Yes, Rosetta Stone Really Works—Especially with These 4 Habits

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Habits that Lead to Success with Rosetta Stone

You’ve decided to add a foreign language to your collection of homeschool electives and have invested in Rosetta Stone at Sonlight’s recommendation.

Where do you go from here?

How can you maximize your investment? Is there anything you can do to ensure that the hours your child spends using Rosetta Stone will translate into usable and lasting language knowledge? Does Rosetta Stone really work?

Yes, the program itself is engaging and teaches practical spoken language skills, but, like any tool, there are techniques and habits that lead to success.

1. Use the Program Regularly

We all know the effects of summer slide are real. That’s why some homeschool families, like my own, have opted for year-round schooling with short breaks at irregular times of year. After a long break from math or reading, children might need a lot of review for things they've forgotten.

The same effect happens when learning foreign languages. Only in this area, the effects of irregular study seem to be even more dramatic.

And...let’s be honest, when life gets busy, electives tend to be the first courses to fall by the wayside. If you’re finding that your child is constantly needing to review the same lesson or is not able to retain vocabulary, ensure they are using Rosetta Stone regularly each school day.

If little progress is being made, switch foreign language study to earlier in the school day. It is less necessary to spend large amounts of time on the program each day than it is to be consistent with daily exposure. Even 15 or 20 minutes on a daily basis has great effect in building confidence with using the target language.

2. Repeat the Vocabulary Out Loud

Because it's an online program, your child can use Rosetta Stone anywhere there is access to an internet-connected device and a pair of earbuds. However, as much as possible, opt to use Rosetta Stone in a non-public location where it’s okay to speak out loud without disturbing others (or feeling awkward). 

Rosetta Stone uses TruAccent® technology in pronunciation activities to help your child practice accurate pronunciation and get instant feedback. In reality, though, so much of language learning is retained through vocal repetition, that I recommend making a habit of always repeating the phrases being learned after the voice reads them out, instead of only during the specific pronunciation exercises.

The more practice, the more muscle memory develops, and the more chances to develop accurate pronunciation. This will be especially crucial when learning languages that have sounds which don’t exist in English (or their own native language). I highly recommend not limiting pronunciation practice only to the sections of the lesson which are testing pronunciation, but simply developing a habit of repeating after the recorded voice each and every time.

3. Practice Writing New Vocabulary by Hand

One of the most fantastic aspects of the Rosetta Stone program is that it’s completely online—no bulky textbooks needed. However, the solely digital factor can be a problem when studying a language that has a different alphabet or writing system than the one your student already knows.

Rosetta Stone does a good job of tackling language learning from every direction:

  • listening
  • speaking
  • reading
  • writing
  • grammar
  • vocabulary

But particularly if  you have chosen a language such as Mandarin, Japanese, Korean, Hindi, or another language with a writing system other than the Latin alphabet used in English, I recommend seeking additional resources for writing practice.

In my own homeschool, we use Rosetta Stone for studying Mandarin Chinese. Chinese characters are introduced and practiced in the program, but we don’t rely on this program alone to master the language. Learning to read and write effectively in Mandarin takes practice beyond what a computer program can offer; the etymology of characters and careful practice of neat calligraphy and stroke order are not part of Rosetta Stone. The best way to remember how to write Chinese characters, in my experience, is that, after they have been learned, to write them, stroke by stroke, again and again, in a variety of sentences, building muscle memory and the experience of writing.

If you find that your child’s conversational and comprehension skills are advancing more quickly than his or her writing skills in the target language, have them spend some time with paper and pencil on a regular basis, practicing putting their new language on paper and getting the hang of the way it’s written. 

4. Use the Language While Away from the Computer Screen

Sometimes our brains put the things we learn into boxes of sorts. If a child enjoys studying language with Rosetta Stone but doesn’t have any experience with the language in any other way or at any other time, the knowledge may be stuck in the mental Rosetta Stone box. As a result, they will struggle to apply vocabulary correctly in other experiences outside using the program.

Very early in language learning, ask them to keep an eye open for examples of the language in everyday life. Since our homeschool is studying Mandarin with Rosetta Stone, I ask the girls if they recognize any characters they’ve learned on restaurant menus or local signs, because we live in a region where written Chinese is commonly seen around town. We’ll watch children’s TV shows in Mandarin, read simple books, and randomly quiz each other during the day. 

Teach your child to keep their eyes and ears open for opportunities to engage with the content they’ve learned. I’ve found that they tend to see what they’re looking for.

Foreign language skills, when thoroughly acquired and allowed the opportunity to remain sharp instead of growing rusty, can accompany your child throughout their life and give them opportunities in career, ministry, and relationship that they could never have experienced without such skills. Rosetta Stone, when used to its maximum potential, provides an amazing jumping-off point into the world of speaking a new language!

Choose from 24 languages and add foreign language to your homeschool lineup today.

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161 Sonlight Superlatives: The Best Books from Preschool to Level J

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163 Sonlight Superlatives: The Best Books from Preschool to Level J

Sonlight is all about great books—biographies, novels, non-fiction, poetry anthologies, picture books, and reference volumes. Each book is carefully chosen and has to pass Sarita's Seven-Part Test:

  1. Real/realistic characters
  2. Solid character development
  3. Content that adds to the reader's cultural literacy.
  4. Intriguing, multi-dimensional plot
  5. Emotionally compelling
  6. Verbally beautiful
  7. Re-readable

So you can be assured that each title in a Sonlight curriculum package is high quality, both in terms of academics and moral quality.

So it's a nearly impossible task to select the best Sonlight books.

They are all the best. Truly.

But every book in Sonlight has special qualities that make it a superlative in its own right. Here is a list of 161 unique superlatives (plus a few extra) taken from the Sonlight catalog of homeschool curriculum.

The Best from the Preschool Package

  1. Best picture book about the glory of reading: The Bee Tree
  2. Best picture book about friendship: George and Martha
  3. Best party book of all time: Go, Dog. Go!
  4. Best bind-up of classic picture books: Harper Collins Treasury of Picture Book Classics
  5. Best picture book on faithfulness: Horton Hatches the Egg
  6. Most highly decorated bind-up: Make Way for McCloskey
  7. Best picture book to gently explain death: Nana Upstairs and Nana Downstairs
  8. Best animal conservation picture book: Noah’s Ark
  9. Best illustrated Mother Goose: Mother Goose

Best preschool picture book for search and find (no longer in the Preschool Package): Cars and Trucks and Things That Go

The Best from the PreKindergarten Package

  1. Most detailed and creative look at human diversity: People
  2. Easiest way to gently teach about giving: Stories from Africa
  3. Best large-format art book: A Child’s Book of Art
  4. Most cheery art collection: Eric Carle’s Animals Animals
  5. Best way to easily check a student’s learning readiness: Developing the Early Learner
  6. Best science book of all time: The Berenstain Bears’ Big Book of Science and Nature
  7. Best introduction to machines: How Do You Lift a Lion?
  8. Most creative geology book: How to Dig a Hole to the Other Side of the World
  9. Best introduction to the size of the universe: Is a Blue Whale the Biggest Thing There Is?
  10. Best early elementary introduction to subatomic particles: What’s Smaller Than a Pygmy Shrew?
  11. Best look at seasonal changes in the northern United States: The Year at Maple Hill Farm

Best subversive stories told by enslaved people (no longer in the Pre-K Package): The Classic Tales of Brer Rabbit

Most perennially popular Victorian stories and illustrations (no longer in the Pre-K Package): The Complete Adventures of Peter Rabbit

The Best from History / Bible / Literature K

  1. Best book on small home living: The Boxcar Children
  2. Best book on the magic of math: A Grain of Rice
  3. Catchiest music to memorize and hide God's Word in young hearts: Sing the Word! Teach Me Your Paths CD
  4. Most unexpected use of chewing gum and a toothbrush: My Father’s Dragon
  5. Most charming book on manners: Richard Scarry’s Please and Thank You Book
  6. Most delightful book about friendship, courage, and community: Heartwood Hotel: A True Home
  7. Best introduction to maps and map reading: Maps and Globes
  8. Most fascinating book chronicling the celebration trip at the opening of the Erie Canal: The Amazing Impossible Erie Canal

The Best from History / Bible / Literature A

  1. Most comprehensive and interesting children’s Bible: Egermeier’s Bible Story Book
  2. Best time travel graphic novel: Game On in Ancient Greece
  3. Best story of a tragic accident redeemed: Out of Darkness
  4. Best elementary book that will make you both laugh-out-loud and weep: Adventures with Waffles
  5. Best book on thoughtless bullying and the power of forgiveness: The Hundred Dresses
  6. Best stories about good-hearted BFFs who always end up in trouble: In Grandma’s Attic
  7. Best book about life on a lighthouse: The Light at Tern Rock
  8. Sweetest introduction to World War II: Twenty and Ten


The Best from History / Bible / Literature B

  1. Most astonishing story of God’s provision: George Muller
  2. Most simple and memorable introduction to King Tut: Tut’s Mummy: Lost and Found
  3. Best overview of the archaeological process: Archaeologists Dig for Clues
  4. Best book for the future architect or contractor: Wonderful Houses Around the World
  5. Best story of unexpected friendship: Charlotte’s Web
  6. Best tutorial on good story-telling: Gooney Bird Greene [not sure if Sonlight is for you? Get this one free!]
  7. Best story of a boy and his dog: Henry Huggins
  8. Best story of a boy and his skunk: Homer Price
  9. The poetry book that will make your children ask for more: National Geographic Book of Animal Poetry
  10. Funniest stories of predators as pets: Owls in the Family
  11. Best example of empathy gone too far: Understood Betsy
  12. Most practical science fair experiment: The Year of the Baby
  13. Most wise shepherd and most heroic sheep: Mountain Born

The way we all wish we could teach (no longer in HBL B): The Year of Miss Agnes


The Best from History / Bible / Literature C

  1. Catchiest, stick-in-your-mind songs to learn geography: Audio Memory Geography Songs
  2. The most unqualified missionary who went on to do astonishing things: Gladys Aylward
  3. Best updated prayer guide: Window on the World
  4. Best story of using your skills and gifts, even if they don’t seem that amazing: About Average
  5. Largest collection of stories over two millennia old: The Aesop for Children
  6. The best celebration of opera and insects: The Cricket in Times Square
  7. An astonishing opportunity to see a person in the face of the enemy: The Little Riders
  8. Best summer vacation story: The Penderwicks
  9. Best story of Italy, an island, and a discovery: Red Sails to Capri
  10. Best book about publishing a book: The School Story
  11. Best book about retirement gone wrong: The Twenty-One Balloons
  12. Astonishing story of cultural transformation: And the Word Came with Power
  13. Best poetry book: 104 Poems of Whimsy and Wisdom to Delight Children of All Ages


The Best from History / Bible / Literature D

  1. Best American history books from an unusual angle: Landmark History of the American People, Vols. 1 and 2
  2. Best book about how mathematics can change the world: Carry On, Mr. Bowditch
  3. Outstanding historical fiction about the Boston Tea Party and the American Revolution: Johnny Tremain
  4. Best horse-racing book from early America: Justin Morgan Had a Horse
  5. Best first-person account of the burning of the White House in 1814: The White House is Burning
  6. Most thought-provoking book on the nature of slavery and freedom: Walk the World’s Rim
  7. Best book to ask, “Just what was so bad about the Quakers?”: The Witch of Blackbird Pond
  8. For all who yearn to make their living space just a little prettier: The Journeyman
  9. Best look into of the most iconic structures in the United States: Alamo All-Stars
  10. Most exciting story of the thwarting of an assassination attempt: Phoebe the Spy
  11. Best book on wishing for rain: Sarah, Plain and Tall
  12. Most astonishing story about prophetic dreams: Sarah Whitcher’s Story
  13. Most fascinating book on early American transportation: Timmy O’Dowd and the Big Ditch
  14. Best cameo appearance of a famous American: The Cabin Faced West
  15. Most moving ending of a simple book: Stone Fox
  16. Most fascinating story of uniting the Iroquois people: Peacemaker

Best story of the lumber trade down the Mississippi (no longer in HBL D): Swift Rivers

The Best from History / Bible / Literature E

  1. Most inspirational story of abolition across the pond: One Voice
  2. Best collection of well-known songs from American history: Songs About America
  3. Outstanding age-appropriate overview of two cataclysmic events: The World Wars
  4. Gorgeous look at Bible translation and the resulting transformation: In Search of the Source
  5. Best overview of the Civil War, including the western theater: Across Five Aprils
  6. Most delightful settler story: Caddie Woodlawn
  7. Most outrageous cattle drive: The Great Turkey Walk
  8. Astonishing story of a large-scale and temporary public works project: The Great Wheel
  9. Best view of immigration, integration, and baseball: In the Year of the Boar and Jackie Robinson
  10. Fantastic story of the boy who moves west and breaks ten toes: Little Britches
  11. How making maple syrup dispels depression: Miracles on Maple Hill
  12. Most inspirational story of how to live in the midst of broken racial relations: Roll of Thunder, Hear My Cry
  13. Best book to make you want to see an eclipse: Every Soul a Star
  14. Most gutsy move by a 19-year-old old: Bruchko
  15. Most rollicking adventures during the Gold Rush: By the Great Horn Spoon
  16. Best story set in an art museum: From the Mixed-Up Files of Mrs. Basil E. Frankweiler
  17. Best scientific inquiry into a common allergen: George Washington Carver
  18. Most triumphant story from an unlikely hero: Helen Keller
  19. Most lucky breaks for two young entrepreneurs: Henry Reed, Inc.
  20. Best story for budding epidemiologists: Hero Over Here
  21. Most interesting coming-of-age story using good business: The Seventeenth Swap
  22. Biggest breakthrough for two bicycle repairmen: The Wright Brothers


The Best from History / Bible / Literature F

  1. Best overview of 100 strategic cities you’ve mostly never heard of: 100 Gateway Cities
  2. Most moving introduction to the art of paper folding: Sadako and the Thousand Paper Cranes
  3. Most unexpected looks at everyday objects: All the Small Poems
  4. Best book to make you thankful to live where you do: Breaking Stalin’s Nose
  5. Best book with interwoven plot points: The Horse and His Boy
  6. Most unexpected book from the country that once built the largest empire the world has ever seen: I Rode a Horse of Milk White Jade
  7. Most moving memoir of a Vietnamese boyhood: The Land I Lost
  8. Hardest example of a moment of inattention gone wrong, and the redemption afterwards: Rickshaw Girl
  9. Most outstanding Cinderella story set in Arabia: Seven Daughters and Seven Sons
  10. Best revision of a classic story: Shadow Spinner
  11. Most outstanding book that captures a slice of life in a specific time: Young Fu of the Upper Yangtze
  12. Best single-minded purpose through an exotic locale: Daughter of the Mountains
  13. Most delightful mix of Chinese folk tales, beautiful illustrations, and a successful quest: Where the Mountain Meets the Moon
  14. Most dramatic story of falconry: Ali and the Golden Eagle
  15. Best book to practice a wide range of accents: Around the World in Eighty Days
  16. Most resilient survival story of a life under siege: Burying the Sun
  17. Best book for thoroughbred lovers: King of the Wind
  18. Most intense pursuit of the perfection of paper, sticks, and wind: The Kite Fighters
  19. Best look at the difficulty of growing rice: Li Lun, Lad of Courage
  20. Longest delay of absolution (but it comes in the end): A Beautiful Lie


The Best from History / Bible / Literature G

  1. Most amazing expansion of a single line from the Bible to a complete and compelling story: God King
  2. Most dramatic triumph over an evil relative: The Golden Goblet
  3. Best adventure story: The Great and Terrible Quest
  4. Most creative look at the reason behind the world’s most famous painting: The Second Mrs. Giaconda
  5. Best introduction to a country-specific ceramic art: A Single Shard [not sure if Sonlight is for you? Get this one free!]
  6. Most fascinating look at an unexpected warfare innovation: Black Horses for the King
  7. Best single source to get a wider perspective on biblical times: The Bronze Bow
  8. Best spy story: Mara, Daughter of the Nile
  9. Most unexpected use of Medieval Catholic belief in the afterlife: A Proud Taste for Scarlet and Miniver
  10. Fascinating look at a sport most likely to have PETA protestors: Shadow of a Bull


The Best from History / Bible / Literature H

  1. Most insightful look at why not all roads lead to God: But Don’t All Religions Lead to God?
  2. The challenges of being female in a male-dominated world: The Breadwinner
  3. Best detective work to stop contamination: The Great Trouble
  4. Most delightful story ever set in a choir: A Murder for Her Majesty
  5. Most charismatic protagonist of all time: The Sherwood Ring
  6. Best story to make you want to climb a mountain: Banner in the Sky
  7. Funniest Christmas story that will also make you think: The Best Christmas Pageant Ever
  8. Best book about art conservation, both in times of war and afterwards: Under the Egg
  9. Most dramatic look at the aftermath of the Battle of Dunkirk: The War That Saved My Life
  10. Most moving story of surviving the genocide before the Nazis: The Endless Steppe
  11. Best book to never take potatoes for granted again: Nory Ryan’s Song
  12. The greatest escape of gold bullion: Snow Treasure

The Best from History / Bible / Literature J

  1. Most unexpected look at how people fared when God spoke clearly to them: Disappointment with God
  2. Most exciting look at the unmatchable gift of God: What’s So Amazing About Grace?
  3. Best real life sabotage story: Bomb
  4. Best explanation of why Darwin’s work doesn’t hold together: Evolution 2.0
  5. Most reluctant missionary: Ida Scudder
  6. Best description of eating chocolate: Stuff Matters
  7. Best secret code in wartime: Code Talkers
  8. Most interconnected story about a harmonica: Echo
  9. Best book about life with dyslexia: Fish in a Tree
  10. Most gorgeous story of a musician in training: The Mozart Season
  11. Best book of nature poems with photos to match: National Geographic Book of Nature Poetry
  12. Best Shakespeare revisionist history: Shakespeare’s Secret
  13. Most classic ghost story: A Christmas Carol
  14. Best look at varying levels of technology: Enchantress from the Stars
  15. Most interesting look at how painting a door can change your life: The Gammage Cup
  16. Most memorable stories about dandruff, snakes, and fighting for Greece in WWII: Going Solo
  17. Best Maid Marian: The Outlaws of Sherwood
  18. Best trickster tale: The Thief
  19. Best book for pun-lovers: The Westing Game

Sonlight doesn't shy away from hard topics. Nor does it whitewash the shameful parts of history. Instead, it presents difficult themes through age-appropriate books—the best books. Combined with the notes in your Instructor's Guide and your own parental guidance, Sonlight books teach your child the ugliness and the beauty of our world.

A thread of redemption runs throughout Sonlight because it is a Christ-centered curriculum. So while evil is not erased from our lessons, it is always offset with the much greater force of good.

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What Makes Sonlight a Christian Homeschool Curriculum?

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What Makes Sonlight a Christian Homeschool Curriculum?

Sonlight offers Christian homeschool curriculum. Yet we include books that are written by non-Christians. We purposely do not slap a Bible reference on every page. And we tackle topics that make some people uncomfortable.

So what makes Sonlight's curriculum Christian?

Following Christ permeates Sonlight's homeschool programs in five key areas.

1. Inspiring Biographies

Sonlight includes biographies of people God used to change the world. We do this to allow your family to see how God works across denominations and time to expand His kingdom. These books also show how God uses ordinary people to do extraordinary things so you and your children can begin to consider how God wants to use you.

Christians have changed the world. Sonlight shows you how.

2. Missionary Biographies

Sonlight includes missionary biographies so you and your children can catch God's heart for the world: Every person, no matter their race or religion, is loved by God who wants to bring them into His kingdom so they can find grace and healing and share that redemption with others. These books also tend to recount the amazing ways God works and the transformation that occurs within people who turn to Him.

Sonlight is a Christian education, based on the true stories of Christ-followers the world over.

3. Scripture Reading

Sonlight includes Scripture reading without specific curricular input to encourage and allow you and your children to hear God speak to you through His living word. Sonlighters learn to read through the Bible as the Bible and not just a few fun stories. This allows God's word to permeate your lives and do the work only the Spirit can do.

Sick of milquetoast devotions during breakfast Bible time? Come read Scripture with Sonlight.

4. Prayer and Intercession

Sonlight includes a prayer guide so your family can, together, begin to change the world through intercession for people who have not yet been connected with Christ. Your family can also, through this work, develop a passion for certain peoples that can alter their life trajectory to be more meaningful and fulfilling as you follow where God leads.

Join Sonlight in prayer as part of your homeschool and change the world.

5. Thoughtful Dialogue

Like great Christian thinkers of the past, Sonlight encourages questions, discussion, and consideration for other views so your family can better address the situations in which you find yourselves. With such a strong cross-cultural view resonating throughout our literature selection, your family has the opportunity to look beyond the scope of your community to a wider world that is desperate for winsome ambassadors for Christ.

Do your kids question Christianity? Sonlight helps your family wrestle with hard questions.

How Following Christ Impacts What We Do as a Company

  1. We support missions so those who have never heard the name of Jesus have the opportunity to enter His kingdom.
  2. We pray every day for one another, our customers, and our world.
  3. We engage in ethical, proactive, and responsible business practices so what we do day in and day out blesses our customers, vendors, employees, communities, as well as the environment, government, and general milieu in which we live for God's glory.

Sonlight, both the curriculum and the company, is permeated with Christ. It's an education that lets you discover your world, pray for your world, and ultimately change your world.

Read. Share. Pray. Talk. Together. That's a Sonlight education.

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How To Overcome Your Fear of Homeschooling

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If you are a new homeschool mom or are thinking of homeschooling but you struggle with fears, lean in close - I want you to hear this.

You can do this! You can homeschool.

Almost weekly, I have the same conversation with moms who tell me they are afraid to homeschool or could never homeschool because of one reason or another. Some of the reasons they share are:

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The 5 Most Difficult Things a Homeschool Dad Can Say

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Luke (5) wanted to make his own pond to watch tadpoles grow. He is pictured with his father, Brendon. —Y. family, Sonlighters in Oregon City, OR

What I lack in sensitivity, I make up in hubris. My children frequently have to put up with my bluster and emotional dullness. But here are a few difficult phrases that I and my fellow homeschool dads can keep in our back pockets to help us raise our arrows

1. “I need help.”

So often I say with my tone of voice what I am afraid to say with words. I scowl and jeer at a messy bathroom floor rather than addressing it directly.

The mess returns every evening until my scowls accumulate into an outrage. From the perspective of my children, they do something permissible, until one day, it’s suddenly both impermissible and, indeed, outrageous. What a confusing contradiction.

The result is they end up feeling they need to manage the emotions of their parent, rather than fulfill their responsibilities. The solution is to express my feelings as clearly as I can and arrive at a fair division of labor.

The problem is that there is a part of me that thinks my sheer existence as an authority figure and hard-worker should elicit the same diligence in those around me, even in young children, without so much as a mention of the task, let alone a thank you. 

Saying "I need help" is difficult, but essential.

2. “That makes me feel that you don’t like me.”

This is a scathing-hot iron to my ego. When I attempt the accents in earnest for their Read-Aloud, coming up to an exciting part of the story, and the crescendo is lost in a peal of laughter at unrelated silliness, I’m irritated, of course, at having to repeat that part of the story. But more than that, it makes me feel like they don’t care about my efforts, or even don’t like me.

That doesn’t make sense, so it’s embarrassing to acknowledge the feeling. I direct it as vague ire towards them, which they internalize as vague disapproval. This whole chain can be short-circuited if I look my emotions straight in the face and articulate them carefully.

It's hard to recognize that my children have hurt my feelings, but I need to face the experience.

3. “I should have listened to you.”

My 4-year-old wanted to bring left-over pasta on our walk to the park. I didn’t want to bring a backpack, so we left without either. We ended up in a forest next to the park, playing pirates. It didn’t take long, however, for us to get irritable without a snack. Tears ensued, and the game was cut short.

Instead of apologizing for not bringing a snack, I snapped at them for having, of all things, a short fuse.

The really hard thing about I’m sorry for a daddy is that it means relinquishing a certain amount of moral control. 

In order to lead, we have to be trusted to have the insight to make decisions that benefit the family. If that insight fails, daddy takes one of three paths.

  • The easiest path is to deny the failure in the first place, and blame someone else.
  • The second path is to acknowledge the failure but give up, saying, "I am hereby no longer fit to lead."
  • The third is the most strenuous and asks others, "Stay with me in the midst of my failures as I work on improving myself for your good."

4. “You’re safe with me.”

Dads tend to be good at pushing into the unknown. We encourage risk-taking, experimentation, and hard-work. It’s usually mom who calls the kids home for supper — to rest and safety. That feeling of safety in your mother’s arms is not just nice, but neurologically crucial.

The balance, however, of safety and risk-taking needs to be re-calibrated when daddy is the one who’s at home full-time (as is my situation).

Sometimes a father's desire to see his children achieve must take a backseat. He must hug through his child’s tears without explaining why the tears are misguided. Children must know that whatever happens out there in the wild, Daddy is Daddy:

"I will always be daddy. You cannot earn that and you need not overcome anything to secure that. Run to me, and I will fight the monsters. Come home, and the kettle will be on. You are my beloved children."

5. “You are beautiful.”

  • This is more than "You look pretty today."
  • It is not "You look nice with the right outfit and the right diet."
  • It’s not even "You will become a beautiful woman."

These reserved messages allow daddy to protect himself against illusory rejection. But reaching out with unreserved affection is very self-revealing and leaves daddy vulnerable to his son or daughter.

But when a child sees a daddy, confident to face the possibility of rejection, it communicates that she must be worth an awful lot. Her beauty is so treasured that she is worth seeking and protecting for the simple joy of her presence. The Father would give Himself to be with her and know her, even if it means covering a multitude of sins.

Choose a curriculum the whole family can enjoy together!

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No More Skipping or Forgetting Timeline and Mapping Activities

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No More Skipping or Forgetting Timeline and Mapping Activities

"Already they are making connections when we add new stickers and they notice what else is already on the page!"

—Cynthia H. of Champaign, IL

"One of our favorite parts of Sonlight curriculum is using the maps. I am a missionary kid who grew up all over the world and was always fascinated by maps. The world is a big, beautiful place and I am determined to teach my children (who are being raised in America) the value of other peoples, cultures, and other ways of thinking. I am so thankful for a curriculum that helps me do this."

—Sarah R. of La Fayette, GA


Mentally, I am fully convinced of the value of timelines and mapping. But in practice? I often treat them as if they are simply too much to fit into our homeschool schedule. That is, I skip them.

Yes, I admit it. Because I don't prioritize them, these two elements of our Sonlight curriculum often get squeezed out of our school days. I’ve come to realize that I need to create a time and space for The Timeline Book and the Markable Map. Here are three parts of my resolution to do better about actually using both the timeline and maps—no more forgetting, no more skipping.

1. Make The Timeline Book and Maps Something to Look Forward to

When our children love The Timeline Book and Markable Map, we will be more likely to incorporate them into our day. Here's a list of ideas to help our children fall in love with these two learning tools:

  • Make it a privilege: A friend of mine rotates the privilege of coloring the timeline figures among her three daughters. Over the years of homeschooling, coloring the timeline figure has become the opportunity that they all prize.
  • Use color: Allow your child to color each figure with colored pencils while you read aloud.
  • Use fun markers or stickers: Would a new pack of favorite-colored markers help to make the maps more fun? Or removable stickers can mark the location of certain characters and stories.
  • Personalize it: Would it help to include your child’s personal moments in The Timeline Book while you’re updating it for the history curriculum?
  • Make it a game: Would it be fun to play a weekly or monthly Review Game and update The Timeline Book and maps all at once?
  • Sing a Theme Song: Would a catchy tune help to make The Timeline Book and map time special? (Even the most musically-challenged of us can make something out of “It’s Timeline time, timeline time… let’s get out the stickers and markers!”)
  • Motivate with snacks: Plan to update The Timeline Book and do the mapping activities while you enjoy a delicious afternoon snack.

2. Include The Timeline Book and Maps in My Schedule

It may seem obvious, but I need to face the fact that updating The Timeline Book and doing the map work require a certain amount of time. If we want to work with consistency, we need to include them in our daily schedules.

I always schedule time for history, science, and reading aloud, but I do not schedule 10 extra minutes for the timeline or maps. I am going to incorporate these two elements in our schedule for next year, actually writing them down where necessary.  

3. Display The Timeline Book and Maps

We pay attention to things that are in full view and tend to forget about the books and projects that are stuffed in the closet or crammed between books on a shelf. It's important to create a space where The Timeline Book and the maps are proudly on display. For example, I’ve moved a small end table to the kitchen in order to prop up The Timeline Book in a picture frame holder and hang the Markable Map next to the CD player that we use for our Bible Memory songs. Where could you display these important resources so that they are likely to get your attention in the midst of a busy homeschool day?

Veteran homeschool moms agree: we won’t regret investing time and energy into these important elements of Sonlight curriculum. This year, let’s take a step in that direction and actually use our Timeline Book and Markable Map!

Your Sonlight Instructor's Guides tell you exactly where to place your timeline figures and how to do the mapping activities. Learn more about Sonlight's guides here.

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How To Help Your Child Do What You Say

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Homeschooling, and parenting in general, would be so much easier without resistance, rebellion, and whining. Wouldn’t it be awesome if our children did what we told them to do?

While we can’t eliminate all of the struggles-of-the-will in our homeschool, we can make choices that help our children be more content, reasonable, and obedient. Here are three principles that can help your child do what you say.

1. Believe the Best About Your Child

In many ways, our children are trusting us to tell the story of their lives. When we believe the best about them, they believe us and are more apt to do the right thing. Conversely, when we assume the worst about them, they believe us, and it affects their behavior negatively.

It all comes down to our attitude as their mother. When we ask God for the ability to live according to “love always hopes,” we influence our children in radical ways.

To get your wheels spinning about how your hopeful attitude could transform your home, here are examples of ways that this plays out in my home on a daily basis:

  • When my two-year-old shows up with scissors in his hand, I say, “Thank you for finding them! I’ll put them up high so that no little children get hurt.” Nine times out of ten, he hands them over without a fuss. If I jump at him in anger or alarm, he runs off with the scissors.
  • When my seven-year-old is concerned that a younger sibling will ruin his LEGO creation, I say, “Of course she won’t ruin your creation. She loves and respects you. I know that she will take good care of your hard work.” That younger sibling hears my trusting response and usually tries extra hard to respect that LEGO scene.
  • When the breakfast dishes are cleaned up and we are ready to begin schoolwork, I simply say, “Okay, everyone! Let’s get started on schoolwork.” Then, I gather the little ones for our story time on the couch and don’t look back at the older children as if I’m doubting that they’ll begin work. My confidence that the older kids will do their work frees them to do it.
  • When a child is frustrated with schoolwork, I assume that he or she wants to understand the material. I try to come alongside and help solve the problem, identify obstacles, or direct them so that they can succeed.

2. Prepare Your Child for New Circumstances and Expectations

This is a tool that every parent can use from the early days of parenting through high school. When your child is about to enter new circumstances or when expectations have changed, prepare your child for the adjustment. Talk about things ahead of time or practice skills that your child may need to succeed. One of our most significant roles as parents is to prepare our children for life, including the things that happen on a daily basis.

Here are examples:

  • When we pull into the church parking lot, a friend’s house, or a new environment, we talk about what the children can expect from the situation. We aim to set them up for success, telling them who will be there, how they should behave, and how they can thrive.
  • In homeschooling, when we are starting a new book or activity, I explain the context and share my expectations. Sarita’s notes in the Instructor Guides provide context and expectations for many assignments.
  • Whenever I modify our schedule, I first talk about it for a couple of days and ask for feedback, then I print out the new schedule and attach it to the refrigerator. I often use breakfast to talk through the plans for the day. The kids can ask questions, propose changes, and express their concerns. It helps to address these things before they become opportunities for conflict and resistance.

3. Remember that Homeschooling is About Child Development and Discipleship

I regularly need to remind myself that homeschooling is not about checking boxes, completing textbooks, or impressing people. We homeschool so that we can disciple our children, guiding them step by step in God’s ways. By respecting the tendencies and trajectory of child development, we will treat frustration, resistance, and whininess as part of our call to nurture and disciple our children.

Although we aim to create peace, harmony, and faithfulness in our children, we also recognize that weaknesses will come up from time to time. God cares about the homeschooling mom who is raising a stubborn, resistant, or disobedient child. He will guide us each step of the way, even if the journey is long. We can pray continually for the atmosphere in our homes, asking the Holy Spirit to reverse the trend of darkness and to shine His life and light in us and our home.

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Most children thrive with a structured homeschool day. Try Sonlight to see how it can provide a framework for your daily routines and make it easier for your children to obey.

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