking the form of a servant, being born in the likeness of men. And being found in human form, he humbled himself by becoming obedient to the point of death, even death on a cross. Therefore God has highly exalted him and bestowed on him the name that is above every name, so that at the name of Jesus every knee should bow, in heaven and on earth and under the earth, and every tongue confess that Jesus Christ is Lord, to the glory of God the Father.” Women who are able to serve people day in and day out need minds of steel, the mind of Christ. God alone can give us this gift. Let us appeal to him for our great need.”

Philippians 2:4-11

2. Be Honest About Your Limitations

My worst days are when I mask my limitations and keep slaving away despite my bad attitude, my need for help, or my exhaustion. When I ignore my human limits, I crash… and I usually tear down my family while I’m at it.

Conversely, my best days are when I’m honest about my need for help, when I train my children to treat me with respect, and when I speak up about my struggles to keep serving.

Here's a glimpse from my personal life. My husband doesn’t know how to help me when I grit my teeth and keep serving with a terrible attitude, but he readily embraces and helps me when I lay my head on his chest and say, “I am so worn out.”

How can you admit and share your limitations with your family?

3. Be a Faithful Steward of Your Body, Mind, and Soul

A woman who is serving other people needs to “make her arms strong” (Proverbs 31). What makes your body, mind, and soul strong? What do you have to do in order to laugh with hope, have strong relationships, and develop the gifts that God has given you?

Even though the needs around you may seem relentless, seek discernment about how you can refresh and refuel yourself so that you can continue to serve your family with strength.

4. Don’t Whine or Complain

God cares about women who have reached the end of their rope. He cares about us when we are irritated and everything’s falling apart. His advice to us in these moments is that we

“Do all things without grumbling or disputing, that you may be blameless and innocent, children of God without blemish in the midst of a crooked and twisted generation, among whom you shine as lights in the world, holding fast to the word of life…”

Philippians 2:14-16

In our own understanding, whining and complaining feels good, but it’s not good for us. Over the years, I’ve asked the Holy Spirit to help me stop whining and complaining. When I am able to choose not to complain about difficult or unpleasant circumstances, I feel lifted up and sustained by God. A grateful attitude brings life to my family and buoys our homeschool.

Choosing not to complain is always worth the effort!

5. Don’t Expect Applause, Praise, or Payment

Too often, I serve my family as if I’m a waitress: I serve with a smile until I’ve reached my limit and need some appreciation, assistance, and compensation. My demanding irritation, anger, or grumpiness is like a waitress slapping the bill down on the table saying, “Pay up!” This ruins the gift altogether. Let’s ask God for the grace to serve our families for His approval and reward alone.  

6. Use Your Imagination

You may think this one is silly, but it works for me so I’m going to share it. When I’m up at night, serving sick children, I imagine that I’m Mother Theresa, tirelessly tending to “the least of these.” When I’ve had a full day of homeschooling, and my husband needs to talk, I imagine that I’m Olivia Walton.

Thinking about the ways that other women have served inspires me. It helps me to see my family through a more compassionate and courageous lens. How can you use your imagination to inspire your serving?

7. Serve the Lord with Gladness

Nearing her deathbed, Vonette Bright (married to Bill Bright, creator of CRU), summarized the Christian life in one beautiful statement. When asked what life is about Vonette answered, “Serve the Lord with gladness!” This gem is from a woman, looking back on many years of serving her husband and children, giving up comforts, and sacrificing selfish pursuits for the Kingdom of God.

I have taken her words to heart, and they cheer me on as God calls me to serve my family and community on a daily basis. Life is all about serving the Lord with gladness. Homeschooling provides limitless opportunities to do this every day! May God bless you with a vision to serve Him with gladness today.

Refuel Your Homeschool

With great rewards, come great sacrifice... and homeschooling is no different. Boy, some days are tough, and it would be nice to have a reminder of the why behind your choice to homeschool. This guide will help.

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How to Homeschool the Visual-Linguistic and Visual-Spatial Learner

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How to Homeschool the Visual-Linguistic and Visual-Spatial Learner

Do you have a child who struggles with listening and understanding while you read aloud? Would they prefer to read the material themselves instead? Do they need to write down what they are thinking in order to remember it best? Does your child process pictures better than words and loves to illustrate or sketch homeschool lessons? If any of these characterize your child, you may be homeschooling a visual learner.

There are two main types of visual learning input:

  1. visual-linguistic—using words
  2. visual-spatial—using pictures and symbols

You might find the visual child is better with visual-spatial activities at younger ages but enjoys visual-linguistic activities as their reading and writing abilities develop. Here are teaching and learning techniques to enrich your visual learner's homeschool experience.

Homeschooling Visual-Linguistic Learners

Visual-linguistic activities focus mainly on the written word. Children who thrive with visual-linguistic presentation of information are typically avid readers. Because public schools have a strong visual-linguistic bent, these types of learners excel in a traditional classroom.

They typically read a passage and remember it with very little need for review. Sometimes they can remember what they have read from years ago.

If your child seems to love words and retains information better if there is a written aspect to it, you might be homeschooling a visual-linguistic learner. In that case, the techniques below will enhance your child’s learning experience. 

Techniques for the Visual-Linguistic Learner

  • Use Sonlight’s high-quality reading materials to give a visual learner something worth digesting and remembering.
  • Allow your student to read along with you, either sharing a book or reading their own copy instead of merely reading aloud.
  • Have your child read to you while you multi-task. This method provides you the background knowledge to discuss the book and help your child process any difficult content. If you go this route, I suggest you pre-read the books for yourself.
  • Let your child take notes or use notebooking pages while you read. For example, Sonlight has a specific set of notebooking pages to use with level F Eastern Hemisphere. 
  • Use Sonlight-specific lapbooks with written information to help them visually process what they are learning. Sonlight carries lapbooks to go along several levels.
  • Allow your children to mark their books with highlighter to illuminate difficult text (especially at the high school level). 
  • Allow them to underline key passages.
  • If they are struggling with a text, let them make notes in the margins or take notes on a separate sheet of paper. 
  • Have them copy important Bible passages, poetry they are trying to memorize, or other memory work.
  • Print copies of the discussion questions for them to refer to while they are reading. 
  • Print copies of notes or discussion guides for harder-to-understand books. 
  • Use a chart or graph to keep track of what is happening in a confusing story. 
  • Allow your child to watch videos that bring history to life, enhance what they are learning in science, or demonstrate math points. Videos that use bullet points in print are helpful, as are subtitles.
  • Choose a math curriculum that caters to visual-linguistic learners: Math U See, Videotext Algebra, and Dive DVDs. Saxon Math is also very good for visual learners, as it gives step-by-step written instructions. Literature-based math programs such as Life of Fred teach through words rather than practice problems. 
  • Print or refer to written lyrics of songs so your child can read the lyrics along as they sing. 
  • Provide instructions in written lists rather than verbally.
  • Teach your child to make outlines and take notes as they read or listen to you read.

Homeschooling Visual-Spatial Learners

Visual-spatial activities are similar to visual-linguistic activities, except they focus on images and pictures instead of words. You will find a lot of overlap between these two groups, so the techniques in the above list may work for your visual-spatial learner, too. This list includes only activities that are not mentioned above. 

Techniques for the Visual-Spatial Learner

  • Usborne history and science books, while sometimes frustrating for parents to read aloud, provide visual context for the child and help them create picture-memories to store in their brain. Allow your child to pour over the pictures and point out items of interest. 
  • Children with great spatial skills often do well with remembering faces and places. Show them pictures of people and places so they can associate a face with a story or a location with an event.
  • Sonlight's Timeline Figures placed into the Timeline Book create a visual representation of major historical figures and events.
  • Map work done with a markable map is probably the best way to teach geography to a visual-spatial learner.
  • Use lapbooks, activity packages, and coloring book supplements
  • Have your child draw pictures of what they are learning. Even if the pictures aren’t very accurate or seem convoluted, the child is forming a mental picture that helps them understand and remember. 
  • Allow them to doodle in their math books and along the edges of their worksheets. 
  • Create charts with pictures of the characters and events as they go along. 
  • Show them pictures of various historical figures and events. 
  • Watch videos that bring the history to life. 
  • Create a visual representation of the events with LEGO bricks, playdough, toys, or acting.
  • Teach them to take notes, using symbols for repeating words. Allow them to be creative, and teach them to use a key to explain what each symbol means.
  • Devise your own version of the Inductive Marking Approach. Using a copy of the text you can mark, highlight certain words, draw pictures to mark themes, and look for keywords that work together. This method works well for the Apologia textbooks in Sonlight’s high school levels as well as history spines that have a variety of topics.
  • Visit museums, learning centers, and other areas for field trips. Walking around a museum adds both visual and spatial aspects to your child’s learning. 
  • Hands-on math programs, such as RightStart or Math U See, where children need to physically manipulate numbers on a spatial plane, are perfect for these learners.  

While everyone learns best when material is presented in a variety of ways, visual learners will especially benefit from the two lists of techniques above.

Visual-linguistic students are avid readers who adore a book-based homeschool curriculum. See what it could look like for your family.

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5 Tips for Homeschool Organization in Small Spaces

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A dedicated homeschool room sounds like a dream! Imagine maps on the walls, neat bookshelves, and pencils and markers neatly arranged in coordinating jars. However, don’t be discouraged from homeschooling if your living situation can’t provide a dedicated homeschool room. My family has homeschooled in a variety of small spaces, including in a 1000 sq. ft. apartment with no yard - when there were still seven kids living at home!

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How to Homeschool the Tactile, Movement-Oriented, and Sensory-Seeking Child

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How to Homeschool the Tactile, Movement-Oriented, and Sensory-Seeking Child

In a classroom setting, highly kinesthetic or sensory-seeking children are notoriously difficult to teach because they have a deep-rooted need to perform actions generally considered distracting for the rest of the classroom. Those actions involve moving and touching, and they don’t learn as well without this sensory stimulation.

Naturally, this situation can be hard for parents and teachers who just want their child to sit still and do the work. For these kids, though, sitting still actually makes it harder to pay attention. Limiting their movement hinders their ability to process what they are learning. 

As homeschool parents, we are blessed with the opportunity to teach kinesthetic learners outside the limitations of the classroom, and apply unique techniques to help our kinesthetic learners become great students. 

Kinesthetic learners can be broken down into three main categories. 

1. Tactile Learners

Tactile learners need to touch and feel things as they learn. Feeling a flower as they learn about science would be more valuable to them than seeing a picture of a flower. Holding a baby bird would provide additional learning that a tactile student couldn’t get merely by looking at it. 


"Orion loves stories. He can listen to books for hours, but his hands are rarely still. He loves to paint, smack his baseball in his glove, look through other books, or play with action figures. Some would think he’s not listening but when I ask him questions, he usually remembers details I have forgotten. I’m thankful for Sonlight’s literature based approach to learning that allows my active, book loving boy the space to learn his own way." Sarah Z. of Clarkston, GA

2. Movement-Oriented Learners

Kinesthetic students need more than just touch to learn. They often need to be actually moving or feeling sensations to fully optimize their capabilities.

You’ll find them reading a book while hanging upside down from a sofa or skipping around during their spelling lesson. The thing you won’t find them doing very often is sitting still and being quiet.

Often kinesthetic learners also need an auditory aspect, and will therefore talk, sing, or hum to themselves, even when they are supposed to be listening to a book. They usually aren’t aware they are moving or humming until you bring it to their attention. 

3. Sensory-Seeking Learners

And finally there are the sensory-seekers—children who crave input to their body. You’ll find these children love to jump, climb, spin, twirl, run into things, and dance their way through life. They love loud sounds (including their own voice), bright lights, and flashes. For a parent who isn’t sensory-seeking, the higher energy requirements and loudness can be a bit overwhelming. 

Whether your child is tactile, movement-oriented, sensory-seeking, or a combination, the following methods will help you teach and help your child learn. All of these children fall under the kinesthetic umbrella and will benefit from a free homeschool environment that integrates motion into the learning.

How to Homeschool the Kinesthetic Learner

Children who need higher levels of sensory input or have a hard time sitting still will not do as well with traditional classroom methods because their bodies seek extra stimulation. Because I homeschool my two children who have ADHD (attention-deficit hyperactivity disorder) with SPD (sensory processing disorder), I have the freedom to let them move with almost every assignment. I incorporate the techniques below into our Sonlight curriculum, and they are easily able to concentrate and learn!

Kinesthetic learners learn best when doing projects or creating things. But the good news is, for most of these children, the activity they are doing doesn’t need to be directly related to what they are learning. They just need to be moving, feeling, or touching. 

How to Homeschool the Tactile, Movement-Oriented, and Sensory-Seeking Child

Here's a list of techniques that work well for kinesthetic learners in a homeschool setting.

  • Add craft projects to whatever you're learning. Use Sonlight’s lapbooks, activity packages, and coloring book supplements.
  • Don’t require your kinesthetic learner to sit still unless it’s absolutely necessary. Standing on one foot while doing math, sitting on an exercise ball while doing a reading assignment, and writing spelling words outside in sidewalk chalk help a child to learn far better than learning with minimal movement.  
  • Let them roam. Allow them to walk around while you read, hang upside down from the sofa while they read, dangle from the swing while they practice spelling, or run around the house between subjects a couple of times. 
  • Allow them to move, bounce, swing, twirl, or wiggle while you read to them.
  • Have your child act out scenes while you read them or do dramatic play with LEGO bricks to keep their attention on what you are teaching. 
  • Let them use quiet toys and activities during read-alouds. Playdough, LEGO, squish balls, thinking putty, and crocheting can keep a tactile learner’s hands busy while they process information. Sanding wood; sorting buttons, socks, or screws; and drawing can be effective, too. 
  • Using music is helpful. If you’re learning about a particular country, try having them dance to ethnic music from that country. While doing math, addition songs may be more helpful than flash cards. Play music during quiet times. 
  • Allow them to touch and manipulate blocks during math, mini-figures during history, or letter tiles during language arts.
  • Use breaks wisely. Some kinesthetic learners need frequent breaks to aid their learning. Breaks cause others to lose their attention and make their day longer. Those students might prefer working straight through with as few breaks as possible, and having more time for movement and play later on.
  • Use alternate forms of print: number stamps and stickers in math, chalk, textured paper, or typing in writing.
  • Serve as your child's scribe for longer writing assignments.
  • Get outside. Swinging while listening to a read-aloud or bouncing on a trampoline while reciting Bible verses can help children learn more effectively. 
  • Use food. Chewing gum can help create a sense of movement. Cooking a meal from a culture or character in your studies can link learning to something tangible.
  • Get outside. Take nature walks while you discuss books. Go to the park and do lessons while your child is sitting in a tree or swinging from a hammock. Those little motions will help move the information from short-term memory to long-term. 
  • Go places. Child-friendly museums often let children touch things they see. Other museums have displays which teach as children walk through. 
  • Add projects. Build a fort or construct a pyramid out of sugar cubes. Don’t be afraid to add art and crafts
  • Use art where you normally wouldn’t. Allow your child to draw in the margins of their math book, doodle on their science activity sheets, and build with their math blocks. Even the simple act of highlighting words on a page adds a little bit of the kinesthetic aspect and can help improve concentration. 
  • Use different textures and sensations. Writing on a dry erase board, on a chalkboard, or on the driveway adds a unique tactile experience. Using a vibrating pencil can help settle motor neurons in the hand that want to be moving instead of holding a pencil. Typing, especially with a keyboard setting that provides for tactile feedback, can also offer a bit of stimulation. 
  • Musical vibrations can help. One of my sons who needs tactile feedback loves strumming on his guitar, as it provides a nice sensation when he has to be sitting still. He also loves coming up with his own songs and lyrics to what he is learning. Both the sound and the sensation of playing aid his retention. Other musical instruments can also be used to provide sensory input. Songs already set to music can be used, especially if the child is allowed the freedom to act out the lyrics, dance to them, or just wiggle around. 
  • Use deep muscle stimulation in work. Allow your sensory-seeking child to do chores which involve lifting, carrying, climbing, and use of the large muscles in the arms and legs. Vacuuming using a heavy vacuum is often a great chore for this type of child, because it gives them the sensory input of a loud noise, combined with the deep muscle motion of pushing the vacuum around.
  • Use muscle stimulation at rest. Weighted blankets and highly textured fabrics provide sensory input so your child doesn’t need seek it out as much. You can also have them try isotonic exercises while they do their schoolwork. These can stretching exercise bands, sitting on an exercise ball, playing with thinking putty, and even some light weightlifting. 

The more I use these techniques that provide stimulation for both mind and body, the more I find myself at peace, too. When I see my children thriving with these methods, I'm able to let go of the anxiety their sensory-seeking produces in a sensory-avoider like myself. Because we flex our Sonlight curriculum with these techniques, we can all enjoy our studies together. 

Considering homeschooling to provide more freedom for your kinesthetic child?

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Seven Tips for the New Homeschool Year

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Seven Tips for the New Homeschool Year

Box Day came and went. You snapped that first-day-of-school photo (or not), and now you may be weeks into your new homeschool year. How is it going so far?

I know the excitement and trepidation a new year can bring. So as a mom who has been there, done that, here are some tips to help you settle into a great year.

1. Start Small

Remember this verse from Zechariah as you start. Do not despise these small beginnings, for the Lord rejoices to see the work begin. (Zechariah 4:10)  No matter if you start with a lot of glitz or small beginnings, both are okay. God loves small starts … and small restarts.

Just like when a new baby comes home, I found it takes about six weeks to establish new patterns at the start of school. If your schedule now is a big change from your summer schedule, give your family some grace. You'll find your groove soon.

2. Allow Time to Deschool

For every year your children were in school, allow (at least) a week of homeschooling for them to get used to it.

3. Ask for Homeschool Help

You don't need to be a superhero. If you struggle with any part of your homeschool and want some fresh ideas, contact a Sonlight Homeschool Advisor at no charge or join and ask in the Sonlight Connections Facebook group.

Sonlight Connections Facebook group

4. Ask for Household Help

If you're feeling swamped, brainstorm ways to lighten your load in your non-homeschool duties.

  • Perhaps you could teach your kids to do more chores.
  • Maybe your spouse could cook dinner one night a week.
  • Could your older students work more independently in some subjects?
  • You might even hire a high school student to be a mother's helper and watch the kids at your house once a week while you organize, work or relax.

Asking for help doesn't mean you're weak, just wise.

Seven Tips for the New Homeschool Year
"Sonlight is such a wonderful program. We look forward to the start of each new year. Box day until first day of school is always hard, because we all just want to go ahead and start reading all the new books."—Kristin W. in Grand Isle, VT

5. Read and Learn Together

Don't know everything your kids are supposed to learn this year? That's okay! You'll learn alongside them and gain incredible knowledge as you go. It's wonderful to say, "I don't know, but let's look it up together."

You get to model the joy of lifelong learning.

6. Set Goals

If you haven't already done so, write down goals for the school year. When daily progress seems slow, long-term goals are key. If you write down physical, intellectual, emotional and spiritual goals for each of your children now, you'll have something to evaluate at the end of the year. You'll be amazed at how they grew.

7. Keep the Long View

I love being a mom, but I don't love everything I've had to deal with as a mom. I loved homeschooling, but I didn't love everything about homeschooling.

In reality, there's not a job in the world where you'd love every single aspect. So keep the long view and remind yourself that there is no job more significant or important than raising and teaching the children God has given you.

Be encouraged as you adventure into the new year. I believe that God has equipped you to teach your children. We are here to help. You can do it!

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