Stop Reading So Much

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She's in college now. Gone are the days of hiding the flashlight under her blanket when her parents would check to make sure she was asleep. It's been a while since she got so wrapped up in a book that she finished it only to discover the bathwater she's been reading in has become uncomfortably cold. No more do adults tell her to quit reading and go do something else. "It's been a while," she confides, "since my mom has fussed at me for 'reading too much.' That's partly because I haven't been around. And partly because I haven't had as much time to read."


Late Night Reading

I can't imagine my mom telling my sister to "stop reading so much."

But maybe that's because my mom had already told me to stop playing my computer games and go outside to play <smile>.

"It's a good thing my mom and your mom never got into a discussion about books," I tell her. "I don't think my mom would agree that you can read too much." Read at the wrong time, not have a healthy balance, not listen to your parents? I could see my mom having a problem with that. But the simple act of reading? That's a good thing.

So, here's the question: How do you maintain proper balance in your house? Do your kids try to sneak books into bed? Have you ever had to tell your kids to quit reading? It feels strange to suggest that you could ever read too much...

 ~Luke Holzmann
Filmmaker, Writer, Empty Nester

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Keep the Picture Books Alive!

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Keep the Picture Books Alive!

Have you read Jill's plea to keep picture books alive? I'd like to shout her message from the rooftops.

I believe picture books are a vital, wonderful part of a child's education. From my position as an educator, mother and grandmother, I think we simply must give our children picture books.


Reading with two of my grandchildren

But why are many parents skeptical these days? Jill linked to this New York Time's article that might explain. The article quotes Dara La Porte, the manager of the children's section of a bookstore:

"I see children pick up picture books, and then the parents say, 'You can do better than this, you can do more than this.' It's a terrible pressure parents are feeling — that somehow, I shouldn't let my child have this picture book because she won't get into Harvard."

Not surprisingly, Jill rejects this pressure. She encourages us to go against the culture and keep reading picture books.

To elaborate on Jill's keen insights, I'll expand on ideas shared in the comments to her post and share some of my own thoughts as well. Whether you have toddlers or older kids around, here are four reasons to let your kids read picture books.

1. We shouldn't expect our kids to read at their highest level all the time

Some parents feel pressure to keep their children reading at their maximum ability level all the time. If Susie can read at a fourth grade level, for example, then she should always read books written at a fourth grade level. That's the only way for her to grow, right?But consider that you and I would never hold ourselves to the same standard. Sure, I'm capable of reading scholarly articles and great classics of literature. I enjoy them. But I certainly don't limit my entire reading material to The American Economic Review and The Brothers Karamazov. I would never cut out all newspapers, blogs, cookbooks, children's literature, popular-level non-fiction and other less heady literature.Why not? For one, I'd miss out on what those other types of reading would teach me. But even more alarming, I think I'd start to lose my joy of reading.

And that is the last thing we want for our kids – to squash their love of reading by making it feel like a chore.

I think that after children read a book at their highest reading level, they deserve a little breather. After stretching Susie's reading comprehension with a 4th-grade level book, why not exercise her compassion with a simple yet emotionally moving story? Why not stir her appreciation of art with some great illustrations? This variety feeds a love of reading.

Even when Susie is reading a picture book, you'd better believe she's still learning. For one thing …

2. Picture books often use advanced vocabulary and sentence structure

One reason parents shy away from picture books is because they falsely label them as "simple." But consider that classic picture books (like the ones you'll find in Sonlight's preschool and pre-kindergarten programs) are created for adults to read to children.This means they're created with the intention that the child has more resources at his disposal than the mere words on the page. The child can rely on the words in connection with the illustrations, presented by an adult who can explain and elaborate. So the vocabulary isn't limited to words children may know on their own. This means the books draw on more advanced word choice and syntax.All this serves to build children's vocabulary and help them develop an ear for good writing.

3. Picture books introduce children to great art

As Helen said in the comments to Jill's post, "Have you seen the talent in those illustrators? Many picture books include an art lesson as you go!"I agree. We chose the books for Sonlight's preschool programs based on more than just their text. Each page of a picture book demonstrates how an illustrator turned a concept into art.Two good examples are Peter Spier's Caldecott Award winner Noah's Ark, a full color, creative look at what it may have been like to be Noah. Intricate, detailed, humorous (the number of rabbits who leave the ark is WAY more than the two who enter). By contrast, the incomparable Dr. Seuss uses only two colors in Horton Hatches the Egg. His whimsical illustrations offer less detail, but marry so perfectly to the text. What a valuable lesson in visual communication! What a fun way to get children thinking creatively.

As you read a variety of picture books with your kids, they'll gain an appreciation for watercolor, line drawing, realistic drawing, more interpretive art, and a dozen other styles of art. All wrapped up with delightful stories.

4. Reading picture books together promotes family bonding

When you have a great picture book in hand, children want to see the pictures. You want to point out aspects of the illustrations they may not have noticed. They want to point out aspects of the pictures that interest them.All this means that children get the wonderful experience of sitting in the lap of an adult who loves them, interacting, and forming a shared memory together.As Jill says,

"We don't need more kids who can read at 5th grade level when they are 4 years old, we need more kids with imaginations who get to cuddle up with mom or dad on the couch to share great picture books. It makes me weep to think that we are so busy trying to get our kids ready for college that we miss the joy of childhood and family and relationships along the way.

Preach it, sister!

So let's keep reading picture books with our children. I believe all our lives will be richer for it.

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MathTacular Reviews

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Amber, the co-star of MathTacular, recently alerted me to the fact that only one person has left a review of MathTacular4 on the website. "I've been dying to know what people think of it for so long," she said. "After all of that work, it'd be nice to know."

Yes, it would. A little validation is nice <smile>.

Speaking of validation, standardized tests can be an excellent way to give yourself a pat on the back. Getting some third party objective feedback on how you're doing as a teacher can be uplifting. Seeing that your students are excelling in so many areas is a major encouragement. Granted, standardized tests can also give you some feedback on areas you may want to focus on in the coming year. For example, my mom discovered that we needed some formal spelling practice. You can read more about that experience in her blog post The Three Rs.

An outside perspective is great. It can help you see things more clearly. You can use input from others to make better decisions for the future. And you can bask in the glowing reminders of how good of a job you are doing.

So, I'm going to make a request: If your kids have watched the MathTacular DVDs (especially MathTacular4: Word Problems), please leave a review. Amber and I, not to mention Justin, love the encouragement. Your reviews also help other homeschoolers decide if MathTacular is a product that will work for their family.

And, while I'm at it, please feel free to review any other programs, packages, or resources you've used this last year.

Thanks!

Have you found standardized tests have helped and encouraged you?

 ~Luke Holzmann
Filmmaker, Writer, Empty Nester

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Four Benefits of Literature-Rich Learning

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It's no secret that Sonlight offers literature-rich homeschool curriculum. There are many benefits to this approach, but I'll mention four here.

First, reading quality books helps us learn to receive literature, not simply use it. C.S. Lewis used these terms in his book An Experiment in Criticism. Those who "use" literature function more as consumers and, as a result, often fail to appreciate its artistic merits or the ideas developed in the work. They usually only read a book once, thus missing out on the joys of receiving literature by appreciating it in more depth and wanting to read a great book more than once.

Second, literature-rich homeschooling helps children become acquainted with the great conversation of ideas. Throughout the centuries recurring themes that define our humanity appear in literature--love, justice, redemption, the meaning of life, and more. By reading literature that explores these important themes we can participate in the great conversation of ideas that stretches back through human history.

Third, in reading great literature we can in a sense see through the eyes of others, thereby expanding our horizons and our understanding. As C.S. Lewis put it in An Experiment in Criticism, "We want to be more than ourselves ... We want to see with other eyes, to imagine with other imaginations, to feel with other hearts, as well as with our own ... in reading great literature I become a thousand men and yet remain myself." There's a world of ideas to explore and literature can take us on a guided tour of these insights.

Fourth, we are made to think and feel deeply, and literature can help us develop not only our intellect, but our emotions. It appeals to our entire being, especially when we are immersed in a good story with characters we care about.

What do you appreciate about literature-rich education? Let us know by leaving a comment.

Robert Velarde
Author/Educator/Philosopher

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From Luke's Inbox: Favorite Homeschool Memories

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What are some of your favorite memories about homeschooling as a child? What do you wish you could (or could not) have done now that you are an adult? I don't come from a homeschooled background, so I'd love to learn more.

My favorite memories from homeschooling are absolutely the books. I bump into so many favorites every time I flip through the Sonlight® Catalog. But it's not just the "fun" books that make up my favorite memories. My understanding of history is largely credited to the biographies and historical fiction we read together as part of our Sonlight studies. But even more important is the way missionary biographies shaped my theology. I can't emphasize enough how much of an impact these memories have had on me. My faith and my love for others, as well as my beliefs about what I can accomplish as I follow God, have been molded by reading Scripture and other accounts of believer's lives. This is huge.

Other favorite memories? Having time. Having so much free time that I could hone my skills and be creative.

I feel I should also point out: Homeschooling's not always sunshine, rainbows, and joy. Sometimes, homeschooling is simply hard work.


Not Always Sunshine and Rainbows

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Are there things that I now feel I missed out on, or regret, having homeschooled?

No.

I spent seven minutes thinking about this. I tried to come up with something I missed out on. But I couldn't. That's because homeschooling, despite the stereotype, wasn't about being trapped inside my house. I participated in a band and a swim team. I was active in my church and youth group. I spent ridiculous amounts of time with friends. I went on missions trips and trips to the water park.

In other words: I had a normal childhood. I "merely" had the added benefit of a personalized education based on fantastic literature that shaped my view of the world and gave me time to develop skills and pursue my interests.

Not a bad gig.

Again, was it all perfect and awesome? No. But I have no regrets from being homeschooled. And now, as an adult, I keep finding new things that reinforce to me that homeschooling was a fantastic option and opportunity.

Do you have any homeschool memory favorites?

 ~Luke Holzmann
Filmmaker, Writer, Empty Nester

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One More Year...

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I have heard Sarita Holzmann, founder and president of Sonlight, speak many times. One of the things I have heard her say more than once is that when she started Sonlight, she wanted to gather the best of the best books and curriculum and develop an easy to use guide so that families on the mission field would not have to leave the field in order to give their children a great education. Her goal was to keep missionaries on the field "one more year." She thought this was something she could put together in the afternoons while her son Justin was taking his nap. And, thus, Sonlight was born.

Recently, I was at a homeschool convention talking to families who came to find out more about Sonlight Curriculum. A smiling mom came into my booth and introduced herself as having talked to me a couple of years before. She said she was about ready to quit homeschooling and came to the convention as a last ditch effort to try to get motivated enough to teach her kids one more year. I showed her how Sonlight would work for her family and she was coming back to thank me and to tell me how Sonlight kept her homeschooling.

I shared Sarita's story and she said, "That's me! She kept me on my mission field one more year!" And that's when it hit me.

We are all on a mission field. Some of us live as ex-patriots in foreign lands as missionaries doing God's work in all its various forms. Some of us are living in the land of our birth, maybe in the same town, but we have a mission field too. It starts with our families then radiates out to our neighbors, communities, states and countries. We are ambassadors for Christ when we make a sandwich for our husbands, teach our children,  go to the grocery store and beyond.

Wherever we are is our mission field.

As homeschooling parents, most of us find that our mission field at this season of our lives is our family and educating our children is part of our job. It can be tough going day-after-day, year-after-year. I know after seven years of using various curricula I was burnt out and ready to throw in the towel. Then I found Sonlight and I was able to stay with it till our youngest graduated ten years later.

I pray that you will find, like this lady and I did, that Sarita's vision of keeping missionaries on the field one more year can apply to you no matter where you live.

Take care,

Jill

P.S. Here are some ideas for a simple summer schedule and some summer boredom busters.

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Time Payment Tutorial

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"Could we include instructions on how to select a Time Payment option during checkout?"

The idea had struck me years ago. It's not immediately obvious how to take advantage of Sonlight's Payment Plans. But I'd gotten busy and didn't do anything about it then. Now that one of our fantastic Customer Relations team members was asking, I had to pause and reconsider. How long would this take me to implement?

10 minutes, it turns out.

Step 1

First, an apology. I am intimately acquainted with how frustrating it is when I can't figure out how to do something on a company's website. I am so sorry that I didn't put these instructions together sooner. Had I done so, I could have saved you time and trouble.

Second, a request. Please continue to send us feedback and ideas as you use our website. Your input and suggestions have always been incredibly informative and play a huge role in helping us move in the right direction. Thank you so much for all the suggestions you've submitted.

Third, an observation. I find I live with small annoyances and don't take the time to resolve simple issues. Are there frustrations in your homeschool or household that, given 10 minutes, you could dramatically improve?

~Luke Holzmann
Filmmaker, Writer, Empty Nester

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Recidivist: one who repeats an offense after experiencing the negative outcome of that action

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