6 Steps to Being Intentional with Your Time as a Homeschooler

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7 Steps to Being Intentional with Your Time as a Homeschooler

A common frustration of homeschool parents is struggling to get everything done in a day. The juggling act of household tasks, kids’ education, family relationships, and employment can feel overwhelming. There’s no question that your season of homeschooling is a time of demanding responsibilities. Here are six steps to make sure school work gets done in the midst of a busy life.

1. Examine the Details of Your Responsibilities

It’s crucial to take a hard look at the nitty-gritty of your life in this particular season so you can have realistic expectations. Consider and write down these:

  • commitments outside your home
  • the ages and stages of your kids
  • your family’s personal values

Sometimes the simple act of seeing the details in black and white will help you recognize things that are keeping you from what matters most to you right now. Saying yes to one thing—homeschooling in this case—always means saying no to something else. Be willing to cut things out and lower your expectations.

2. Make a Plan for Your Day

Having a plan in place, one based on the realities you just considered, is key to maintaining your sanity. Maybe you’ll have a flexible routine that serves as a guide to your day, while allowing you to have wiggle room for the spontaneity you love. Perhaps you’ll do best with a structured schedule where each block of time has an assigned purpose, providing clear expectations that you appreciate having. Neither approach is better than the other. What’s important is simply that you have a plan that works for your family.

3. Set a Timer and Focus

Now that you’ve considered all the details of your daily life and come up with a realistic plan, it’s time to tackle your day. You want to be intentional about your time. Using timers or alarms can be helpful.

In order to stay focused on whatever you’re dealing with at a particular point in your day, set a timer for however long you want that activity to have your attention. Barring a crisis of some sort, don’t do anything else during that time—nothing at all.

If you tend to be super-focused, a timer will give you a stopping point, reminding you of other responsibilities and keeping you from being consumed by just one. If, on the other hand, you’re easily distracted, knowing you have a set amount of time helps you buckle down and zero in on a particular task.

4. Keep a List of Stray Thoughts and Interruptions

Having a realistic plan for your day and a timer to keep you focused will obviously not prevent inopportune reminders of other things you need to get done. Since stopping one thing to address another is an inefficient use of your time and hoping you remember the thing later is not very responsible, keep a piece of paper handy. When an interruption happens, write yourself a one- or two-word reminder so you can handle it at an appropriate time. Then get immediately back to the task at hand. If possible, keep doing whatever you’re working on and ask another family member to go write the reminder down for you.

5. Establish Boundaries for Your Day

As you choose to focus on one task at a time, you’ll find that the people in your life will either adjust accordingly or appear to sabotage your efforts. If it’s more of the latter, use it as an opportunity to train them in a life skill that will serve them well. Communicate the routine or schedule clearly with the people in your home, tell them concisely and respectfully that you can’t talk to them about ABC right now when they interrupt you doing XYZ, and lead by example as you manage your day in a way that ensures your essential responsibilities are taken care of. When it comes to people outside of your home and your own personal time management, choose not to scroll through social media sites, engage in text or phone conversations, or make commitments with others during times that are dedicated to other responsibilities.

6. Above All, Give Yourself Grace

Of course, no matter how responsible you are in setting yourself up for success, there will be days when nothing goes as planned. That’s life. It doesn't mean you failed at being intentional with your time. Roll with it, then get back on track the next day, adjusting the track if need be.

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7 Ways to Salvage a Homeschool Day That's Headed South... Fast

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7 Ways to Salvage a Homeschool Day That's Headed South... Fast

You’ve had that day; we all have. Your kids aren’t feeling the homeschool thing today, and to be honest, you aren’t, either. The to-do list looks long, attitudes are poor, and you’re pretty sure that if you look over at your ten year-old again and he’s still drawing Minecraft castles in his spelling book, you’re going to lose your mind.

What’s a homeschool mom to do? Before you declare a Mental Health Day (which really may be completely warranted), try one of these tried and true tricks to salvage the day and get back on track...fast.

1. Take a Prayer Break

First things first: turn to the source of your strength and joy when you’re in critical need of strength and joy! While stepping away and praying privately might lift your mood and set your day back on track, being vulnerable and inviting your children into your time with the Lord will model the practice for them. Let them add their own needs to the prayer list, too.

More than once, I’ve called for prayer to help fight off the threat of a funk and had a child ask Jesus to help them deal with a frustration I didn’t even know was a problem.

2. Reach for Your Read-Aloud

Yes, it’s math time, but instead of beating your head against the wall of long division, maybe some couch time with Henry Huggins would be more productive. Diffusing the time bomb of a day headed for a slump is often as easy injecting a little levity. Not only will your children benefit from the step back, you will, too. Bonus: you’ll still be checking a box in your Instructor’s Guide, and maybe even getting ahead!

3. Give Your Day a Soundtrack

I have a specific Spotify playlist for when the storm clouds of a really foul day seem to be brewing. A mix of soothing hymns, peppy worship music, and rhythmic classics set the tone for smiles, better attitudes, and positive momentum. Choose a volume just loud enough to be heard or crank it up if need to be. Music really does soothe the savage beast— whether the beast is you or your 8 year-old.

4. Take a Virtual Field Trip

When you just can’t snag a child’s attention, or your audience is somehow less than appreciative, sometimes the key can be spicing things up with a virtual field trip.

A little rabbit trail might be all it takes to draw your family back into the swing of a productive, educational day.

5. Serve a Snack

My younger crew like this, but the truth is, it’s my teenagers who appreciate it the most. When pre-calculus feels too heavy or you’re not sure you’re ever going to remember that chemistry formula, a plate of cookies is exactly the kind of magic that helps you smile  rather than snarl. Little learners definitely get a kick out of snacks, too. Edible math manipulatives are a personal favorite of my elementary set. Try it for yourself and see.

6. Invite Stuffed Friends to the Table

When faced with a grouchy kid who has zero desire to learn about Marie Curie or radium, I’m not above motivation by stuffed animal.

  • Let the furry friend sits on my lap to see the pictures first.
  • Let children read aloud to an animal.
  • Let the stuffed animal be the teacher for a half hour or so.

This silly shift is guaranteed to make younger kids find their happy place in homeschooling again.

7. Change the Scenery

Math always happens at the dining room table? Set up shop in the living room. You have a dedicated homeschool room that suddenly feels like a prison? Move to the back porch. The beauty of Sonlight is its ease of use in just about any setting you can imagine. Put that flexibility to work for you.

What if you’ve already exhausted every pick-me-up available? Perhaps a Mental Health Day really is in order. Step back and extend grace to your kids, and yourself. His mercies really are new every morning. Maybe that’s the real lesson to be learned from your bad day!

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Homeschool 911–Who to Call When We Need Help

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Homeschool 911–Who to Call When We Need Homeschool Help

As with every other area of life, there will be times when we hit a wall in our homeschooling and find ourselves in need of a little resuscitation. I've been there many times:

  • Overwhelmed with juggling responsibilities in multiple areas of life
  • Frustrated with a child’s poor attitude, behavior, or work ethic
  • Unhappy with curriculum choices but unsure of what to use instead
  • Physical, mental, or emotional exhaustion
  • Not seeing any fruit from my efforts
  • Struggling with and advocating for a child with learning challenges

When those times come, and rest assured that they will, we need to reach out for help.

Sure, that can feel a little vulnerable, but we all need someone to hold our hand from time to time. So, who do we call on?

Homeschool Help from People Nearby

The people whose paths naturally cross ours or live in the same general area can give us personalized attention when we need help. Whether it’s a hug at church when we’re feeling discouraged, a conversation on social media with recommendations for local resources, or an invitation to come over and check out some curriculum we’ve been considering, the support of people who live close to us can be a huge boost to our homeschooling experience.

Homeschool Help from People Far Away

There are times when the best source of help is people we don’t see on a regular basis, if we even see them at all. The stranger in a homeschool group on Facebook who gives unbiased feedback on an issue may be exactly what we need. Or a family member who gently encourages us to figure things out for ourselves because they’re too far away to rescue us can get us back on track. The people whose daily lives aren’t tangled up in our own often have the ability to see our situation more objectively than we can. Their input is invaluable.

Homeschool Help from The Experts

Maybe what we need to hear is expert advice from someone with more knowledge than we have. Whether we check out a great book from the library, tune in to an encouraging podcast, call an Advisor, or attend a homeschool convention, outside advice from someone with experience and expertise can help use solve big homeschool problems.

Homeschool Help from Amateurs

People who are in the homeschool trenches with us will often be our greatest source of encouragement and admonition. They may not have all the answers, but they have real life, recent experience. The sense of camaraderie that comes from someone else walking the same path at the same time is often all it takes to help us push through whatever we’re facing. Your homeschool peers help you see that you are not alone.

Homeschool Help from People Similar to Us

We all need to have people in our life we can relate to, who understand the circumstances we find ourselves in, share the same values, or have similar personalities. They’re the ones who encourage us when our confidence is slipping, know just what to say or do to help us when everyone else’s good intentions are falling short, and make us feel a little less crazy. They remind us to keep our eyes on our goal and keep moving forward in our homeschool journey.

Homeschool Help from People Different From Us

Sometimes it beneficial to get the perspective of people we don’t have a lot in common with. It’s easy to get so caught up in our homeschool problems that we forget there are other equally valid ways of looking at things. If we’re teachable, a person who approaches life differently than we do can help us think outside the box and find solutions. Even those who are radically different than us in significant ways usually have some nugget of wisdom or practical tip we can apply to our situation.

Return the Favor

If you’re treading water in the pool of homeschooling, struggling to simply stay afloat, then call on some of the people described above to help you catch your breath. Do whatever it takes to find your rhythm again, and don’t worry about anything else.

If, however, you’re in a relatively comfortable season, having been buoyed by others at some point in the past, be one of the aforementioned people to someone else. Take the kindness you received and pay it forward.

  • Give a word of encouragement.
  • Offer practical help with homeschooling or household tasks.
  • Humbly share advice based on personal experience.
  • Praise what someone is doing well.

We each have seasons of crisis and stability. When our season is smooth, we can offer a hand out to those in need without any pride. When we’re in a rough season, we can call out for help without any shame.

If you are considering a new direction for your children’s education, and could use an empathetic ear, we have experienced homeschooling moms who would love to talk to you. Click here to schedule an appointment.

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Why Sonlight Studies Both Western and Eastern Hemispheres

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Why Sonlight Studies the Western and Eastern Hemisphere

Sonlight devotes much more time to studying cultures outside of Europe and North America than most curricula do. Why?

Well, I believe we should study those for whom God cares most deeply. Which turns out to be the whole world!

God doesn't value me any more than a remote tribeswoman in Papua New Guinea or a successful businessman in Shanghai. He doesn't love my country more than Angola or Afghanistan. Not that he loves me less; he instead loves every individual and people group with unbounded, infinite love.

That's why Sonlight students spend so much time studying the whole world. All in all, Sonlight students get four amazingly rich years of U.S. History study (since we are a U.S. company and most of our users are in the U.S.) and eight years of captivating study of the rest of the world. See all history programs here and a full scope and sequence here.

Academic Reasons to Study Africa, Asia, the Middle East, and More

My husband John makes a great point in reason #8 of the article 27 Reasons NOT to Buy Sonlight:

In a standard American history/social studies curriculum, students begin with study of "my community," then move outward to "my state," "my country" and so on. They devote 10 of 12 years—over 80% of their homeschool time—to study of the history and culture of a nation that has existed for less than 10% of recorded history and encompasses fewer than 5% of all the people in the world!

We didn't want such an imbalanced education for our own children. So we balanced study of our own nation's history with study of the rest of the world. Since we want our children to feel at home in and succeed in our increasingly globalized world, they need to know about their neighbors on the other side of the planet. They need to see them as real people.

The Spiritual Rationale for a Global Focus

At the end of the day, our focus on world history and world cultures comes back to the fact that God loves all people, including those who are different than we are. If God loves them, we should to. And if we want to love them, we should probably know a thing or two about their personal stories and their cultural heritage, history and geography.

I take great comfort in the fact that the Bible says one day God will gather some to Himself from every tribe, language, people and nation (Revelation 5:9-10 and 7:9). And to think – God wants to use us to help bring others to Himself!

I hope that Sonlight's programs help you raise children with a heart for the world—children who realize the world is bigger than their own town, country or language. This is why you'll read so many stories woven into your curriculum that take place in other parts of the world. Your children get to know characters who live in cultures drastically different than their own. And in doing so, children realize that people who look different, talk differently or believe differently are still actual people who need to know Christ's love just as much as we do.

Why Sonlight Studies the Western and Eastern Hemisphere

Sonlight Curriculum Delves into Both Eastern and Western Hemispheres

For one, our World History courses are more than Western Civilization courses. They're Western and Eastern Civilization courses (though we do focus a bit more on the Western cultures in these programs).

We also devote an entire year to the study of the Eastern Hemisphere in HBL F. I don't know of any other homeschool program that does this. HBL F: Eastern Hemisphere program takes you on an exciting tour of Asia, the Middle East, Africa and the South Pacific (including Australia and New Zealand).

Sonlight also includes many missionary biographies—stories of people who went to other lands to share the Good News of Christ. Since we think God is going to save some from every people group, we want to highlight people who go and serve in other countries.

We also encourage families to pray for people all around the world. Many of our programs include prayer guides that encourage your kids to pray with you for these people groups.

Our overarching goal at Sonlight is to help you raise up your kids to have a heart for the world and equip them to do whatever God calls them to. I believe learning about the whole world is an absolutely essential part of that.

P.S. I started thinking about some of my favorite books that highlight people of other lands. You won't want to miss out on treasures like

What is your favorite Sonlight book from another land?

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4 Reasons I Pre-read My Children's Books

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Teaching Sonlight with a large family takes a delicate balance of the time I spend teaching, grading, and keeping track of assignments, with my need to work, clean, and cook. Finding the time to stay one step ahead of my children's school work can be hard.

Despite the challenges of time management, with a few exceptions, I’ve always read the books I assign to my children before they read them.

But I still have strongly held reasons for pre-reading my children's books.

Stay Ahead of the Oldest Child

Since I have seven students doing multiple levels, there’s no way I could read through that many History / Bible / Literature programs (HBLs) in a single year. But I do try to keep ahead of the oldest child so I’m at least familiar with the books when the second or third child comes along.

This commitment means that I am often reading during my downtime at work or listening to audio books on my trip to and from work. I also read Sonlight books all year long, spreading out the workload. It is manageable to do, even with a busy lifestyle. And here's why I invest in pre-reading my children's Sonlight Readers.

1. Sonlight Teaches About Real Life

Sonlight doesn’t use textbooks to teach. Instead Sonlight's curriculum is filled with  historical fiction, which simply means the author tells a story using the correct historical background. For example, in Johnny Tremain in HBL D, Johnny is a fictional boy set in the very real backdrop of the Revolutionary War. Details about the war are sprinkled throughout the book as Johnny goes about his life. Just as in real life, hard things happen to Johnny. He’s an orphan working as an apprentice. He meets people who are fighting for liberty, and as a result of that fight, people die.

It’s very hard to write an accurate book about war and history while keeping everything sunny and cheerful. Sonlight books don’t sugarcoat history. They do try to choose books that stay away from the harshest violence or the greatest atrocities (until later high school), but you will find, on occasion, people starving, suffering, or even dying. Reading a quick summary of a book or reading through the discussion questions in the Instructor's Guide (IG) doesn’t always give you the full feeling of the book.

Because difficult content does appear from time to time in Sonlight books, it’s a good idea to pre-read to see what’s coming. If any content is a bit too sensitive for your child, you can skip that portion. We normally choose to read those sections instead of skipping them, but I make an effort to talk through the hard parts.

2. I Want to Model My Expectations

If I’m not willing to take the time and effort, why should my children? If a brief summary and discussion question answers in the Instructor's Guide are good enough for me, why aren’t they good enough for my children?

By reading the books in full, I show my children that reading is important to me and the knowledge I can gain from reading the books is important as well.

3. If I Don’t Read It, I Might Not Know the Answers

Sometimes when I ask my children a discussion question about a book, they give me an answer that isn’t listed in the IG. If I haven’t read the book myself, I might assume their answer was wrong when it's actually an acceptable answer.

At other times, my children didn’t know the answer to a question. Without having read the book myself, I would be at a loss to help them identify the correct passage in the book to locate the answer.

Pre-reading can clear up a lot of these issues with right or wrong answers. I might still have to look over a chapter to clarify an answer, but I can figure out most answers based on my memory of the book. And as a bonus, we get to have meaningful discussions about the titles instead of a dry Q & A session over the IG.

4. Sonlight Books are Just That Good

The biggest reason I pre-read my children's books is because Sonlight chooses such excellent novels, biographies, and non-fiction! I would be sad to miss out on these books!

  • I find myself crying for the main characters.
  • My heart breaks for the hardships the missionaries are undergoing.
  • I often close a book with a sigh of satisfaction for a good read.

Sonlight books are books I would choose for myself if I had hundreds of hours to weed through books to find the good ones. It’s actually quite rare that I find a Sonlight book that I didn’t love or learn from in some way.

So while it's something of a sacrifice of time, it's also a pleasurable task to pre-read my children's Sonlight Readers.

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A Literature-Based Approach to Homeschooling Science

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A Literature-Based Approach to Homeschooling Science

Sonlight for history, literature, and Bible—sure. But Sonlight for science?

Absolutely!

A literature-based approach introduces a feast of discovery, allowing elementary- and middle-school students to uncover a wide range of wild and wondrous scientific concepts.

Each Science level from A (grades K-2) to H (grades 7-9) integrates multiple facets:

  • different disciplines
  • hands-on experiments
  • a spiral approach
  • the scientific method

Science A, for example, introduces young children to the themes of biology, botany, and physics; Science D revisits biology, and adds in taxonomy and anatomy.  And when Levels A-H are completed, Sonlight offers phenomenal college-prep level lab science courses for high school, too.

A Literature-Based Approach Makes Science Accessible

Using real-life books for science education sends the message to kids that science isn’t something esoteric, found only in textbooks and laboratories; far from it! Science is everywhere, every day. In reading snippets from

  • living books,
  • encyclopedias, and
  • biographies,

while also

  • creating projects from household materials,
  • devising experiments,
  • following the scientific method, and
  • practicing powers of observation,

we show kids they can glean gems of scientific delight from the pages of books, as well as from our own backyards. Science is for everyone, not just highly-specialized experts.

And Sonlight science offers multi-sensory learning, too. Literature-based doesn’t mean books only. In Science A through E, DVD tutorials guide you through how to conduct hands-on experiments. And in Science D and F, students sing through kingdoms, classifications, and anatomy with cleverly-arranged Lyrical Life Science songs.

A Literature-Based Approach Teaches Kids to Think Critically and Develop a Worldview

Textbook authors wrap up chapters in neat summaries, providing suggested conclusions. This is necessary in college-prep lab courses, but before higher-level studies, spreading a study of science through multiple titles teaches kids to

  • engage with the material connected
  • recognize connections between diverse topics
  • see common themes presented in different ways
  • discern scientific fact from scientific theory
  • sort through multiple perspectives

When kids begin noticing the same principles and ideas presented in the lesson’s encyclopedia reading, part of a biography, and a selection from an additional assignment, they begin seeing the thread of purpose woven throughout all of science. That perspective is so valuable! The skills of discernment and critical thinking will help students long after their days as a student are over.

And I always appreciate Sonlight’s willingness to take on controversial topics—like origins—by allowing families to tackle the subjects head-on with the same kinds of books kids will encounter in the real world, rather than teaching these through rewritten, filtered resources. (Each Instructor’s Guide offers helpful notes, discussion suggestions, and general guidance to aid parents in talking through tough points, too.)

But Sonlight Science Jumps Around Too Much!

From time to time, I encounter curious questions about the multi-discipline format of Sonlight science. Most of us are accustomed to the model typically used in high school and college classrooms: focusing on one discipline—in depth—for an entire year. Because of this, we sometimes expect elementary and middle-school science programs to follow the same approach. While there is a place for such focused study, there’s also much to be said for a multi-genre method, especially in the years before high school.

The most obvious benefit is exposure. Following the Sonlight Science scope and sequence, kids will gain familiarity with an astronomical (pun intended) number of different scientific subject areas prior to high school:

  • biology
  • botany
  • physics
  • zoology
  • astronomy
  • geology
  • meteorology
  • mechanical technology
  • taxonomy
  • human anatomy
  • electricity
  • magnetism
  • health
  • medicine
  • origins
  • conservation
  • robotics,
  • technology

While my daughter has a special affinity for pill bugs and the human digestive system, the delightful array of topics in Sonlight Science also helped her uncover a previously-untapped love for carnivorous plants (Science A), the planet Mars (Science B), and those hilariously powerful birds, cassowaries (Science C.)

A Literature-Based Approach to Homeschooling Science

Tackling more than one science genre in a single course of study also allows for an excellent application of the spiral approach, wherein additional layers of detail are added on each time a topic resurfaces.

A Literature Based-Approach Allows for “the Joy of Discovery”

It’s worth noting, too, the discrepancy between our collective push for literacy compared to our attitude toward scientific literacy. Why is it that being well-read is celebrated in literary circles, while branching out into numerous areas of scientific study at a young age is seen as prematurely “jumping around”?

One would rarely hear the following complaint in a reading or literature class:

“My student was forced to read a short story, a sonnet, a novel, an autobiography, and a work of historical fiction. This is tackling too many literary genres! This literature class jumps around too much.”

And yet, that’s precisely what we tend to say when looking at science curriculum—we expect it to narrow in on one specific specialty, with no diversification.

But for young children, our goal in science is not necessarily to have them master any given discipline, but to introduce them to the nearly infinite world of scientific discovery, and encourage what the Science D Instructor’s Guide calls “the joy of discovery.”

Perhaps we can adjust our expectations of what primary- and middle-years science education looks like, and allow our children the freedom to enjoy as much variety in scientific discipline as we allow in our explorations of literature.

What delights will your children discover this year? Switch to Sonlight Science and reinvigorate their joy for science.

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Give Your Teen the Gift of Independent Learning by Homeschooling

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Give Your Teen the Gift of Independent Learning by Homeschooling

Several years back, when one of my older daughters was wading into her first semester of college, she called and thanked me. Not for passing on great recipes, showing her how to wash her own clothes, or allowing her to dig into advanced biology well before most of her peers.

No, she thanked me for giving her the gift of being an independent learner.

Unlike many of her classmates, my daughter had been responsible for meeting deadlines, managing resources, and keeping her own schedule throughout much of her high school career. The program of study in which she and her new friends were engaged was rigorous and detail-oriented. My daughter was stretched, but, contrary to the experience of her fellow students, not overwhelmed.

“The syllabus seems paralyzing to some of them,” she noted, before explaining how she had found a rhythm in studying and was even finding some time to watch Star Trek reruns in the evenings.

Homeschooling with Sonlight gave her this ability to learn independently!

Why Teach Independence in Learning?

Independent learning actually wasn’t one of our stated goals when we started homeschooling, but developing a love of learning alongside strong character was.

Independence in homeschooling was an outgrowth of those desires in many ways. While we were never drawn to learning environments that relied on screens and eschewed parent/child interaction, or workbooks that could be completed then checked at a later date, we knew that eventually, it would be healthy and profitable to give our children the ability to work independently.

The First Steps in Independent Learning

Sonlight provided many opportunities for independent learning over the early years. By simply copying down the suggested schedule for readers on a notecard the child could use as a bookmark, we were able to begin a gentle training in maintaining pace. From the beginning, I allowed the children to choose when and where they did their reading—even allowing them to complete an entire book in a day, so long as the rest of the day’s schedule was able to be kept.

Mix and Match High School with Sonlight

Throughout the year, assigned projects and writing opportunities afforded more chances to hand over a small chunk of the learning and let my children own their learning experience.

Moving Forward in Independence in Middle School

Just as I sensed that my children were ready for more responsibility, Sonlight’s Eastern Hemisphere -HBL F introduced the concept of researching facts, managing larger chunks of their time, and tackling deeper issues. This program served as the gateway year in many ways for us. By this point, I had an end goal of letting my high schoolers self-regulate the bulk of their days via the weekly Student Guide.

I slowly began moving from being the primary educator to becoming a consultant. I was no longer in front of my kids for most of the day, presenting information, reading, and giving feedback. By the time my homeschoolers graduate from high school, they have been meeting with me daily to touch base, but spending their school hours checking off assignments at their pace, in the order they choose.

When Are Tweens and Teens Ready for Learning Independently?

Knowing when to begin the shift is as easy as gauging the child’s success in handling smaller bits of responsibility.

  • If you’ve assigned a book that never gets read, your child isn’t ready.
  • Can’t trust him to do a math lesson without you looking over his shoulder? Not a good candidate.
  • By the same coin, a child who is frustrated or overwhelmed by a solo task may be signaling that he or she isn’t ready to move forward without your assistance.

Listen to your child and watch the signs!

The Trade Off for Independent Learners

Realize that as you let go of minute-by-minute interaction in your homeschool, your ability to build relationship with your children over these shared moments necessarily declines. This fact is why I wasn't wooed by curriculum options that promised “hands-off homeschooling” or “minimal time commitment” for parents. That face-to-face interaction is one of our primary motivations for homeschooling! So there is a trade off here as you move your teens to greater independence in learning.

Age-appropriate homeschool independence is a huge gift to children. It pays dividends in college and beyond. Map out a vision for giving your children the ability to direct some of their own learning. And take the first steps in watching them fly!

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