One Hundred and one years...

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This past week a friend of mine died at the age of one hundred and one years old.

She was born in 1912; the same year the Titanic sank and New Mexico and Arizona became states.  Minnie, her husband and first child left Minnesota around 1935 to participate in a part of the New Deal  to colonize the Alaskan Territory. They were 20th century pioneers

They eventually moved back to Minnesota, had three more children, and together ran a successful turkey farm with Minnie also working as a registered nurse. They were pioneers when the pioneer days were over.  Minnie had strength of character, strength of body and strength of mind which were an inspiration to all. When I think about what she saw and experienced in her 101 years I am in awe of how well she used every day.

Person after person told of kind deeds she had done, meals she had provided, prayers she had said, mission trips she had taken, encouraging words she had said, books she had read, lively conversations they had had with her, her love for her family and for nature. The list of her service and sacrifice to others went on and on.  Everyone said the same thing, “She had a life well lived.”

Many in her family said that her goal was to live a life that would guide those who came behind to follow Christ. What a legacy to leave to those who knew her!

As I was thinking about Minnie, I realized I could say many of these same things about many homeschooling parents I meet. They are pioneers in an age when pioneering is over. They have strength of character, body and mind. They are well read, faithful men and women living life well, encouraging others and loving their family as they live each day. They are living their lives to guide those who come behind to follow Christ.

As I think of you moms and dad that read this, I pray that your family will be blessed by your acts of kindness, service and sacrifice. May you live your life in such a way that others will say, “They had a life well lived.”

Good-bye Minnie. Till we meet again,

Jill

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Why do people want their babies to be adults?

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LiveChat_sizedThis is one of my most favorite, but also most frustrating, times of year. Spring is just around the corner, our new catalog has just released, and people are beginning to emerge from their winter "slumber" to consider their curriculum choices for the coming school year. I love being part of our teams that talk with families about their school plans.

Today I'm helping out our Advisor team as they man our Live Chat feature. It's exciting to talk with moms and dads who are just considering the possibility of homeschooling, or who are returning to plan for their next year with Sonlight. But every year, without fail, we ask ourselves the question ... "why do people want their babies to be adults?" We chat with so many folks who are looking for formal curriculum programs for their 16 month, 18 month, or two year old children, and wonder why they want to grow their children up so quickly?

Please don't misunderstand ... our team is large and varied enough that we have some who have homeschooled advanced/gifted children. One of my own children began reading quite complex chapter books at a very young age. So it's not a denial that there are students who are accelerated in their ability to learn, but rather a desire to help moms/dads avoid stress in their own lives, and frustration in their child's life.

Dr. Raymond Moore, in research for one of his books, states In addition to our basic research at Stanford and the University of Colorado Medical School, we analyzed over 8000 studies of children's senses, brain, cognition, socialization, etc., and are certain that no replicable evidence exists for rushing children into formal study at home or school before 8 or 10.

Now that doesn't mean that you leave a young, bright, inquisitive child to be bored. Fill his/her hours with reading great books, lots of physical activity, helping mom and/or dad around the house, opportunities to serve others, etc... Instead of the latest electronic toys, give them playthings that will help them learn to work and be creative ... pots, pans, wooden spoons, paper, chalk, crayons, good books. I remember my children being most content sitting on my kitchen rug playing with muffin tins and large beads and blocks. Their imaginations just flourished!

I remember how excited I was to begin school with our oldest child. I also remember good friends who were a bit further down the parenting/homeschooling path than I was, encouraging me to not rush the process, and to let my daughter be a child, for adulthood was going to come all too soon.

Do a Google search on "kids grow up too fast" and you'll be amazed at the volume of studies and reports that are concerned with this generation's propensity to rush adulthood on their children. Perhaps we can help reverse that trend! Check out Sonlight's Preschool options and read, read, read to your children.

As Louise May Alcott wrote in Little Women ... Don't try to make me grow up before my time.

Still on the journey ...
~Judy Wnuk
Sonlight Customer Champion

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Misery from the Belief in the Value of Education

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The group of us stood motionless, trapped in the concrete boots of chastisement. We had been a tad rowdy and the poor mother running the homeschool co-op music lesson had finally had enough. So she threw us out of class. That experience was disorienting to me as a student, but I'm guessing it was devastating to our teacher.

She had been unable to impart to us the joy of creating music. We had been unwilling to take the lesson seriously. And since there is value in learning to play an instrument, we had squandered an opportunity. Our teacher was miserable because we--unintentionally--had rejected her instruction.

I was reminded of this experience when I bumped into a quote attributed to Bill Watterson (creator of Calvin & Hobbes):

I have a lot of sympathy for Miss Wormwood. ... I think she seriously believes in the value of education, so needless to say, she's an unhappy person.

How can believing in the value of education make someone unhappy? If your attempts are foiled day in and day out, that would be rather miserable.

I think it's interesting that Bill assumes teachers who believe in education are unhappy. Are that many students failing to fall in love with learning? That would be a reasonable assumption. But striving for academic excellence isn't a bad thing. Perhaps the problem is rooted in the focus on "education" rather than life-long learning. If Miss Wormwood is trying to cram knowledge into Calvin's mind, she's going to fail. But if she could find a way to tap into his imagination, he would soar.

 ~Luke Holzmann
Filmmaker, Writer, Empty Nester

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What's the Worst That Could Happen?

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A few days ago I flew to Colorado to represent Sonlight at the Spring Curriculum Fair in Loveland. It was my first of six events for the season. I had been to the Loveland conference several other years, but this was the first time I traveled there alone. Other years my husband had done the driving and we made a family road trip out of it. This year, for various reasons, I decided to fly. Time-wise it was much more efficient to do it that way, but there were many details to think about and plan. Things I usually depend on my husband to do for me.

First, I had to pack up my booth display materials and have them shipped a week in advance. Once I arrived in Denver, I needed to rent a mini-van. After that I had to drive an hour north, find and check into my hotel, and load up the 11 boxes of display materials to take to the convention venue. When I got there I needed to unload and carry in my boxes before I could start setting up my booth. After the convention was over it was time to tear down the booth, repack the boxes, load them back into the van, find the closest FedEx drop-off, unload the boxes again... and the most stressful part? Drive back to the airport, drop off my rental van, and make it through security in time to fly home that night.

Needless to say, it was a nerve-wracking weekend for me. I have a tendency to worry about all the things that could go wrong. What if my boxes didn't make it? What if I got lost? What if I had a flat tire? What if I ran out of time and missed my flight?

But you know what? That kind of thinking is crippling. If I dwelt on all the negative possibilities I would never do anything new or different. I would never go outside of my comfort zone. So every time I found myself worrying about what might go wrong, I would stop and think: "Okay. Suppose that did happen. Then what would I do? What's the Plan B?" Having a contingency plan helped calm me down considerably.

Despite the stress, the weekend went smoothly. I had a lovely time at the convention. I made it back to the airport on Saturday evening with an extra hour to spare. And the experience was good for me.

Last week my daughter had a couple of job interviews that she was nervous about. She was also invited to a friend's house she had never been to about 30 miles away. She needed to drive there alone and it was snowing. So she started worrying... Apparently, the apple doesn't fall far from the tree after all.

In trying to encourage her, I was able to say, "Let me tell you about my experience last weekend..." None of this, "Now, when I was your age..." Isn't it interesting how our comfort zones keep getting stretched all throughout our lives?

 Guess what? My daughter's adventures all went smoothly, too.

There's something very satisfying about doing "hard" things, isn't there?

Enjoying the adventure,
~Karla Cook
Lifelong Learner

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From Luke's Inbox: Sonlight and Sex and Swearing

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I just read the blog post Appalled that I bought utter filth & gave it to my children. She has daughters who are more sensitive than my high school/middle school boys, but this is still disconcerting. I ditch several books a year, but do miss some. Perhaps "questionable content" should be added to the book descriptions online? I give my boys the manual and they take off with it -- I need to be able to trust Sonlight!

I had not yet seen that blog post. Thanks for passing it along. Unfortunately, this blogger and I simply disagree as to what is acceptable and what is not. Sonlight is clearly NOT a good fit for this family. I regularly urge people to read the 27 Reasons NOT to Buy Sonlight article; if you want to avoid offensive content at all costs, Sonlight is not for you. Sonlight carries books that some homeschoolers won't touch. I think we have completely valid and beneficial reasons for doing so. But if you disagree, please find your curriculum elsewhere! As I often say, I'm far more concerned with you loving your homeschool experience than I am with selling you curriculum packages.

We've had a number of requests that we give greater detail as to what "questionable content" means for each title we carry. And some day we may figure out how to do just that. We absolutely want to better serve homeschool families. The difficulty arises when people have such wildly different tolerances. For example, anyone who has attended the high school up the street from my house has already been exposed to even filthier "forms of foul language and sexual content" ...and those words typically came from the mouths of Freshmen trying to prove their "maturity." If we can't be around such things, how can we bring these kids God's grace? Christ was a friend of sinners; may we be the same.

Frankly, the sexual content in Sonlight's titles is hardly shocking if you've read your Bible. What if all the men in a city--young and old--surrounded a house demanding to have sex with the male travelers within? That happens. Twice. Incest? Yep. Not to mention rape, public sexuality, and other despicable things. And these are passages in Scripture! Clearly there is benefit to reading such accounts. So I'm open to there being benefit to reading such things in your homeschool materials as well.

But you know your children better than I do. If they are not yet prepared to handle this kind of thing, please do what is best for them! Sonlight is committed to helping you raise enthusiastic, life-long learners who are motivated to follow God wherever He leads them. But depending on what you mean by the word, you may not be able to "trust" Sonlight. I'm reminded of an oft-quoted passage from Narnia:

"Is he--quite safe?"
"Who said anything about safe? 'Course he isn't safe. But he's good."

If I could be so bold as to draw a comparison: Sonlight's curriculum isn't safe, but I believe it is good.

As always, I'm open to more discussion. Please feel free to share your thoughts! And, remember: You know your children, so do what is best for them. The world is a disconcerting place, full of evil and desperate need. May we be those who, guided by the Holy Spirit, bring Christ's redemption to even the darkest places of the world.

 ~Luke Holzmann
Filmmaker, Writer, Empty Nester

P.S. I have written similar responses to questions about socialism and the occult which you may also be interested to read. Sonlight does things differently, and I believe we are better for it.

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How Presuppositions Control What We Do at Sonlight

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I got thinking the other day: When I say "I believe in Jesus," what I'm really saying is "I believe He is who He says He is. I choose to align myself with His goals. I am playing on His team."

In other words, what we believe determines—or, at least, it ought to determine—how we act. If it doesn't, we probably don't actually believe it. So I asked myself: At Sonlight, does what we believe determine what we do?

I think it does. It determines everything from the curriculum we create to the way we interact with co-workers.

A foundational belief for us at Sonlight is that God creates people for a purpose. We aren't here to just have fun, be successful and live comfortable lives. I believe we are here to help bring God's Kingdom to earth, through ministering spiritually and physically to this broken, hurting world.

I believe education plays a vital role in that. So I thought I'd share just two of our underlying assumptions about education that determine who we are at Sonlight.

  1. Education should help children develop their gifts and become equipped to do whatever God calls them to do to further His Kingdom.


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    This is so dear to my heart. Whenever I join a prayer group at the Sonlight office, they hear me offer the same basic prayer: Lord, may our kids [i.e., all Sonlight kids] be fully equipped and fully prepared for whatever you call them to do.

    Education shouldn't just help kids get good grades and test scores. It should help them become who God created them to be.

    I'm here to tell you I believe homeschooling is an optimal way to bring that about. Parents have the flexibility to help their kids succeed academically – advancing quickly in one subject and going slower in another as needed.

    Homeschooling also gives kids time to explore and follow their talents and interests. With so much more free time than traditionally-schooled students, homeschooled children have time for unstructured free play. They have time to learn computer programming or dive into serious art study. They have time to explore one thing and then move on to another. So often, God uses these interests to guide children into their callings as adults.

    One way Sonlight helps children discover and develop their gifts is through offering so many electives – art, music, computer programming, foreign language, college prep, critical thinking and more. I love what Luke wrote this week about how to help kids follow their interests: give them resources and role models. I completely agree.

    But we don't want kids to develop their gifts just for self-serving purposes. Instead, Sonlight helps spark a passion in your children to seek out what God is calling them to do … and to do it. Our curriculum is full of stories of ordinary people who saw needs around them, followed God's call and ended up transforming their world. I think of Gladys Aylward, David Livingstone, Mary Slessor, William Wilberforce … the list goes on and on. Even fiction characters in Sonlight's programs show kids that they can develop their gifts and do great things.

    Our heart behind Sonlight is to inspire kids who grow up and do great things – not for their own glory, but for the glory of God and the sake of serving real needs in our hurting world.

  2. Every child is naturally curious and can love to learn. Education should help nurture that love to learn.

    Since we believe education should equip children to do whatever God calls them to do, we believe education should also fuel children's natural love to learn. Why?

    Students simply cannot learn everything they need to know before high school graduation; we must give them a love to learn and thus prepare them to be life-long learners. You will never succeed at "force-feeding" a complete education to a child. There is too much to learn in the world!

    If we are to prepare kids for their callings, we must equip them to keep learning after they leave home. If children want to be doctors, missionaries, filmmakers, homeschool parents … whatever their call may be, they will need to keep learning as adults.

    You'll see this presupposition play out at Sonlight through the materials we pick. We don't only find workbooks that teach the minimum so you can check it off your list. Instead, we carefully select books and create a curriculum that helps kids love to learn.

    We want our materials to be colorful, interesting and winsome. Have you read your fellow homeschoolers' Box Day Stories? They're snapshots of the excitement when families receive their new Sonlight homeschool materials. Now, how many companies do you know who provide Box Day experiences like that?

    Sonlight uses very few textbooks. Instead we use compelling stories, we use science experiments and math manipulatives. And this is all done for a purpose. We want to focus in on the fact that kids are curious and love to learn. We don't ever want to beat that out of our kids. We don't want them to get done with school and say I'm never cracking a book again.

    Instead, we want to inspire kids that learning is fun, useful and exciting. Then they'll be ready to keep learning and keep moving toward whatever God is calling them to.

So there you have it – just two of the presuppositions behind who we are at Sonlight. Do you share these assumptions? What core beliefs determine your own approach to life and education? I'd love for you to share with me …

Blessings to you!
Sarita

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The Myth of a Standardized Education

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Her pale blue eyes burn icy cold as she recounts her latest test results. "They changed professors three days before the test. How does that make sense? It's good that they let the other professor go, he wasn't teaching us anything, but they shouldn't have given us our new teacher's test. She actually teaches us stuff, but we hadn't learned any of that yet!"

We are people, not robots. With a robot, we can send a properly coded command and the machine will execute as directed. Make another robot like the first and you'll get the same results. Build a factory to replicate these machines, and you'll get a bunch of uniform actions. This is great for tools like cars and computers and cellphones. But we humans are a tricky bunch. We filter and react to the world differently. And teachers don't teach raw information. Instead, they teach to their test.

This isn't really a problem unless you're hoping to create a standardized education.

In the real world, we need to learn how to adapt to the varying needs of those around us. And with a lifetime of learning ahead of us, we couldn't possibly teach everything there is to know in a few short years. There will be gaps. And if you were to, somehow, create an education that teaches everyone the same material, you'd just have a uniformly ignorant group.

But a standardized education isn't possible. Teachers will emphasize the things they are passionate about and gloss over the elements that seem less important. Classes, not to mention students, will move through the content at different speeds. Let us pretend, for a moment, that we agreed every 4 year old needed to know that 1+1=2. What if a child came to us who didn't know this fact but had already learned to read? What do we do with a child who, like me, couldn't read until well after the "acceptable" time frame? If we decide to cast them off as freaks or failures, we still don't have a standardized education. We have the masses who are "on board" and the outcasts who have been left in the ocean.

If test results change when you get a new teacher with a new test, you don't have a standardized education. The sooner we admit this, the more quickly we can release our students to soar in the life-long journey of learning. Abandon this mad pursuit of a standardized education in favor of the far more useful drive to inspire a life-long love of learning.

As homeschoolers, we're giving our students a non-standard education. Embrace that. The same is true of great professors at top universities around the world.

 ~Luke Holzmann
Filmmaker, Writer, Empty Nester

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