Scheduling Your Homeschool Day: 6 Principles That Work

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Scheduling Your Homeschool Day: 6 Principles That Work

For many homeschool moms, schedule is a bad word, striking terror in their hearts.

  • Some homeschool moms feel hindered by the rigidity of a schedule.
  • Some moms simply can’t find a schedule that consistently works for their family, day after day.
  • Some get overwhelmed by the idea of needing an Excel spreadsheet or an elaborate planner to create a perfect schedule.

Have no fear! I have a few basic principles that have guided me in creating a workable schedule for my crew, and I’m happy to share.

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1. What Kind of Homeschooler Are You This Year?

Are you a plow-through type of homeschool family who likes to get school done by noon? Or do you like to take a more leisurely approach, stretching out your day to include several breaks?

At my house, we’ve been both because different years have demanded different types of homeschooling. Some years, I’ve powered through our day with an energetic "let's get this done" approach. In other years, I’ve savored the slow flow of a low-key homeschool day.

Both are valid approaches. So first, you’ll need to determine what type of homeschool day your family needs now.

If you’re a plow-through family, you’ll want to schedule a four-hour window of work each day.  If you’re a leisurely homeschool family, you’ll want to block off anywhere between 6-8 hours a day.

Think about what time your family will realistically wake up and get started, and begin your schedule there. The biggest mistake homeschool moms make is over scheduling based on unrealistic expectations. If your family never wakes before 9 a.m., don’t ambitiously start your schedule at 8 a.m.

2. Schedule Your Homeschool Day with Couch Subjects™ First

I prefer to start the homeschool day with Couch Subjects™ because these provide a gentle and natural transition from waking up to learning. I don’t know anyone who wants to wake up and immediately start working. Our kids are the same. We need our coffee, they need Couch Subjects™.

Couch Subjects™ are also easy to postpone, delay, and skip. This is another reason to cover them first—you know they’ll get done

Finally, reading together on the couch provides the perfect connection time. It’s a sacred time of day when the whole family gets together to learn and grow. These hours will be cherished for years to come as precious family memories.

What subjects are Couch Subjects™? Of course, you can study anything you want as a family on the couch. But typically these are Bible, History, Read-Alouds, and Science.

Give yourself a good block of time for this. My kids range from kindergarten to sixth grade, and we spend almost an hour every morning on couch subjects. I don’t skimp in this area because it’s everyone’s favorite time of day.

3. Block Time for the 3R’s

The best tip I have for teaching multiple levels is to block your time. We have a Math Block and a Literacy Block. During this hour, I rotate kids through in 15 minute lessons in math and language arts (reading, phonics, writing, language arts). In this way, I’m able to teach my Kindergartner through my sixth grader individually.

Sonlight calls these skill-based topics the Table Subjects™.

When my children aren’t busy on a lesson with me, they are either doing an independent assignment, a computer game, or a math card game. If you set up a flow and make your expectations clear, you’ll find that the kids catch on pretty quickly, and you’ll be speeding along before you know it.

4. Allow for Breaks in Your Homeschool Schedule

Study after study shows that kids need breaks to move and explore. Even if you are a power-through type, your children will need breaks. Of course it depends on age, but for elementary school age children, I recommend at least a mid-morning break, an after lunch break, and a mid-afternoon break of approximately 30 minutes each.

5. Maximize Your Time

Think efficiency. What is the most efficient use of every part of your day? Can you do a Read-Aloud during snack time or lunch? Do you travel during the day? Can you get an audiobook to listen to in the car? Maybe you can do some map work during breakfast. Always think of ways to maximize your school day.

6. Think Outside the Box

I’m a big fan of being outside the box. It’s where the best ideas happen. This applies to homeschool scheduling too! Don’t fall into the trap that you have to follow the Instructor’s Guide perfectly. You don’t!

Maybe it works better for you to take care of the entire week’s science on Friday. Maybe your children would really enjoy Science Camp in the summer. You might need more flexibility in your daily schedule. If so, consider trying a year round schedule with plenty of breaks.

My School Day as an Example

This year, we are taking the full day approach. We are early risers, so we begin at 8:00 every morning. Here’s how our schedule goes:

8:00 Couch Subjects™

8:30  Science

9:00  Math Block

10:00 Recess

10:30 Morning Snack & Read Aloud

11:00  Literacy Block

12:00  Lunch

12:30  Recess

1:00  History / Bible / Literature B

2:00  History / Bible / Literature F

3:00 Clean Up and Recess

Scheduling can be intimidating, but keep in mind that there’s no one way to schedule your day. Every family is different, and the best schedule is one that works for you.

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Teaching Cursive Handwriting: The Benefits of Writing by Hand

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Teaching Cursive Handwriting: The Benefits of Writing by Hand

Is learning cursive still relevant?

In an era of keyboards, tablets and smartphones, is learning cursive writing still relevant? Common Core standards for public school do not require cursive writing instruction for elementary students. On the other hand, some states have rallied against this changing tide, arguing that cursive writing is necessary for students to be able to read historic documents and to produce a legible signature. In fact, 14 states have passed laws requiring cursive proficiency in public schools.

So I ask myself, as perhaps you do, what approach should we take in our homeschooling? Is it time to write off cursive as a relic of the past or does learning handwriting—and cursive specifically—have benefits we would miss? Should we be teaching cursive handwriting to our children?

The Benefits of Writing by Hand

As I have reviewed what scientists and educators have had to say about this question, some are pointing to surprising benefits of writing by hand.

In her NY Times article What's Lost as Handwriting Fades, Maria Konnikova says: “Children not only learn to read more quickly when they first learn to write by hand, but they also remain better able to generate ideas and retain information. In other words, it’s not just what we write that matters — but how.”

Dr. William Klemm says in Psychology Today that “Cursive writing helps train the brain to integrate visual, and tactile information, and fine motor dexterity."

I recently found this article Ten reasons people still need to learn cursive quite persuasive. I encourage you to read the full article, for I was struck by the ways handwriting helps children learn. Let me share a few highlights from it with you. Perhaps you can be encouraged, as I was, regarding some of the benefits of the handwriting instruction you likely already provide your children.

1. Brain Connections from Cursive Handwriting

Cursive coordinates right and left brain connections in ways that typing and printing do not. This encourages different parts of the brain to "talk to each other" and carries similar brain benefits to that of playing a musical instrument.

According to Dr. Virginia Berlinger, "When we write by hand, we have to execute sequential strokes to form a letter—something that brain scans shows activate the regions involved in thinking, language, and working memory. Cursive accelerates the benefits."

2. Multilingual by Hand

Children should be "multilingual by hand." Because printing, typing, and cursive writing each light up different parts of the brain, Dr. Berlinger states that children should be "multilingual by hand" and learn all three.

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3. Handwriting as Foundation for Letter Recognition

Handwriting helps kids learn their letters more effectively than keyboarding or sight recognition alone by using both the hand and the brain (fine motor with cognitive recognition).

The process of hitting a key to type the letter B on a keyboard is the same process as hitting a key to type the letter T. But the strokes involved in writing by hand are unique. Dr. William Klemm says, “Cursive writing, compared to printing, is even more beneficial because the movement tasks are more demanding, the letters are less stereotypical, and the visual recognition requirements create a broader repertoire of letter representation.”

4. Special Needs Learners and Cursive Handwriting

Cursive writing practice may help kids with special needs. The exercise of cursive writing may improve language fluency for students with dyslexia or dysgraphia because of the fluid motion and connected letters.

Beyond the skill of writing, it seems that even the process and motion of writing can actually help children learn more effectively, organize ideas, and remember what they have learned.

“When we write, a unique neural circuit is automatically activated,” said Stanislas Dehaene, a psychologist at the Collège de France in Paris. “There is a core recognition of the gesture in the written word, a sort of recognition by mental simulation in your brain. And it seems that this circuit is contributing in unique ways we didn’t realize. Learning is made easier."

Forming Letters and Shaping Brains with Cursive Handwriting

As you help your children learn cursive, you are not only connecting them to their history (from the ability to read their grandparents’ letters to the Declaration of Independence), you are also helping them integrate their learning, absorb information, and process their thoughts. You are helping their dexterity and aiding brain connections they need to form letters and to form ideas. And you can reap those benefits from the simple handwriting resources scheduled for you by Sonlight. Perhaps some of these hidden benefits of learning handwriting will give you confidence that you are doing everything you can to help your children thrive.

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Creative Writing: The Main Goal of All Language Arts Instruction

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Creative Writing: The Main Goal of All Language Arts Instruction

This is, perhaps, the main goal of all Language Arts instruction—the ability to put original thoughts down on paper or creative writing. But even here, different writing programs have opposite ideas about what makes for good writing.

Some programs emphasize simplicity and clarity. Other programs emphasize flowery, dressed up speech with lots of adjectives. And although this is not normally a technique professional editors recommend, many families delight to see their children’s work filled with impressive words.

So even before you begin teaching writing, how do you decide on even a basic direction to go? Well, what kind of writing do you enjoy reading? Go with your intuition.

A huge part of good writing involves listening to good books. If your children have heard quality sentences for years, you’ll find those quality speech patterns naturally inside them. Not impressed yet with the complexity of the sentences your 5-year-old produces? She is so young yet! Give her more years of listening to good books, and her prose will naturally improve.

“Creative Writing” in itself, though, covers such a wide range of disciplines.

  • Interpersonal communication: business letters, emails, social media posts.
  • Nonfiction reports: everything from a paragraph describing one’s understanding of the latest news report to a doctoral dissertation, the ability to research and synthesize your findings.
  • Creative endeavors: novels, poetry, plays.

Over the course of a life, creative writing might also include memoirs and other autobiographical writing (“What I Did Last Summer”), news reports from sports to society, business writing from proposals to PowerPoint, note-taking during lectures and sermons, and so on.

How to Teach Writing, Step by Step

How do you prepare your children for writing?

Happily, you don’t have to create assignments from scratch. Various programs, including Sonlight, have assignments by grade and ability.

But a general progression might look something like this:

In early elementary, your children come up with creative storylines in their play, or re-enact a story they’ve heard or seen. If you are willing to act as scribe, have them tell you the story and you record it.

Fiction creative writing can continue as long as the children enjoy it. Not all children will. Some are matter-of fact engineers and scientists who don’t want to get in touch with their feelings or write about lost puppies. That’s fine. Most of the writing in the world is not fiction.

Teaching Research Writing

You can start teaching your children how to write nonfiction in later elementary. You could begin by assigning a short research reports. In Sonlight F, the study of the Eastern Hemisphere, students write mini-reports on things as endangered species in China. Let them learn about red-crowned cranes, translating a few paragraphs of description online into a paragraph or two.

That’s research!

Then you can teach your children how to do more advanced research. If they want to know about elephants, you can provide paper and sticky notes, and look online and in books (either from your personal collection or at the local library). When they find the answer to the questions they want to know, they record the answers and cite the sources.

In high school, they may find something they really want to know about. Perhaps  something prompted from their own life, or something they read about that captures their interest. So they spend more time learning about it.

That’s really all a research paper is—investigating something that you find interesting.


If there is one skill with incredible potential to reward any student who pursues it, it’s the art of writing.


Sarita’s daughter Amy thought she hated research papers, and was surprised, in her 20s, when someone said, “You love research!”

And it was true—when there was a topic that Amy liked, she pursued it wholeheartedly, and enjoyed summarizing what she learned to all who would listen. But having learned about “research” in her years before homeschooling, she had grown up thinking “research” was somehow related to post-it notes and specifically formatted attributions; that it required painful trips to the library and late nights of tears.

Happily, no! Research is looking things up until you have the knowledge you want.

Who would have thought it could be that easy?

Trying New Things for Homeschool Writing

Also in high school, your children get to experiment with various forms of creative writing. Though they might not be thrilled to write a sonnet, it’s not a bad assignment to try once in a lifetime. Same with a movie review, or an essay analyzing a work of literature.

All of this is good, and also part of education—exposing a child to something they haven’t tried before.

Sarita’s grandson Abraham loves to draw. He does cartoons with colored pencils. When he is given an assignment from ARTistic Pursuits, initially he balks. But then he invariably says, “Oh! This is more fun than I thought it would be!”

It’s good to be exposed to new things, to be stretched to write in new ways.

Final Thoughts About Homeschool Writing

In an ideal world, children would be enthusiastic to practice writing every day. Parents would have clarity on the most efficient and enjoyable way to get their children writing. And we would all communicate perfectly, without any misinformation or confusion. Since we don’t live in the ideal world, though, you do the best you can with what you have. You recognize that the world’s best writers write every day because they love it, and often because they are compelled to.

You have peace that if your children don’t learn absolutely everything before they graduate, all is not lost. And you strive to encourage your children to be the best communicators they can be during these precious years that you have them.

A Beginner’s Blueprint to Language Arts: The No-stress Guide to Teaching Language Arts with Purpose

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When to Begin Teaching Language Arts in Your Homeschool

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As you think about teaching Language Arts, you might feel intimidated. There are so many things to share, and your own education might have left you a little uncertain of your ability to teach Language Arts adequately.

But here’s all that Language Arts is: the ability to think well and write those thoughts clearly, so that others can understand your thoughts.

This umbrella of language arts encompasses all of these topics:

Better Late Than Early for Language Arts

In the United States, many courses of instruction begin in kindergarten (or before), so that a child who has not already made significant progress in reading by the start of first grade is considered “behind.” The United States is not ranked very high in education—in many cases, not even in the top 25 worldwide. Many countries with higher ranking take child development more into account. Recognizing that eye development isn’t finished until around age 7, high-ranked countries delay reading instruction, emphasizing more creative play in the earlier years.

This concept is also known as “better late than early.” With this method, your children are allowed to learn when their bodies and minds are ready. One analogy is like digging a hole in the Arctic Tundra. You could go out in January and start chipping away at the rock solid icy soil. A quarter inch a day, with much toil, and by summer you might have a fence post hole. Or you could wait until the summer thaw,and dig the hole in a day.

With either method, you get the same end result; with better late than early, you can take advantage of your children’s natural readiness. For many, waiting to “dig a hole” at the perfect time sounds great. If you’re fairly confident you’ll be homeschooling until middle school at least, you might consider this method. Middle school is a good rule of thumb for when the intentionally delayed students catch up to their early starting peers.

When Not to Delay Language Arts

Reasons you might not want to start later? If you are expecting to integrate your children back into public school probably seek to keep your children on grade level as much as possible, even if there might be a few more tears and some extra frustration. Or if you wonder if you’re dealing with some sort of learning disability. In that case, better to get started on therapy as soon as possible. Or if you have an eager child who begged to write at age three, and was sounding out words at age four. No need to hold that child back!

Or if you find it exhausting to go against society’s norms. There’s no shame in this.

  • You might have relatives who quiz your children or otherwise second guess your abilities.
  • You might be required by your state to test your children annually, and you know it will distress you if your children have a poor showing (even though you know rationally that you’re not trying to go by Common Core expectations).
  • You might not be confident in your own abilities, and want to give yourself as much time as possible.

Starting to Put These Skills Together

So, when is the best time to start teaching language arts in your homeschool? At some point between the ages of 4 and 8, depending on your family’s needs.

Once a child can read, write, spell, and has a bit of grammar knowledge, you can introduce copywork. Give your elementary child a sentence to copy (something from the book of Proverbs, for example), and let the child have some practice combining all the separate skills of handwriting, reading, spelling, and grammar into one task: writing.

Again, the timeline for your children can vary according to how they are progressing with all the other tasks. This isn’t simple! So many new skills are needed. After several years of practice, you can introduce dictation. This means that after your children have reviewed a sentence, you read it aloud to them and have them write it, using all their knowledge of handwriting, spelling, and grammar.

This is a challenging task! Expect your children to make some mistakes! That means they are learning.

A note about learning: A good rule of thumb for life is that learning happens when you’re succeeding more than half the time, but not getting 100%. So if your children make mistakes on even three out of ten words or punctuations, that means they’re getting seven right, and their brains are working at peak efficiency for learning. If your children are making no errors, clearly their work is too easy, and if they are succeeding only rarely, the work is too difficult.

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Are You Working for the Lord in Your Homeschool?

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Are You Working for the Lord in Your Homeschool?

When it comes to your homeschool, have you considered who you are working for? It is a question worth asking because it determines the vision for your homeschool. Without vision, your homeschool is likely to derail as resentment blossoms like an undesired patch of poison ivy. It will cover you with frustration and exasperation until you look around, wondering what robbed you of the joy you used to have in your homeschool atmosphere.

This year as the back to school season was upon me, I felt the pressure mounting. The truth is I am not one of those homeschool moms who gets overjoyed by the thought of school starting. I love the books, but the rest of homeschooling trips me up. I love my kids, our curriculum, and being together each day; however, I do not always love getting back into a school routine and leaving behind the carefree days of summer.

One morning my feelings of inadequacy began to surface as I was dusting the nooks and crannies of our school room. Although I poured out my heavy heart on my husband’s shoulder, I came to no solutions to my problems—only the will to continue despite my overwhelmed state of mind.

Feeling a Huge Burden of Homeschooling

We resolved to spend the evening on a much needed break with our usual date at home—movie and Chinese take out. Praise and worship music blaring, I drove home with my sweet and sour pork in tow when a train at the railroad crossing stopped me.

Waiting for a train is pretty ordinary where we live, but something inside made me turn off the radio and open the windows. It was a cool, silent night, and I listened to the wheels of the train grinding, hissing, and pounding on the tracks. Then it occurred to me—I felt like the tracks with the weight of my own burdensome train pressing down hard on me.

It’s exhausting trying to do both the job of the wheels—rolling that train forward—as well as the job of the tracks, directing where the train should go.

It is this moment, God whispered a quiet message into my heart…

"You are not the tracks, I am. Who are you working for?"

God is the tracks, guiding me on.

God Helps Me Bear Those Burdens

I was not created to carry the weight of life’s circumstances or in my case, my homeschool, on my own. Since God has directed me down this path, I must trust that He will prepare a way for me to do it, releasing my worries to the One who is in complete control.

“Whatever you do, work at it with all your heart, as working for the Lord, not for human masters” Colossians 3:23

When I forget I am working for the Lord, it is easy for my attitude to take a turn for the worse.

  1. When I work for my husband, I get resentful when he doesn’t pull his weight.
  2. When I work for my children, I get angry when they aren’t thankful for everything I do for them.
  3. When I work for the approval of others, I get upset when they are unkind about the decisions we make for our family.
  4. When I work for myself, I am my own worst critic, berating myself when I fall short of my own impossible standards.

What We Gain When We Work for the Lord in Our Homeschools

1. Glory

When we do the work that God has placed before us with our whole hearts, our lives reflect His glory!

"I glorified You on the earth, having accomplished the work which You have given Me to do.” John 17:4

2. Wisdom

If Jesus is the the object of our affection as we go about our work each day, He will give us the wisdom we need when we need it.

“Remember the Lord in everything you do, and he will show you the right way.” Proverbs 3:6

3. Peace

God cares for us and wants us to give our worries and anxiety to Him. How many jobs offer the option to cast our cares back to our boss? Not many!

God urges us to bring our worries directly to Him through prayer  and then rest peacefully, knowing we can trust in Him.

“Cast all your anxiety on him because he cares for you.” 1 Peter 5:7

“You will keep in perfect peace those whose minds are steadfast, because they trust in you.” Isaiah 26:3

4. Strength

Throughout the school year, it is easy to grow weary in our role as both mom and teacher. Those are the moments I trust Jesus will give me the strength to do what I need to do as well as fill in the gaps where I fall short.

“So do not fear, for I am with you; do not be dismayed, for I am your God. I will strengthen you and help you, I will uphold you with my righteous right hand.” Isaiah 41:10

5. Abundance

By pouring ourselves out through service towards God and the purpose placed on our lives, we, too, will receive an abundance poured out on us. This isn’t always instant gratification. Instead it is a future promise from God which we must choose to trust in.

“Give, and it will be given to you. A good measure, pressed down, shaken together and running over, will be poured into your lap. For with the measure you use, it will be measured to you.” Luke 6:38

It isn’t always easy to think this way about my day, but it has certainly changed my perspective. This school year, I am striving to start each day with the mentality that I am working for the Lord with my whole heart!

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Moving from Exhaustion to Rhythms of Rest in Your Homeschool Life

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Stillness isn’t going to spontaneously combust out of our chaotic schedules. We must fight to make it a priority.

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10 Ways Your Instructor's Guide Can Flex for Your Homeschool

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Your Sonlight Instructor's Guide can flex, giving you a framework for your homeschool upon which you can modify, add to, and take away from.

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