How Not to Evaluate Homeschooling

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Update: Since this post was first written in December 2013, I've had an opportunity to reevaluate it. In light of several comments and insights, combined with a rereading of the original article in question, I've come to see that I've made key mistakes in this post. The original article cited, for one, was not a good choice in making my points about how not to evaluate homeschooling. For another, I did not accurately represent the article. This is due, admittedly, to carelessness on my part, not on the part of the original article. For example, the original article really does not contain anything that is overtly critical of home education in general. In closing, I apologize for misconstruing the article mentioned below and for causing confusion among readers of this blog. I'll do my best to avoid such errors in future posts. In addition, for the record neither myself or Sonlight support harmful home education practices, but instead encourage a loving, nurturing learning environment where ideas are openly discussed and children are educated, not indoctrinated. 

Recently I came across an article in The American Prospect titled, "The Homeschool Apostates." It's hardly favorable regarding home education, highlighting examples of individuals who were raised as homeschoolers, but who now are essentially rebelling against the ideals they learned.

The article in question presents extreme examples of homeschooling situations that are hardly normative. In one example offered, the parents are depicted as being highly legalistic, controlling, isolated from others, and inflexible in their approach to education. It's not surprising given such circumstances that the children would ultimately rebel. As the article states, "Their parents wanted them naïve and sheltered."

I'll point out three errors in reasoning that are present in The American Prospect article (there are others, but these three are particularly important). First, examples that are not normative among homeschoolers are set forth as being typical. In other words, although such extreme circumstances and situations do exist, they are not broadly representative examples. In short, it's not helpful to base one's analysis of something, such as home education, on the basis of non-normative examples and circumstances.

Second, to judge the whole of homeschooling on the basis of limited individual examples is not the best approach. The logical fallacy of composition holds that what may be true of the parts is not necessarily true of the whole. In the case of certain criticisms of homeschooling, the whole of home education is being judged on the basis of certain parts--parts that are not normative or typical, but in fact are extreme examples.

Third, logical counterexamples may be used to demonstrate that certain arguments against home education are false. It is certainly the case that not all homeschooling parents are legalistic, abusive, or haphazard in their approach. There are many examples of well-rounded, intelligent parents and homeschooled children (just look at some of Sonlight's scholarship winners, for instance).

Finally, Sonlight seeks to foster learning, not isolation from ideas or the world. We want every child who uses Sonlight to be able to engage and understand ideas and be open to thoughtfully evaluating different viewpoints (even ideas that are directly in opposition to their worldview).

Robert Velarde
Author/Educator/Philosopher

P.S. Since this is my last blog post before Christmas, I thought I'd quote one of my favorite passages in reference to the Incarnation: "The Word [Christ] became flesh and blood, and moved into the neighborhood" (John 1:14, The Message). Merry Christmas!

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Save 50% when you update your Sonlight Instructor's Guide

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Sonlight's per pupil cost drops the more you use one of our programs. Because almost everything in your Core or Multi-Subject Package is reusable, adding an additional student requires a few consumable activity sheets or workbooks and little else. So you can continue to use and reuse the same Core years after you purchase it. Just be sure to get all the consumables you'll need when you first order. We regularly update our homeschool curriculum and may not carry the older items when you're ready to use the program again.

But what if you see an update to a program that will make your life blissfully easier? We want you to be able to update your program for a fraction of the cost. That's why we have an Instructor's Guide Repurchase Discount. If you bought an IG from us years ago (by itself or as part of a package), you can update it to the latest edition for half off. And if next year you want to update again, you'll save 50% once more. And again. And again.

Simply add an IG you already purchased from us to your cart, and we'll give you the discount. It's that easy.

Often with an update, we may switch out previous books with improved titles. To quickly add the new books, pull up the package and click on the Items tab. There you will find a "Show Previously Purchased Items" checkbox. Now you will be able to easily see the items you do not currently own.
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We're here to help you have a successful homeschool experience year after year after year. Sonlight's IG Repurchase Discount is just one of the many ways we can do that for you.

 ~Luke Holzmann
Filmmaker, Writer, Gaurdian

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Help Your Children Grapple with the Fact that We're Sinners

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After some heinous atrocity against humanity, those who knew the perpetrator often say something like, "He was such a nice man!" It does not matter if it was violent, sexual, criminal, or dishonest, we seem to expect the "bad guys" to wear black hats and sport tell-tale mustaches. When a teacher, pastor, neighbor, friend, or relative commits a wrong, it clashes with our tendency to put people in the category of either "good" or "bad."

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Bad Guy

Take the famous example of the guy who raped a girl, had her husband knocked off to try to cover it up, and only owned up to it after he was caught. What's more, king David got to keep his leadership position! Crazy, right? David was a man who wanted to follow God and who did some absolutely terrible things.

I don't know about you, but I'm still a sinner too. I need to ask for forgiveness from my family now and then because I do something I shouldn't. I still commit plenty of "victimless" crimes on a regular basis, like speaking my mind to bad a driver when the roads are icy. I believe my heart is largely in the right place (longing to be transformed by the Holy Spirit), but I'm only clean because of Christ's shed blood. I am a complex person. And while most of my motivations and actions can be broken into categories of right and wrong, you'd be wrong to label me as a purely "good" guy.

Long before series like Game of Thrones swept through popular culture, I had already encountered complex characters. I had already seen how good people can do bad things and bad people can do good things. We see this frequently in the Bible. I also witnessed it again and again in the literature that I experienced through Sonlight. In fact, complex characters is one of the seven things that make Sonlight books All Stars.

Complex characters give us opportunities to help our children grapple with the fact that the world is full of sinners. Some of us are seeking to follow Christ, some are doing our own thing. Sometimes we make good choices, sometimes not. We all need redemption, and it is so cool when we get to let the love and grace of God spill out of our lives into the lives of those around us. And I believe great literature and modeling forgiveness for our children are both great ways to help them separate the action (both good and bad) from the person.

 ~Luke Holzmann
Filmmaker, Writer, Guardian

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Touching the Future...

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Teaching my granddaughter to roll out a pie crust. She really got the hang of it.

Teaching my granddaughter to roll out a pie crust. She really got the hang of it.

Lately I have thought a lot about what it means to invest your time in teaching a child. A few days ago I thought back to a day, many years ago when I was living in Florida.

It was a cold winter day on that fateful January day in 1986 when Christa McAuliffe became the first civilian in space. I will never forget that morning. I was seven months pregnant with my fourth child and had been running errands with my three year old son when we stopped at a fast food restaurant to grab a quick snack.

As we were heading in, people were rushing out. I heard a man shouting,

“The shuttle exploded!”

We all looked in the sky and saw that terrible white cloud, the cloud filled with shattered dreams, as it hung unnaturally in the sky. People began crying. We tried to console each other that maybe the astronauts had ejected or maybe it wasn't as bad as it looked. But we could see, looking at that weird white cloud, that no one could have survived.

As we silent strangers went our separate ways I couldn't shake the feeling that we had lost some of our brightest and best. It was haunting because no matter where I went, or what I did, I could still see that frightful cloud hanging in the clear blue sky.

What made the event even more terrible was that Christa was our teacher in space. She was one of us. She was the girl next door and the teacher at the neighborhood school. Probably every child in America old enough to go to school watched the launch and the explosion. And probably every teacher wept, hugged their students and tried to answer the unanswerable question. “Why?"

I remember Christa a few months earlier as she was preparing for the launch. Her enthusiasm was contagious and people cheered when she said, “I touch the future, I teach.”

I have thought about her statement many times over the years. As I read endless books to my kids, as I taught Sunday School,  led cub scout and brownie meetings, as I taught my kids to read, do laundry, wash dishes and how to do Algebra, I kept those words in mind. Whether I was discouraged and tired or whether we had a great and productive day, I would think, “I am touching the future, I teach.”

Now that my kids are grown and I have a three grandchildren, I see my sons teaching their daughters lessons my husband and I taught them, and I can tangibly see how I have touched the future. It is a humbling experience.

These Sonlight children love to learn!

These Sonlight children love to learn!

As you invest in children, you touch the future too. It is  an incredible trust God has given us, these children he has put in our homes and in our neighborhoods. He has given us the ability to touch the future through teaching. May you be encouraged as you love and teach the little ones in your life.

Take Care,

Jill

If you would like to connects with other homeschooling parents, please check out the Sonlighter Club Forums.

 

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The Ren Faire Exists and Other Musings on Reality

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I've been to Renaissance Festivals in two different states. It's typically hot and expensive and exhausting and little changes year to year. But my wife and friends love going, so I don my bed sheet monk costume and sometimes try to have fun. A vendor, in full regalia, once barked after me, "Forgive me, Father, for I will sin."

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Friar Luke

NFQ from "No Forbidden Questions" has a post comparing being an atheist to being stuck inside a Renaissance Fair. I started writing a response and failed. Now, with a blank blog post staring me down, I'm going to try to create a coherent thought or two.

If I've got it right, her main point is that religious claims about reality are so far fetched and ridiculous that it's akin to thinking modernity does not exist. All religious nuts, like me, refuse to see beyond the walls of our made up Ren Faire. Living along side us is as frustrating and absurd as living in a world full of people who refuse to connect with reality.

My response to the post fell apart when I remembered that I have made similarly negative assumptions in the very recent past. I know the feeling. It's strange to encounter people who honestly believe things different from us.

But she is right: We, religious folks, do really, honestly, actually believe that Christianity teaches us what is true. I love how C.S. Lewis drives this point home in God in the Dock. It's a fact that I can easily forget: I don't believe in and follow Christ because it's nice, produces good in the world, or is more comfortable than alternatives. I believe in and follow Christ because it is true.

If living life as an atheist is like being stuck in a Ren Faire, I find philosophical naturalists to be like someone who claims there is no such festival because they've never been there.

"But I've been to them, multiple times," I say.

"You poor, duped person," they may reply. "You may have hung out with a bunch of people who dressed up and whatnot. But we now live in modern times. There is no such thing today."

I guess it depends on how you define reality. Ren Faires exist. The people who visit them and work in them know that there is more to life than the 1500s. We all know about technology. We're happy to talk about movies (though I've got nothing to say about basketball). But we also believe that less than a hour from my house is a place that transports us out of this modern life and into another time (sort of, but not really). In fact, ignoring these festivals and rejecting their place in reality cuts out a huge swath of experiences.

The analogy breaks down here. Christianity is not just some fun place of escapism. It's something that should dictate how we live. Orthodoxy is not something you dress up in once a year so you can eat a turkey leg and watch someone swallow swords. It is something that provides the words of eternal life and explains reality as it really is.

And if someone, even a blog friend like NFQ, finds my life as nonsensical as if I wore that brown bed sheet costume every day, it doesn't bother me. Because I believe, like her, that I live in the real world... virgin birth, Ren Faire, and all.

 ~Luke Holzmann
Filmmaker, Writer, Guardian

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The Maturity of Homeschoolers

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People have called her "older than her years" and I've heard "mature" used as an adjective. But when I look at this particular student, I don't see a person who has reached full development. She's insecure as all get-out, though you'd never guess from how she hides it in public. She struggles to communicate, though she has developed the skills needed to redirect attention if someone gets too close to topics of depth. And her worldview has been warped by horrific experiences she's buried with the other casualties of life in the backyard. Don't get me wrong: She is a lovely, love-able, engaging individual who could go far in life, if she lets herself. She's spent her years in public school where she learned most of her evasion techniques and runs isolated through life.

Another girl has been labeled "naive" and "clueless as to the harsh realities of life." But when I look at this young lady, I see someone who is ready for the world. She's confident, though you wouldn't peg her as stuck-up. She communicates clearly and well, though she may be less pushy than me when it comes to offering her opinion. And her worldview has been shaped by a loving family, a supportive community, and a desire to help bind up the wounds of those injured in the war-zone of life. She is a lovely, love-able, engaging individual who could go far in life, if that's where God takes her. She's spent her years homeschooled where she learned most of her communication techniques and formed the relationships she will carry through life.

This post is not about how all homeschoolers are fantastic kids. That goes without saying <grin>. Homeschoolers can be awkward and have strange priorities. But really, are homeschoolers all that different? We may, at times, be a well-behaved bunch, but we're human and have our own strengths and weaknesses. So I'm not writing to say that homeschoolers are simply better prepared for life (though, we may be <smile>).

This post is about maturity.


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It seems people who promote public schools as an important part of growing up tend to talk about "maturity" in an "adult entertainment" sense. It's like you become "mature" if you end up in really dark places. The more messed up your past, the more "mature" you are today. That does not make any sense to me. In fact, the ones who have been through unbloggable horrors are often so scarred that they are in desperate need of help and grace before they can become well-functioning people again.

So, for me, maturity comes when we are able to walk into dark places and share love and grace with those who are there. Whether we've had a rough past or not, I believe we are mature when redemption is at work in and through us by the grace of God. And we have amazing opportunities to practice and develop forgiveness and grace in our own households as homeschoolers. So are all homeschoolers mature? Of course not! But the benefit of homeschooling is that we can focus on building a true, deep maturity in our kids. We can do so without getting sidetracked with the odd, pop-culture view of sin exposure.

And really, anyone who complains that a family that just reads the Bible doesn't know about sin clearly has not read the Bible.

I got on this topic today because of Cindy's fantastic post Public Schools and Naive Kids. I highly recommend you swing by her blog and give it a read.

 ~Luke Holzmann
Filmmaker, Writer, Guardian

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Learning to say thanks out loud

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Our server went out of her way to help John and me enjoy our meal. I genuinely appreciated her extra effort. So why didn't I tell her that?

That's when I realized that I often let things go unsaid. I feel grateful inside, but I don't do enough about it.

So I decided to change. Over the last several months, I have become more verbal and resolute in my appreciation.

I now make it a point to look wait-staff in the eye and thank them for their service. I try to be specific in how I thank them. Were they particularly attentive? Did they make us feel comfortable?

When I talk to my pastor after a good sermon, I find a specific point to thank him for. It takes a little more effort than just saying "good sermon, pastor." But I find it helps me appreciate the sermon more, and it does more to honor and encourage him.

When my precious 4-year-old granddaughter performs some little act of service for me, I make sure to thank her out loud. When my husband repairs a broken lock, I resist the subtle temptation to take his help for granted. Instead, I thank him.

What have I noticed? These acts of verbal thanks produce good fruit in my life. As I thank others, my heart is warmed. I actually feel more grateful and I reflect more on what's good in the world. It's another little step I can take to help me get outside of my own preoccupations. I sincerely appreciate others more when I speak my thanks for them out loud.

So although I can't look you in the eyes, please accept my heartfelt thanks for what you do. Whenever I make a list of things I'm grateful for, homeschoolers are always near the top. I know you sacrifice time, energy and income to do what you do. But I think your sacrifice is worth it. You are raising the next generation to pursue Christ with all their hearts, souls, minds and strength! Thank you for your investment in your children's lives, and through that, your investment in the future of our shared world.

Happy Thanksgiving,
Sarita

P.S. I am also very thankful for all who participated in the recent Mission India "Lost in India" campaign. I'm grateful for the increased awareness of the lost, for the prayers offered up, and for the amazing amount of money raised (over $335,000). As I refreshed the page (several times a day!) to watch the donations come in, I was struck by how many families God used together to make a huge impact in the lives of children in India. I used my visits to the website to pray a blessing on the children and families who sacrificially gave. If you participated through prayer or giving, thank you so much. May God be glorified both in the hearts of our children and in India!

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