Fun Books for Summer

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Some of my favorite memories of childhood summers involve reading... and visits to my grandparents. Reading is what we did when there was nothing else very exciting going on, which of course, was most of the time. Like Jonelle, I devoured books by the score every summer vacation in every possible location... on the porch, on a blanket spread out on the ground, up a tree.

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As Moms, Encourage One Another

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I've spent the last day or so trying to find a way to better recommend Brianna's Being a Mom post. Trouble is, I'm not a mom. I don't have children. No one asks me about my kids. My neighbors may wonder why there are 62 cars parked in front of my house every day, but they don't ask. They may not even notice the constant stream of teens and young adults coming and going at any point from 6 to 2am. And if the people in the houses next to me don't notice, how am I going to get you to click here and read this post?

You may have lots of experience with people commenting on your progeny. I don't.

Have you had people compliment your children for their behavior? Has anyone rudely asked, after seeing your gaggle of kids, if you know what makes babies? Do strangers question why your students aren't in school? Have you ever had to field a question about socialization? Have you ever felt the embarrassment of someone saying they could never do what you do? If so, please take a moment and read Brianna's observation about what's really happening at the store, in the parking lot, and during trips to the park.

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Moms Grocery Shopping

As homeschoolers, we're a bit abnormal; at minimum, we're the minority. But for all the bravado and blessing of walking this path, we're still human. We wonder -- along with 1,400,000,000 results on Google -- if what we are experiencing as people is normal. So as awkward as these moments are, they are opportunities to talk with other mothers about what it's like to be a mom.

And those conversations are good and encouraging. ...much like Brianna's post.

If you're still reading and have yet to click over to the blog, I don't know what else to tell you. You're missing out. Do it. Take your mouse (or your finger if you're on a tablet thingy) and click here.

Thanks!

 ~Luke Holzmann
Filmmaker, Writer, Guardian

P.S. If you've made it all the way to this point in the post, thanks for reading! I hope you have a fantastic weekend. Sonlight will be closed on Monday in observance of Memorial Day. Sonlight.com should still be totally functional should you want to explore some Summer Readers or browse homeschool curriculum for next year. I'll see you again later next week.

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Nothing new under the sun . . .

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CHAP_2014_3 Medium Web viewIt's convention season again. Traveling from event to event ... setting up a booth full of great books and products ... talking to parents from all walks of life. Yep ... even after 16 years it doesn't get old.

These past couple of weeks, as I've stood in a freshly appointed booth space before the crowds came in, it occurred to me that dads and moms really haven't changed a whole lot over the years. As I anticipated the types of family dynamics and questions we would encounter, I realized that Solomon's wise words were never more true than at a homeschool convention. History merely repeats itself. It has all been done before. Nothing under the sun is truly new. (Ecclesiastes 1:9)

Lots of "new" and interesting products and services from year to year ... but homeschool families are pretty much the same. Dads and moms who want the very best educational choices for their children, researching homeschooling to see if it is an option for their family. Some come convinced that this is the best choice for them ... and they're excited but nervous about how to make it work. Others come because friends encouraged them to check it out. Still others are there reluctantly ... knowing that what they're doing for school currently is not working, and wondering just how crazy they are to even consider education at home.

While homeschooling is not the best choice for everyone, it is exciting to listen as families come back to visit year after year to share why homeschooling with Sonlight has been a great decision for "their" students. Here are just a couple great stories I have heard from consultants who have been meeting folks at conventions across the country ...

"I love those podcasts you do!" She and her husband are missionaries with Wycliffe and they have helped and encouraged her so much. Working in ____ is very isolating at times, so she appreciated that Sonlight provides a great curriculum and support. It has kept her and her husband on the field "one more year".

Another family with grade-school aged children were looking at the high school display. The dad asked, "Do you know why we love Sonlight? Because, I see you have this book about the Supreme Court. It is written by Linda Greenhouse. I look on the back flap to see who she is, and see that she covered the US Supreme Court for 30 years as a correspondent and won a Pulitzer Prize. OK, she knows her stuff. I can trust that she understands the Supreme Court. I don't care if she's a believer or not, what I want to know is if she knows what she is talking about. She does. That is why we love Sonlight."

Lots of reasons why so many families find Sonlight, the original literature-based homeschool curriculum, to be a good fit for their students. I never get tired of hearing their stories. Perhaps you can stop by a Sonlight booth at a convention near you this summer, and share your story ... and bring a friend along to introduce them to homeschooling with Sonlight!

Still on the journey ...
~Judy Wnuk

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My Sheltered Homeschool Experience

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There are two ends of the shelter spectrum. I'll call them the "straitjacket" and the "sea-breeze" philosophies.

The one pop-culturally associated with homeschoolers is oppressive, binding, restrictive -- like a straitjacket to your soul. These are people who hole up in their ideological bunkers to hide away from the evil, scary, dangerous, polluted world. Sin, like nuclear fallout, will destroy them if they go outside. So they stay safely locked up, away from the radiation and draw of the wider world.

Parents who embrace this ideal will find their efforts thwarted. Children raised in extremely partisan households tend to rebel against their upbringing. Princess Leia said it well to Governor Tarkin, "The more you tighten your grip ... the more star systems will slip through your fingers." Indeed, I believe we need to relax more, like an archer. Looking to modify behavior -- over walking with our kids toward Christ -- leads us to lose our joy in parenting and can quickly provoke children to anger. Stop it. It's bad for you. It's bad for your kids.

I had a rather sheltered homeschool experience. But it was nothing like what I just described. Instead, my childhood was like a day at the beach, sun, shells, bikinis, beach balls, and all. Sure, I got sand in my shorts. Sometimes I got burned. The air was occasionally fishy. My parents let me practically and metaphorically dig moats, fly kites, talk to people, explore, run, play, discover. We were comfortable with questions. The world was open to me, and I was encouraged to interact with it and exhibit God's love and grace to any and all whom I met along the way.

The sheltering I had, then, was a shaded awning, like something made from bamboo and dried palm fronds. The sea-breeze could flow in with the sights and sounds of life. I could go out and come back. I had a safe place to be, protected from rain and cold. I was not tossed alone into the world. I was sheltered, covered, protected ... and free.

Again and again, I discover that life does not rock a Sonlighter's sheltered world. That can't happen. Because as we read our Bibles and biographies, we encounter complex characters and situations. We learn about life. The waves roll in and ruin our empires of dirt. Like anyone, we can be disheartened and disillusioned. But we're not huddled in a concrete box praying nothing gets in. We are standing on the shore, looking out.

Beach-Shelter
Sheltered.

 ~Luke Holzmann
Filmmaker, Writer, Guardian

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Summer Reading Fun

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We just released the 2014 Summer Reader Packages, and I'm so excited to share them with you! This is one of my favorite projects to work on, and I'm so pleased with the packages we put together.

I love reading. I love summer reading. There is something so wonderful about reading on the trampoline, or the hammock (both of which I did when I was young), or on a porch swing (which I do now...).

Growing up it rained every afternoon in Colorado, and every afternoon I'd be outside feeling the breeze pick up, watching the clouds roll in, and waiting for that first gust with a few raindrops that would chase me indoors. Reading at its finest! And I still make time for reading outside even though now I'm a mom with my own children. I guard my reading time jealously.

All through the winter months, my mom and I read as fast as we could, new books and old, so that your children's summertime can be filled with extra, fun, reading. This year's winter reading took on an extra meaning for me as I spent 6 weeks huddled in my room and taking baths as I dealt with the morning sickness from my 4th pregnancy. It was such a blessing to escape the cold winter, the constant nausea, and just feelings of "bleh" by reading. My girls spent hours playing downstairs while I devoured book after book. The only thing I felt like devouring.

Over several months, my mom and I read through hundreds of books. Checking and re-checking our lists. Comparing books we had put into a large pile on my mom's sewing machine in her basement. We had to make sure they truly were as good as we remembered. Or, if we'd just been reading so many terrible books, that they didn't appear better than they really were.

That's the thing about books: there are tons of them. Tons of terrible books! Poorly written. Poorly edited. Poor storyline ... lots of ways to produce a truly terrible book. So, we take a lot of time and sort and sort and sort. And say, "No, that one's fine but it's not great. It's okay, but I wouldn't read it again. I'd read it again, but this one's better!" Those last ones, few and far between, take a lot of searching to get to. We sort and sift and read and pass books back and forth and say, "What do you think?" and things like, "If only we could find one more book, then we could do this package!"

We really want the best books for your children. It's hard work. But totally worth it.

We try to find fun and lighthearted stories, (which I think we really nail!) especially in the lower levels. But I'll admit, I love a story that moves me, and I push to include those in the upper levels. My time on the hammock wasn't all fairy tales and easy, breezy life, and I think by high school an excellently written book that tackles harder subjects can be just as enjoyable as a lighthearted tale. My mom agreed to some heavier stories as well.

All in all, I'm thrilled with this year's Summer Readers and I hope that you'll take the plunge and give your children memories of reading in the sun. Sonlight books are great, fantastic even, in their own right. But Summer Readers give your children an opportunity to continue to expand their horizons and enjoy new, and different, worlds beyond what we can fit in the school year.

To a blessed and refreshing summer,

Jonelle

P.S. I'm now 25 weeks along and doing great. At 15 weeks I suddenly didn't feel like the front part of my house was attacking me. Right now I'm loving the opportunity to cook and be outside. Baby number 4 is planned to arrive in August. Dave and I like the surprise so we are not finding out the gender. If you'd like to partner in prayer for us, in addition to the general prayers for health and safety, I would humbly ask for prayer to be awake and able to hold my new baby shortly after the birth, something I've never had. If you think of me over the next few months, I would treasure those prayers. Thanks friends!

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You Are Raising a Person

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You homeschool. That's great. Homeschooling is a good option with at least 22 blog posts worth of benefits. I wonder if we sometimes lose sight of the bigger picture, though. We love homeschooling, not so much because homeschooling is this magical, fairy tale bliss of perfection but because homeschooling allows us to raise our children well.

From this larger perspective, you're not homeschooling. You are raising a person. Homeschooling is "merely" one of the parts of that. It's a significant part that takes up a good chunk of your day. But let us peek over the daily churn and remind ourselves that there is a reason we do this. We are raising adults and then letting go.

When I feel a need to defend homeschooling, it's typically because I feel someone is implying that homeschooling is bad. It's not. Homeschooling is good. It's worth the effort. Kids can thrive in it.

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Growth

But let's not push too far the other way. The benefits and beauty of homeschooling do not require that all other systems be destructive and ugly. We need not bully our way to feeling better. Let us focus on the positives of homeschooling. All we need to do is look at our children and see the growth homeschooling has allowed them to experience.

As we watch our children grow into the men and women they are to become, we clearly see that they are people. And as people, they have strengths and weaknesses. These are not due to homeschooling or public schools, but because each one is a person.

It is no surprise to me, then, to find more research that demonstrates that homeschoolers turn out to be normal college students. Some are brilliant minds who graduate at age 6 and go on to revolutionize the medical world. Others are more like me, happily married, working, and doing what I can to help raise the next generation. And still others follow their own path, wherever God leads them.

You are raising a person. Homeschooling doesn't change that; homeschooling doesn't allow you to control your child or dictate the future.

By homeschooling, however, you are able to spend time with your student, watch your child grow, focus on strengths and tweak for struggles, demonstrate your values and beliefs, and use a homeschool curriculum that allows you to love learning together.

You are raising a person. That's not easy. It's a long process. All more reason to choose an approach to education that you both love.

 ~Luke Holzmann
Filmmaker, Writer, Guardian

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Making Babies is a Good Thing!

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I learned yesterday that one of my co-workers used to be a body builder. Now she's pregnant with her second; the joke is that she's a different kind of body builder today. <grin> Lame pun aside, I like the sentiment.

See, my wife and I have not -- as of yet -- been able to make babies. You can read a little more about that in my brief bio. [Being on the non-fertile side of things has been hard (harder for my wife), but God has been very good to us in bringing us dozens of kids we get to part-time parent, in a way.] I'm probably overly sensitive to the pro-baby paradigm because of our non-baby experience.

I really loved Brianna's post Sex Without the Babies. Making babies is a good thing! It's a beautiful gift. We wouldn't have had our recent Mother's Day without it. We wouldn't have us without it.

I think I'm also sensitive to this topic because of "our kids" -- high school and college-aged students who come over to hang out -- who are, themselves, mired in today's boundary-free milieu. For them, sex and babies are two totally different topics, so a video about how to have "sex without babies" fits perfectly with the worldview around them. There is an excellent blog post -- which I can't find now -- that points out that we have separated marriage and sex because we no longer link sex and babies (one of the most powerful things about marriage being raising children). And yet, for as disconnected as the ideas of sex and babies are today, I heard that 40% of women who find themselves in a crisis pregnancy are on birth control.

Forty percent. Almost half.

Making babies is a good thing, but it's difficult when you believe that sex and babies do not go together. That's a cultural idea that just so happens to be wrong.

May you enjoy your children today! May this weekend, through all the ups and downs, be filled with joy as you parent your offspring and raise up the next generation. Thank you for what you do. And may you find freedom, dignity, and beauty in your gift of making babies.

 ~Luke Holzmann
Filmmaker, Writer, Guardian

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