Life's Top 5 Regrets and How Not to Have Them

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  1. I wish I hadn't worked so hard.
  2. I wish I had stayed in touch with my friends.
  3. I wish I had let myself be happier.
  4. I wish I'd had the courage to express my true self.
  5. I wish I'd lived a life true to my dreams, instead of what others expected of me.

Jane McGonigal likes games (yes, even video games). Her TED Talk about the game that can give you 10 extra years of life reminds us that games can help us avoid the top five most common regrets. And I'm certainly not against games either. They can connect us with others, demonstrate what a love of learning looks like, give us a break, introduce us to advanced concepts, afford opportunities for enjoyable practice and expression, remind us how we should approach learning, and teach us real-world skills, among other things.

While it's true games can help us not have regrets, so can a myriad of other activities. Sharing great books comes to mind. Making cosplay costumes also does those things, as my wife mentioned last night. Fishing, tinkering, needlepoint, painting, laser tag, gardening, sports, and the like all help alleviate life regrets, especially when you do them with others.

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No Regrets [I have no interest in bungee jumping; the picture is purely illustrative]

There is absolutely a place for work and routine, dedication and elbow grease. As homeschoolers, we can work hard and have opportunity to appropriate our free time to do amazing things.

Rather than regrets, may we revel in the joy and freedom we've been granted.

 ~Luke Holzmann
Filmmaker, Writer, Empty Nester

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10 Reasons to Homeschool with Sonlight

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At Sonlight, we believe no one can teach your children like you can. In this blog, we celebrate that truth and explore even more practical and powerful reasons families choose to homeschool with Sonlight.

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Stuff I Think You'll Find Interesting

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Have you ever felt worn out defending your decision to homeschool? Have you been thinking about the latest Supreme Court ruling on marriage and how Christians should respond? Has someone asked you about socialization yet again? Have you been scouring the internet looking for a summer recipe for slime?

Of course you have!

As Sonlighters, we're interested in all kinds of things. Ever since I started blogging for Sonlight all those years ago, I've been reading fascinating blog posts. I share some of them as Other Posts of Note. There are hundreds (thousands?) of such posts in my Google Reader feed, but since Reader is closing down today, I'm guessing those will all vanish into cyberspace. That's why, a few months ago, I started the transition to a different RSS reader. The new Other Posts of Note can be found here (or on the sidebar of the blog).

If you have a blog I don't know about, please share the link so I can add you to my list.

Have you selected a new RSS reader (assuming you follow a bunch of blogs too)?

I love that Sonlighters are such kindred spirits. I'm sure we don't agree on everything, but we've all discovered the joy of life-long learning. I love reading what you share--including the ever-encouraging Sonlight Moments--and I think you'll find these Other Posts of Note interesting.

Any favorite posts you've read recently?

 ~Luke Holzmann
Filmmaker, Writer, Empty Nester

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Videos to Help You on Your Homeschool Journey

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Enjoy these free homeschool workshops and webinars. Learn from veteran homeschool moms as they share the tips, tricks, and reminders about socialization, testing, organization, getting started with Sonlight, and more!

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Please Read Books Instead

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He grew up a student of the school system. History was little more than a series of titles and dates mixed in with social studies. It wasn't until the sixth grade that a teacher read a well-written story from history to him. In that moment, history became interesting.

He's a history teacher now. He's passionate about the subject. He clearly loves research and tying themes together. That's great.

Tragically, his history courses are mostly about social studies. As I reviewed the DVD he sent me, I kept waiting for him to share a story. I desperately wanted him to give me the same thing he experienced as a 6th Grader. But after two lectures, I had nothing more than a few compiled facts and opinions about a society. Not a single story. Nothing to hook me. "History" was boring.

Key words flashed on the screen. "These are important," I was told. "So be sure to write them in your notes."

I'm not against note taking. If writing something down helps you remember it, fantastic! I dutifully fill in the blanks on the sheet provided with the sermon each Sunday. But learning history is not akin to recalling terms like "the people of the mountain" associated with a particular people group. Telling me that slaves were of little importance means nothing either. But if you shared a story about a slave who lived among a people on a mountain, I'd get all that. More that than, I'd be interested.

Give your students a powerful advantage in their studies with a literature-based curriculum. Allow history to come alive for your children. Give them an education that encourages them to find history interesting. Please read books instead.

By all means add media and other resources to your schooling. But continue to use great stories as the basis for your studies. A great story sparked a passion for history. Imagine what an education based on great literature would do.

You don't have to imagine.

You can read about this year's Scholarship Winners and hundreds of Sonlight Moments. And with Sonlight's Love to Learn, Love to Teach Guarantee, you can experience this for yourself and prove it works for your family.

If you've experienced the benefits of reading great literature in your homeschool, please share!

 ~Luke Holzmann
Filmmaker, Writer, Empty Nester

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The Difference

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A few summers ago my family had to opportunity to travel on a long-abandoned stretch of historic Route 66 over the mountains between Kingman, Arizona and Needles, California.

The further we got from the Interstate the further back in time we went. I could easily imagine what it must have been like for the Okies who left the Dust Bowl during the Great Depression in hopes of a better life in California.

We didn't have to travel that route to get where we were going that day. In fact, it was somewhat of a detour for us to go that way, but we wanted to just for the experience of it. And it was, indeed, an experience we will never forget.

The old highway is narrow and twisty. It follows the contour of the land winding up and around the mountains. There are sharp drop-offs and blind curves. It is not an easy road to drive. It is fascinating, though, with interesting things to see and intriguing intersections leading off to who-knows-where. We especially enjoyed watching for the wild burros. And we speculated about the travelers who had been this way before, generations ago.

The Interstate we had left behind by-passed the mountains and rough places. It was wide and smooth, and easy to travel. We would have reached our destination sooner if we had stayed on the (boring) Interstate. But that wasn't the point that day.

Contrasting the two routes reminds me a little bit of homeschooling. Sending my kids off for someone else to educate would certainly be the easiest route (at least for me), but choosing "the road less traveled by" has been so much more rewarding over the years. I'm convinced our family is closer as a result of the extra time we've had to spend together. We've been able to customize our learning plan to specifically meet the needs of each of my children in ways that a classroom school never could. And we've had time to explore side-roads and admire the scenery along the way.

Two roads diverged in a wood,
and I, I took the one less traveled by,
And that has made all the difference.
--Robert Frost

Enjoying the adventure,
~Karla Cook
Lifelong Learner

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Inadequate, Boring, Backward, Limited and Cruel Education

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My wife has been re-listening to The History of Rome podcast. This morning she told me a bit about what the Roman education system was like (yes, she's already up to episode 87). The basic idea: Require students to memorize stuff. Period.

"Once a kid got out of school, he was almost guaranteed to never want to learn anything ever again. It was that bad." As my wife described the joyless process of reading for the sake of reading--not to enjoy or learn or think--she shifted to one of her latest pet observations: Rome lacked creativity. They stole their culture and religion from the Greeks. And that makes sense if your students are only taught to regurgitate what they have been given to memorize.

The "obvious" step here would be to compare our current public educational model with this ancient classical approach to learning. But I don't think that would be wise.

First, I'm not convinced the public schools are that bad. I've heard from a few people that they never want to read a book again. At the same time, they often love stories. Overall, the kids I know are bright, inquisitive, and happy to learn stuff. The system has much improved from how it was in ancient Rome.

Second, while schools certainly "teach to the test"--so much so that teachers are saying "I quit" (another here)--the problems are larger than that. For example, the Common Core is failing to help keep publishers on task as exemplified in this video. "Literature & Writing" texts are directed at teaching kids emotional pleas for social issues not, you know, writing and literature.

Third, I'm more interested in focusing on the benefits of our approach. The more Brittany told me about Rome, the more ways I was encouraged to know we do it better. Example: Instead of forcing kids to memorize the sequence and names of the alphabet before seeing a single letter, we regularly focus on the sound a letter makes and emphasize that sound in words when playing with my youngest niece.

As homeschoolers, we can take what works and give our children a life-long love of learning. And if we can learn from the inadequate, boring, backward, and limited ideas about education from the past, so much the better.

Keep up the great work you are doing in raising up the next generation!

 ~Luke Holzmann
Filmmaker, Writer, Empty Nester

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