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Sonlight booth in Cincinnati

I love homeschool conventions. They are exciting, busy places that renew my faith in parenting and give me hope for America. At conventions dedicated parents come together to learn, think and to engage with others who want to raise their children to be the best they can be. We homeschool parents are dreamers. We have big dreams for our children and their future and we have big dreams for ourselves.

Sometimes our dreams and expectations work against us because we can’t possibly live up to the expectations we have for ourselves. Every year when I attend conventions I am humbled by the incredible parents I meet, and also a little saddened that so many feel inadequate to educate their own children.

More than once I have had mothers crying in my booth because they are so overwhelmed with all the curriculum and educational choices. They feel torn between literature based curriculum, classical methods, the Charlotte Mason approach, workbooks, textbooks, unit studies, and a host of others. What if they make a mistake? What if they mess their kids up? What if they fail their kids altogether? I think we have all asked these questions at one time or another, but somehow going to a homeschool convention sometimes makes parents think that there is one magic way to homeschool out there and they just have to find it.

I don’t think so.

I think that you do the best you can, taking into consideration your temperament, time and talents and then go for it. If you find it doesn’t work as well as you thought, you can always change and do something else later. You aren’t married to a curriculum.

I was at the Midwest Convention in Cincinnati in last month and had a very vivacious mom ask me for help. She was overwhelmed by all the choices but she had decided that Sonlight was the curriculum she wanted.  The problem was that she felt confused as to how to make it work for her family. We chatted for a while, looked ahead a few years, assessed her children’s needs and then made an educational plan that seemed reasonable... combining the children where we could and putting them in separate ability-level subjects where necessary. She jotted down some notes and soon she felt confident that she would have a great school year next year.

As we were finishing up our discussion, she turned to me with a big smile and said, “Thanks so much. You have un-overwhelmed me.”

Un-overwhelmed. I love the word picture that paints. I love the essence of that word. Doesn't it breathe hope into a hopeless situation and make you think of ocean breezes and quiet times with your family?

If you would like to be un-overwhelmed and feel like there are too many choices, too many variables and you want to chat with someone that can help you figure out what could work for your family, please contact a Sonlight Advisor or go to the Sonlighter Club Choosing Forum.* You will get the help you need and can be un-overwhelmed and ready to have a great 2013 school year.

Blessings,

Jill

*You will have to register to get on the Sonlighter Club Forums, but you can ask questions and get answers on the Choosing Forum without earning or purchasing a membership.

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Alliances and Ideology

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Maybe it was the post about the future of the Quiverfull movement. Perhaps it was browsing a site that referenced a Sonlight blog post while warning parents to beware of evolutionary theories. It could be that I've been discussing highly divisive topics for the past couple of weeks with friends and coworkers. Another possibility is that the politics on Facebook and in my inbox finally got under my skin just enough to push me into thinking about this kind of thing. Whatever the cause(s), the difference in Sonlight's approach has me really excited.

What's the difference?

Sonlight seeks to help you educate, not indoctrinate.

So much of what I see in myself and public discourse and private thought is driven by fear and feelings. There is nothing wrong with being prudent or using emotional checks to make sure that the logical doesn't override the good (such as in the Laws of Robotics). But may we never get so entangled in our political alliances or pet ideologies that we fail to seek the truth. Indeed, as we focus on learning, we discover that the more we know about other ideas the more effectively we can communicate our own thinking and modify our position to better align with reality. Education, then, is learning what is true, not acquiring a particular set of beliefs. I'd rather believe the truth.

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May we all, as we learn alongside our children, continue to draw ever closer to the Truth Himself. And may what we learn push us to be more like Him so we can shine as lights in this dark world and inspire people to give glory to our Father in heaven.

That urges me onward. May you continue in the good work you are doing as well.

 ~Luke Holzmann
Filmmaker, Writer, Empty Nester

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Want a Fee-Free 9-month Payment Plan? Order Today.

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Hard to believe April is drawing to a close. As we come to the end of this month, your opportunity to take advantage of Sonlight's 9-month Time Payment plans is also coming to an end for this year. If you want to spread the cost of your curriculum over the next nine months, order before the end of April 30.


Payment Plans

Not ready to buy yet? Heading to a homeschool convention in the next couple months? Need more time to pray about your options? Have a few extra questions to discuss with a Sonlight Advisor?

No problem.

The 3-month option is available all year, and you have through June to take advantage of a 6-month Time Payment plan at no additional charge.

 ~Luke Holzmann
Filmmaker, Writer, Empty Nester

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When the world goes crazy ...

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April 15th began much like any other day, and ended with details and images of the Boston Marathon bombings flashing across TV and computer screens, newspapers and Twitter feeds. We watched the drama unfold throughout the next few days, and wondered in what kind of world are our children growing up?

In the aftermath of those recent events, we watched for the inevitable conspiracy theories, finger-pointing, and blame-laying. We wondered who to believe, and what was merely sensational journalism. An interesting article, titled How We Talk About the Boston Marathon Bombing - and Why It Matters, appeared in the Time News Feed. It gives a fascinating look into the intentional use of certain words and phrases by both the President and the media, when discussing the horrific events. Quoting linguist and English professor Sandra Silberstein, the article states In times of national crisis, Silberstein says, the President and the media often use language that creates an “us” and a “them” — a set of victims and a set of terrorizers, good guys and bad guys.

As homeschoolers, we learn to look for teachable moments, even in the worst of times. While caution and discretion are certainly needed, the events of recent days are a tremendous current events opportunity for you and your students. Beyond summarizing the events (history, creative writing) and mapping where they occurred (geography), there's an even deeper opportunity for wrestling with the hard topics of truth in media, heroism, suffering, how social media handles tragedy, and how individual choices affect more than just the individual. I'm sure the list is even longer, but the point is that the horror of these circumstances provides us a chance to address issues such as these in the relative safety of our homes.

Sonlight's literature-based approach to teaching history introduces students to the struggles and sadness of the "current events" of many time periods. Discussing and debating difficult events from our past lays a foundation for dealing with the issues of the present day. Don't neglect the importance of connecting the attitudes and events of the past with the experiences of today through a study of current events.

And most importantly, we must always remind our children that God is on the throne and nothing, not even wars, massacres, or bombings are a surprise to Him.

Still on the journey ...
~Judy Wnuk
Sonlight Customer Champion

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From Luke's Inbox: What's the Big Picture in Grading?

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I am a computer technology teacher and want my students to learn movie/film making. I love your free film school because you make it sound fun which is a contrast to my serious approach. But I've never graded students on film making. I've come up with a rubric that focuses on individual behavior and participation in a group, the student's depth of creativity and use of technical skills. Am I not seeing the big picture? Should I add anything else to my appraisal process?

I've never graded students on filmmaking before either. And there's a huge reason why: I don't believe grades help students!

A bit of background: I was homeschooled until high school. As a homeschooler, I did my work until I got it right--what edu-theorists call the "mastery" approach to learning. When I got to high school, I learned how to play the grade game, but that's all it was. I "won" by graduating Valedictorian, but the mad pursuit of grades did nothing to enhance my educational experience. Grades added needless stress and incorrect objectives to my learning. Thankfully, when I got to college, I was able to mostly push aside the meaningless pursuit of grades and focus, instead, on my education. From my experience, grades are absolutely the wrong way to go about motivating and monitoring students.

With my online free film school, I am careful to point out the following:

You won't be graded on how well your projects turn out. Instead, this free film school focuses on helping you practice. I believe that you will naturally improve as you produce more content. Too often we, as creative types, get bogged down because our skill does not match our vision. These short projects are designed to help you get over that and keep moving forward.

I want to inspire kids to produce a bunch of content, not get mired in trying to make something "perfect" to get an A. Practice and get better. That's what I want you to do.

So, I recommend a Pass/Fail approach to assignments, especially film. The "rubric" consists of the following question: Did you produce something that in some way fits the instructions? Yes? Pass. No? Fail... and do it again so you can pass.

But this is also why I require every single person to produce their own thing! You can't get a "free ride" on the work of others. I absolutely encourage students to work together in groups on their various projects--because the more you do, the better you get--but I don't force group films. In my experience, that always leads to a few people doing all the work and some student, somewhere, gets the short end of the proverbial stick.

One benefit I realize I have in offering a free film school online is that I don't need kids to create stuff on a particular timetable. They take as long as they need to make something, and they only "fail" if they "drop" the course--at which point, failure doesn't matter. I'm not sure the best way to translate this to the classroom setting. I would do my best to give clear due dates and work with students who are unable to complete an assignment on time. I'd much rather a kid make a movie a month late than miss out on the opportunity. But if they simply refuse to work, they choose to fail.

If the student does not produce a video in line with the assignment, I handle that in one of two ways: 1. I explain what I was looking for and request they try again, or 2. I accept it as is because they clearly got some benefit from their practice and it is "close enough" to the objective.

That's the "big picture" as I see it. There's a lot more behind my philosophy and approach to learning, and there are unique challenges that you face as a classroom teacher. If you have other questions about how I'd address a particular issue, I'm happy to give my two cents. But I think many of these problems can be solved by focusing on the objective: Encourage kids to discover the wonder and joy of learning and putting their knowledge and skills toward creative or meaningful pursuits.

Hope that helps!

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Why did I share this email that's largely about non-Sonlight stuff? Because it was in my inbox and, more importantly, I think a proper focus on learning is one of the huge benefits homeschooling offers students. May you continue to allow your kids to develop a life-long love of learning as they practice and master the skills they need for whatever God has called them to do!

How do you handle grading in your household? If you're looking for some practical tips on grading--especially for high school--check out Judy's blog post on grading and transcripts.

 ~Luke Holzmann
Filmmaker, Writer, Empty Nester

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Making Modifications

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carA few weeks ago my husband and I bought a new car. It's a perfectly lovely car with lots of nice features. My husband, who enjoys driving above all things, says it's a "driver's car." One of the first things he did was read the Owner's Manual cover to cover. Next, he went online and found the forum for owners of this particular make and model. Then, he started making modifications to this perfectly lovely, brand-new car.

Being somewhat of a techy/geek as well as a self-proclaimed "gear head" he found out that he could connect his laptop to the car's internal computer and make adjustments to some of the features. He fixed it to where the heated seats will come back on the next time the car is started, if we leave them on. Before, we had to go to all the bother of pushing the button again! He programmed the key fob so we can open the windows remotely, not just the door locks. He adjusted the speedometer to be more accurate, and he did something to the head-lights and turn signals. You see, this is his car. As long as I've known him he has delighted in working on his car and making adjustments to it, even if there's really not a thing wrong with it.

It reminds me a little bit of Sonlight's Instructor's Guides. They are perfectly good guides. Completely usable right out of the box. But even better than that, they are easy to tweak to fit my family's situation and needs. At the beginning of the year, I go through my Instructor's Guide cover to cover. I want to get a feel for what's included and what we'll be studying. Then, I go on the Sonlight forums for that particular level to see what other families are doing. After that, I start making modifications.

I can rearrange the pages of my Instructor's Guide if I want to. I can choose to skip certain books. Or I can add in extra books. I can swap a Reader for a Read-Aloud. I can plan hands-on activities for enrichment. I can mark the date we complete assignments for record-keeping purposes.

The nice thing is, I actually don't have to start in modifying it at all, if I don't want to. Just like the new car, my Instructor's Guide is just fine the way it is. It's completely up to me!

Enjoying the adventure,
~Karla Cook
Lifelong Learner

 

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The Privileged Position of Less Formal Learning

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Milton Gaither's recent post THROUGH THE LENS OF HOME-EDUCATED CHILDREN: Insights from Children About What Motivates Them to Learn reminded me of two benefits I had as a homeschooled kid. First, my education was something I participated in; I was not spoon-fed learning. Second--and closely related--I experienced learning throughout my day; I was not limited to only acquire knowledge someone actively taught me.

Before I go on, I want to dispel a myth you may be forming in your mind.

I did not memorize the dictionary or our set of encyclopedias. I never felt like doing extra math work on Saturdays. I am naturally curious and love learning, but I did not set out to create more school/busy work for myself. But that's just it: As homeschoolers, education is not about school because it's not that formal. Education is about learning. And learning we do whenever the opportunity arises.

As a video guy, I really like what Chuck Peters over at Digital Juice Television (DJTV) says in his Field of View episode Stay Tuned [you can skip ahead to 4:25 if you don't care about football analogies]. The basic premise: If you keep your brain engaged and select good TV, you can learn a ton about making movies from your couch! And that's exactly how Sonlight's Language Arts programs work too ...only with great books instead. The point is that we can learn even from our entertainment of choice. Homeschooling works because it takes the focus off formal education and places it on life-long learning.

And notice that learning isn't passive. We don't absorb knowledge through osmosis, as if sitting in our chair in a classroom imparted knowledge to us. Instead, we must interact with the content. That's where the benefit of doing math problems comes in handy. That's also the benefit of discussing the books you read. You must participate in your education.

But, as the article above points out, children are happier when they experience an active education that does not emphasize a formal learning time. For these reasons, among many others, homeschooled children are right to feel like they have a privileged position as homeschoolers.

I certainly did.

 ~Luke Holzmann
Filmmaker, Writer, Empty Nester

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