Shake Things Up, Make a Goal

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The air is a brisk 58 degrees as I step into the sunshine for my daily walk after lunch. My phone rings three times before my wife picks up. Immediately following our exchange of hellos, Brittany passes me off to a friend who, she claims, "is going to try to convince you to do something."

Uh-oh.

"Hi, Luke! I'm going to be doing NaNoWriMo and I think you should do it too. Brittany's already agreed and if we all do it together it will be fun and we'll be able to inspire each other and stuff!"

Hmm... add writing two to three thousands words a day to my already packed schedule? This does not sound like a good idea...

But our friend is right: Simply by signing up and making a plan--not to mention getting others to help keep you going--is a very effective strategy to getting things done. In fact, written goals make you ten times more likely to do something than someone without a specific goal.

My life isn't dull, and I'm guessing yours isn't either. There's always something going on in a home filled with learning! But maybe you're feeling like you're getting stuck in a rut. Maybe you've thought you'd like to give your kids some variety in their extracurricular activities and free time. Maybe you'd like to help them start aiming for bigger dreams and working toward a goal. If so, shake things up a bit and do something out of the ordinary. Who knows, your child may discover a new interest or passion that you hadn't realized before.

As a mild example, some of the girls in our church's Young Marrieds group--my sister and wife included--decided to run in the local Color Me Rad race [NB: This group is rather tongue-in-cheek and joke freely about things of which you may not approve... please feel no compulsion to read about them]. My wife has never been interested in running, but as we trained together for her big day, she discovered that running was "kinda fun."


Brittany Running in Color

Other potential sources of inspiration: Our church is putting on an art show later this month. The Christmas pageant is coming up. Maybe it's time to introduce your children to the joy of baking a chocolate pie... or at least tasty 20 minute cookies.

I'm certainly not advocating adding more to your plate! But sometimes it can be good to try out new things and take another look at the goals for your homeschool.

At least, I hope that's true, otherwise next month is going to be miserable <smile>.

Is your family doing anything "out of the ordinary" in the coming months?

 ~Luke Holzmann
Filmmaker, Writer, Empty Nester

P.S. If you have an aspiring writer, perhaps consider encouraging them to participate in the NaNo Young Writers Program.

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Lazy vs Greedy

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I woke up thinking about a question I saw a while back: "Why is it easier to believe that 150,000,000 Americans are being lazy than that 400 Americans are being greedy?" I think the question was posed by someone of the Occupy persuasion (but I can't find a source).

In answer, my brain kept asking, "Have you not been to school?"

Maybe I'm still stuck on Mrs. C's post about kids who drop out of school when they are required to retake a year they failed. When I graduated from high school, half of my fellow classmates had dropped out. Based on that experience alone, I have no trouble believing that 50% of America's 300+ million population struggle.

But are they lazy?

Some are, sure. But others are disillusioned by a system that fails them. Many are stuck in situations that don't encourage them to move forward; socioeconomic pressures affect people. And let's not forget the kids who find school disheartening, something that Dr. Sax brilliantly illustrates in Why Gender Matters. And while an education absolutely does not equate to employment, there's something to be said for learning how to be punctual, figuring out what people want of you, working smart, and managing your time to complete assignments as required. If you don't do that in school, you'll likely have trouble in a job.

150 million people are not lazy. But there are many reasons why they may not be successful.

On the flip side, are the wealthiest Americans greedy?

I'm certain some are. But when I look at a list of the top 100, many of the people don't strike me as the problem. Maybe the 25 of the finance world are, but I wouldn't know. What I see, instead, are people who were able to make it big by being outliers. My mom is an excellent example. When she started Sonlight more than 20 years ago, she pioneered the literature-rich homeschool model. Her efforts paid off after working for years making 20 cents an hour. Today, literature-based homeschool curriculum dominates a large portion of the home education market. Numerous knock-offs have been founded based on her ideas. She started a wave that didn't exist before. And now, we have a profitable and successful company. A company that seeks to give away half of its profits to important work around the world.

[As an aside: just because Mark Zuckerberg is currently "valued" at $9 billion... I'm pretty sure he doesn't have that much money in his bank account.]

I wonder if one of the reasons we don't understand wealth and how the wealthy use their resources is because of how few great biographies there are on the topic. One factor would be that there are only 100 people in the top 100... limiting the number of possible great examples. Another is that super wealth for individuals not in government seems to be a recent phenomenon. And since a love of money is a root of all kinds of evil, it may be difficult to find people who amass large amounts of money and still seek to use it to expand God's Kingdom. But they are out there!

By homeschooling, you are in a position to overcome most of the issues I outlined above facing the "lazy" in our country. What's even better: It doesn't matter which curriculum you use. Simply by being involved in your student's education, your students tend to do better. Plain and simple.

Homeschooling also affords you opportunities to let your children pursue their interests while instilling your values. You may be raising the creator of the next revolution in our lives, be it in technology, agriculture, medicine, social reform, religious thought, or otherwise. By giving your students a global perspective and a heart for the world, they can grow up excited to use whatever wealth God gives them to expand His Kingdom and bless others. If you're not sure where to start, join our latest giving opportunity today.

I'd be remiss not to close with this reminder: Many of the most influential people in the world have been those who simply chose to follow God's call. They may not have been billionaires or brainiacs, but God used them in many powerful ways. You meet such people again and again throughout Sonlight's Core programs.

May your children grow up neither lazy nor greedy. Instead, may they change the world in the ways God directs.

 ~Luke Holzmann
Filmmaker, Writer, Empty Nester

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Monday

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I've got the Monday Blues. Or the Monday Foggy Brain. Or the Monday Exhaustion. Or, well, something to do with Monday's that mean this is my least productive day of the week.

I often find that I'm dragging out of bed and wanting a nap by 9:30.


This sums up my energy level.

I find myself shuffling through things that got taken out over the weekend and haven't been put away.*

I glance through the fridge, it's getting low but it's not shopping day. I could clean, but cleaning day is Thursday, and really, if I clean at 10am the house will not look cleaned by the time the girls go to bed anyway.

I see most of my friends over the weekend, so the need to call and hang out or catch up with a friend is missing.

We generally spend Sunday afternoon with Beppe and Grandpa, so I'm always a bit hesitant to ask if we can come over; I want to make sure they can get done what they need.

Goodness, what a whiner! I definitely need a new strategy to make Monday's a productive day.

Some things I came up with:

  • Make a plan on Saturday night with stuff to do Monday?
  • Make it an errand day?
  • A bread/muffin baking day? (Not something I currently do, but have been thinking about trying)
  • A field trip day?

I'm big on checking off lists, but I feel like Monday turns out to be the day when all of my lists are made to then be checked off during the rest of the week.

So tell me, how do you deal with your down day?

Suggestions for mine?

Until next time,
Jonelle

*I'm grateful to take Sunday as a day of rest, and so I choose to not do any housework. Therefore, the house often is in pretty rough shape come Monday morning.

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Grades: the less-helpful metric

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We went to Prom together over a decade ago. Yesterday we chatted in the church hallway while we waited for the kids in the Christmas play to finish rehearsal. I don't even know how the topic came up.

"At our school we focus on mastery," she tells me. "The kids can take tests again and again."

"That's great. I get why schools test for grades, but measuring how well a child has grasped a subject at a particular moment in time doesn't help the student much. Far better to let them learn from their mistakes!"

With homeschooling, that's exactly what you can do. You aren't bound by some arbitrary convention of when your students "should" learn something. If it takes two days or two years, it's not a big deal. You can let your students learn at their own pace. On the other hand, you can even use tests to help you identify areas where your students struggle or excel. Then, based on this information, you can tweak what you focus on and practice. That's a fantastic use of testing. But notice how that's about you and how you run your homeschool. Grades based on tests are far less helpful for your child.

To the student, getting a bad grade in spelling doesn't help much if they can't practice and try again.

Focus on helping your students master a skill, and they'll do just fine on the test.

 ~Luke Holzmann
Filmmaker, Writer, Empty Nester

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Grateful for His Provision

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Smoke snaked through the air from behind the dishwasher. A moment before an audible "pop" had reverberated through the house. It smelled like burnt plastic and boiling gutter water. Turns out the power cable to our dishwasher had arced, taking out the new supply line and charring the wall. The firemen said we're safe.

But we need a new dishwasher.


The Damage

These frustrating expenses crop up far more often than I'd like. If it were up to me, I'd spend the money on something much more useful and enjoyable; but, no.

I grumble on the way to the hardware store. I grumble on the way back to remeasure the space. I grumble while we discuss which option to buy. I grumble as we head back again. I really don't like spending money. And the one Brittany likes is $80 more than the one I'd select! <grumble>

"We're out of the cheaper model," the sales guy tells us. "And there's no indication when we'll get a new shipment."

<grumble>

"But I see that you guys were looking at this other model. Would you like it for the same price as this one?"

<blink>

They're delivering the new dishwasher tomorrow, for $80 less than the sticker price.

And once again, for all my grumbling, God provides. More than that, He blesses. Brittany says I need to be grateful for these blessings. And she's right. <grumble>

Throughout the Old Testament, God tells Israel to look back on His faithfulness when they are in situations that don't look so good. I'm sure I need to do the same today.

Do you have any stories of when God has blessed your family?

 ~Luke Holzmann
Filmmaker, Writer, Empty Nester

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Transitions ...

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Any journey comes with changes in direction. Our homeschool journey has been no different. Our path changed dramatically when our firstborn graduated from our homeschool and went to college ... and then graduated from college ... and got married. The road ahead looked significantly different after those events!

Our path changed direction again when our second child graduated from our homeschool and headed to college. When, after her first semester, she decided to continue her college education online, from home, that path changed yet again.

Our youngest will graduate from our homeschool in the spring. He is already dual-enrolled with the college he plans to attend next fall. At that point in time I expect our journey will change radically.

One of the greatest challenges as our journey has transitioned has been the change in our relationship with our children. I have been pondering those transitions this week after reading an article titled Entering Neither World in Thriving Family magazine. The author discusses that transition time when children move from being wholly dependent on parents to wanting a greater level of independence. She shares the following quote from therapist Rebecca Dowden explaining that this stage of development is called "individuation." The therapist states that the details differ for every teen, but the common denominator is that they are all learning to view themselves as separate from their parents.

That's a tough transition! Having spent all these years teaching our kids to be a valued member of our family, part of our "team" ... now it's time to let them go?! Did someone forget to tell me that was going to happen?!

As difficult as these transitions have been on this mom, I have thoroughly enjoyed the conversations with our kids as we talk about issues from an adult perspective. The other evening the newest voter in our house had a great conversation with me about the value (or lack thereof) of presidential debates. That conversation transitioned into the cost of college education, and how in the world anyone could afford it. I am excited when my kids seek my input, but also somewhat melancholy when I consider that these transitions mean more change is ahead!

To embrace change is never easy, but I'm determined to do so. After all, isn't this our ultimate goal? The transition from teen to adult is a huge one ... but it can be one of the most rewarding, and one of the most challenging. Launching our homeschooled students into the world is one of the greatest impacts we can have on society.

Wishing you well with the transitions in your homeschool journey ...

Still on the journey ...
~Judy Wnuk
Sonlight Customer Champion

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Why Children Cheat: Classrooms, Karma, and Consequences

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Within the recesses of her hoody, she embodies the girl described in the opening of Britt Nicole's Headphones song. It's the next best thing to an invisibility cloak. And from these artificial shadows, she glares at the loathed "bubble test" before her. The question doesn't make sense; her pencil moves to fill in option C.

Her hidden eyes catch sight of the sheet filled in by the student next to her. He's a "smart" kid who probably has the right answer. And it's so easy to lift his decisions completely undetected.

She darkens a different bubble.

"As long as I don't get caught, nobody cares how I figured out which letter to fill in. Besides," she reassures herself, "I don't work overly hard to cover up my sheet. I give back too."


Hoody

Like this middle school student, I also dislike Scantron® tests. They tend to test your ability to guess what the teacher wants, ask you to mindlessly repeat what you've been told, and reinforce data points over understanding. And, because mastery isn't the key, cheating is a logical step forward. I never considered cheating when I had an education based on mastery. But when your success rides on your ability to properly select the correct letter one hundred times in a row... you start to feel like maybe you're playing a different game. And if that's the case, cheating makes sense.

Listening to this girl's story, however, hinted at something I hadn't considered before: Karma. She justified cheating by saying, "At least I let others cheat off me too." In so doing, she pays off her "debt to society" by "giving back" to those around her. The non sequitur would be funny if it didn't betray such a deep misunderstand of education: "I'm here paying my dues. The more we can help each other all get by, the better."

Right now I am not concerned with the consequences of cheating. Of far greater importance is the consequence of an educational model where students have been so far removed from the process of learning that cheating has become an act of kindness to their fellow student.

In the past I would tell kids that "you aren't doing yourself or your friends any favors by cheating." But now I'm not so sure that's true. Such statements only make sense when the goal is for you to learn how to use and apply knowledge. If the purpose of a classroom is to get you to properly fill in a piece of paper, taking a "group test" makes the most sense.

Homeschooling gives you the opportunity to create an environment where applying knowledge is the goal. As you do that, you'll find that filling in the bubbles is just an added bonus on the side.

 ~Luke Holzmann
Filmmaker, Writer, Empty Nester

P.S. Now I'm wondering: Does this view carry on beyond the classroom? Could this be part of the growing misunderstanding of how we actively help our "fellow man"? If the goal is to have a fish, does it matter how I got it?

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