Stories from New Homeschoolers: How to Juggle Working & Teaching

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In the Sonlight Connections group (membership for anyone with a free account on sonlight.com) and the Sonlight Newbies group (membership offered to qualified new Sonlighters), we asked brand new, unexpected homeschoolers how they are juggling working with teaching their children at home.

Bottom line (and you already know this), doing both is difficult. But many families are making it work through an incredible amount of flexibility and perseverance. We hope their stories will encourage you that you are not alone in your struggles! And maybe you'll find a few tips for making these days easier.

[Some responses have been shortened for brevity and have been lightly edited.]

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7 Steps to Starting a Homeschool Co-Op You & Your Kids Will Love

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7 Steps to Starting a Homeschool Co-Op You & Your Kids Will Love

Homeschool co-ops are a source of connection and fellowship for families all over the country. At co-ops, bonds are formed, and people come together for one purpose: raising and educating children.

My family began a homeschool co-op in our small town four years ago, and I am always amazed to think back at how it all came together in the beginning and how it continues to come together each day. Our co-op meets four days a week from 8:00-3:30. We teach all subjects, and parents can either pay full price for teaching services or they can swap services by volunteering. Some parents do a combination of both.

It is truly special to see our parents coming together and applying their unique gifts to serve our little group of children. I'm inspired by these parents who are committed to giving their children a quality educational experience — together.

Since we began our little co-op school four years ago, it has grown and changed. In fact, this year was our first year to actually have a waiting list because our location cannot accommodate any more families than we currently have. This waitlist caused me to wish that there were more options for homeschool co-ops in my little town. So I began to think about how we got our start, and how I could help others get their start.

It is my vision to see little pop-up co-op schools all over, each one catering to the unique needs of the children in their care.

This is the beauty of a homeschool co-op. They aren’t just one-size-fits-all. It’s a process of determining the needs of your community of children, and doing what you can to meet those needs. 

So, this leads me to the question that may be on your mind. How do I start a co-op in my area? I’ve created this little start-up post to help. Hopefully it will inspire you to build a community of homeschoolers in your city as we have. 

1. Find Like-Minded People

The first thing you will need to do is find other homeschoolers in your community. Put out a plea on social media or in the local newspaper. Contact area churches and ask if they have any homeschooling families in their congregations. You’ll need to build a core group to get the co-op up and running. In this stage, you’ll need to build a bond with the people who will be creating the co-op, so take your time here, and make sure that your core group is compatible. Do a lot of praying, and ask God to bring the right people into your life. Spend a few months to a year getting to know your core group. You might even start an informal co-op with these families by meeting together each week.

2. Write a Mission Statement

Get together and decide what you all need/want in a co-op. Are you looking to provide social interaction for your children, or are you wanting to provide educational experiences? Maybe you are looking to trade your skills/expertise in one area with someone who has skills/expertise in another area.

Think about what you want from this experience, and share your thoughts with your group. Then, together, write out a mission statement that covers your goal for the co-op. Remember, you can always grow and change, but it is so good to have clear expectations when you embark on any new endeavor.

3. Appoint Officers and Craft Job Descriptions

You’ll need to form a co-op board of people who will lead your group. You’ll want to decide how often these people will rotate so as to avoid any one person getting burned out. Most co-ops have a president, vice-president, secretary, and treasurer. Although there really is no set-in-stone formula for the number of members on a board, you’ll want to try for an odd number so there is always a tie-breaker if needed for making decisions.

Be sure to write job descriptions for your officers so the expectations for everyone are clear and concise. Don’t forget to check your local finance laws on homeschool co-ops so your treasurer will know his/her duties clearly up front. When everyone knows exactly what’s expected of them, the operation runs much smoother and no one feels as though others are not pulling their weight.

4. Determine How Your Co-Op Will Run

After your board is set, you’ll need to begin deciding how the co-op will run. Think about the following questions:

  • Who will teach?
  • Who will organize our field trips?
  • How many times should we gather?
  • Will we require members to volunteer or can they drop off their kids?
  • What will we charge for drop off services?
  • Will we trade pay for volunteer hours?
  • What curriculum will you use?

Once you decide on the administrative elements of your co-op, you will need to write it out. I would caution that you not make your policy too long. Short and sweet is the best way to get information out, so write out your information keeping the goal of being clear and concise in mind. 

5. Secure a Location

You might be pleasantly surprised to find that many churches and communities are more than happy to loan out their facilities for homeschool co-ops. Ask around your community to see if any organizations could help you find a meeting place for free or for low cost. Commit to leaving the facility in better shape than when you found it so that the hosts will welcome you back each week.

6. Create a Schedule

Now things are getting fun! Get your calendar out and begin mapping out your year. Mark days to meet. Then write a schedule for your meeting days. Determine how many volunteers you will need and make a volunteer schedule as well. 

7. Spread the Word

Once you’ve done all the leg work, advertise for other families to join in. Create a Facebook page to put out information, and publish your policies and schedules. Since you have clear expectations written out and published, it will be easy for families to decide if your co-op will be a good fit for them.

In the beginning especially, it is wise to set a limit on how many families you will be able to accommodate. Once you hit your limit, let people know that you will place them on a waiting list and let them know when a place becomes available. 

It is my earnest prayer that all these homeschool co-ops will thrive and grow so that all families have options in their children’s educational experience. Raising your children with other like-minded families is so very rewarding. Your children get the benefit of a whole group of adults investing in their education and well-being, and they also reap the benefits of plenty of multi-aged playmates.

I know that our little co-op that began as a dream several years ago has certainly blessed my family. If you don’t currently have this support system for your family, then I hope you will consider taking steps to start one. Chances are good that if you are looking for some extra support, there are other families in your area who are looking as well.

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If you long for a community that provides educational enrichment, encouragement, creativity, fun, and friendship, Sonlight Connections is for you.

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12 Books Perfect for Science Strewing

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Just leave these books out where kids can find them, and let the science magic happen!

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When Virtual Learning Isn't Working

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When Virtual Learning Isn't Working

The year 2020 will go down in history as one of the hardest, weirdest years for a lot of people. As a society, we have had to change and adjust to so many things. Everything we knew from years past, we suddenly have to do differently. From leaving school early last year to starting school online this year...it’s been tough.

I’ve been hearing from many parents that virtual learning is more than a challenge; it’s a struggle.

It’s been difficult for students, parents, and teachers, and I’ve heard many parents lately expressing that they just don’t think virtual learning is going to work, but they don’t know what else to do. Here’s what I’d like to share with you…

It’s okay. You do have options.

In my opinion, one of the biggest mistakes that parents make in their child’s education is believing that they are trapped into a single path.

  • If you are in a public school situation that isn’t working for your child, it’s easy to think you're stuck.
  • If you start homeschooling with one curriculum but soon find that your child isn’t thriving, it’s easy to feel you have no recourse to switch.
  • If you are in virtual school with a child who is withering, again, it’s easy to convince yourself that there are no other options for you.

So you and your child tough it out, for better...or worse. Soon, you notice that your child dreads logging into their daily schoolwork. Then you may find tears and anxiety are close to follow. After that, the disconnect and the loss of interest and effort are apparent.

You find yourself feeling trapped. You want to help your child, but do you have any other options? Yes you do!

1. Consider Homeschooling

You are already facilitating online learning, so it's not much of a stretch to just make the leap and homeschool your child. Homeschooling might be just what you need to relieve the stress.

In homeschooling, you decide when and how your child will learn. If a Monday-Friday schedule doesn’t work for you, that’s okay! Do school in the evenings or on the weekends. You might even really switch things up and school year-round, giving you more breaks throughout the year.

You may be surprised to find that, depending on the age of your child and your choice of curriculum, your time commitment may be the same or possibly even less than what it is with virtual learning. You may also be surprised to learn that colleges are becoming more and more homeschool-friendly, happily accepting and offering scholarships to homeschooled students. 

Homeschooling also means that you choose how your child learns. If your child is tired of the computer, maybe they would do better with a workbook. Or maybe they really excel with a literature-based curriculum where they can read and discuss their learning with you.

Whatever works best for your child is what you are able to give them when you homeschool. In homeschooling, life is the classroom —not four walls and not a computer.

Learn more by talking to an Advisor.

In this article from The Washington Post (may be behind a paywall), the author says that after merely one week of homeschooling, "…we’d had enough of a breakthrough to see that the way our child learns wasn’t being served well by the school setting, and that the virtual learning setup only magnified those challenges. I cried because I’d wished we’d caught it earlier and because I was grateful that I’d trusted my gut. In doing so, we finally had a path for her that made sense."

2. Use Homeschool Co-ops & Pods

Don’t want to tackle the homeschool gig on your own? That’s okay! You don’t have to!

Many families are choosing to homeschool these days, so why not get together and make it a joint effort by forming a co-op or at-home learning pod? There are many different types of homeschool co-ops. 

  • Social co-ops focus on getting together for play opportunities and field trips
  • Educational co-ops focus on providing educational opportunities
  • Specialized co-ops focus on a certain type of homeschooling method

Some co-ops require parents to attend, while others are drop off varieties.

We live in a town of about 7,000 people and within 30 minutes of our home, we have access to at least 5 different homeschooling groups, all with a different focus.

Co-ops are a great way to make homeschooling a viable option for your family.

If you are interested in finding out what’s available in your area, do a quick online search or start asking around. 

3. Consider Blended Education

Many communities are making it easier to blend your child’s education with a mix of different avenues. Look at your state’s laws to see if your state allows a blended education.

For example, where I live in Arkansas, children can take as little as one class at a public school while homeschooling the rest of the day. This is especially beneficial for children who enjoy sports, music, and STEAM activities. Other states provide a hybrid of in-person or online charter school with at-home instruction that you provide.

Talk with your local school administration or state homeschool advocacy organization to see what is available for you. 

I’m not going to tell you that homeschooling is easy or stress-free, but I will tell you that it is a good option for families who aren’t satisfied with virtual learning.

Switching from virtual learning to a homeschool situation can really set you and your child free from at least a few of the stressors in 2020. 

If virtual learning is a win for your family, that’s great! We are rooting for you! But, if it’s not, don’t stay in a situation where no one is thriving. Don’t be afraid to try something different. Try homeschooling! If you do decide to give it a try, we are here to help at Sonlight.

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3 Steps Before You Begin Assessing Your Child’s Progress

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“But how will I know if my child is where he should be?” That’s usually one of the first few questions prospective homeschool moms ask me. Read on to discover the answer!

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8 Ways to Assess (and Document) Your Child's Learning

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Assessing your child doesn’t have to be complicated. My favorite motto for just about everything homeschool related is “Keep It Simple!” So, keep that in mind as you read through this list, and remember there are several different ways to assess. Choose the way that fits your schedule, your style, your child, and your curriculum. Let’s get started.

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6 Remedies When Your Child's Spelling Is Not Up to Par

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Has your child ever written a completely indiscernible sentence? Is their spelling so atrocious that you can’t even make out simple words? Don’t fret...we are here to help you find the resources and tips you need!

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