Serious Damage from Silly Social Lies

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Her knees -- pushed up toward her chest -- barricade her face behind the couch pillow. Another pillow perches on her head. She's hiding while she talks. Silly as it may be, it makes her feel safe. "I feel like I'm being replaced," she says. "It's like high school all over again."

I've started calling these socialization ills. These are problems that arise from bad socialization. Frequently the wounds are inflicted in middle and high school. Today, years after graduating, she still feels threatened any time someone copies her, intentionally or not. Why? Because she felt pushed out of every group in high school. Unwanted. Replaced. Worthless. The pain still clings to her.

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Hiding

She's not alone. My wife becomes visually distraught when she has to walk the halls of a high school. She was homeschooled but her bad experiences with the church cliques in junior high and high school haunt her even now. And if my level-headed wife who can put up with my antics is indelibly scarred by her experience in youth group, homeschoolers aren't automatically safe. The problem is a social one.

I am not advocating that you keep your child home without any outside input. Multiple teachers are fantastic. I'm not suggesting that you hide away from pain or bad ideas. We have no need for a bunker mentality. And I'm certainly not suggesting that your kids shouldn't have friends. Homeschoolers can make plenty of friends. But I am saying, once again, that groups of peers left to their own devices can cause harm even to the popular kids.

This post is more about my ongoing observations. I don't think I have any brilliant conclusions to share. My purpose is not to convince you to do one thing or another. But as I see more clearly the serious damage inflicted on us by silly social lies, I find it ever more important that we speak truth to our kids -- both our biological offspring and the young God brings into our lives.

 ~Luke Holzmann
Filmmaker, Writer, Guardian

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What Makes a Book Great?

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1906 edition of Sir Thomas Malory's Le Morte D'Arthur

1906 edition of Sir Thomas Malory's Le Morte D'Arthur

It's no secret that Sonlight values a literature-rich approach to education. We do this because we believe great books present unique learning opportunities. Here are three key reasons we use literature:

1. Literature conveys information in an enjoyable format.
2. Literature conveys information in a form that is easy to remember.
3. Literature encourages you to interact with your kids.

But what, exactly, makes a book "great"? Britannica's Great Books of the Western World series offers one approach. Scholars for this series emphasized the great ideas. The great ideas listed in the series includes 102 different topics, such as angels, art, beauty, courage, democracy, experience, family, God, justice, love, imagination, mind, philosophy, reasoning, religion, truth, virtue and vice, and many others.

Another work, Invitation to the Classics, offers seven criteria for identifying great literature:

"1. The classics not only exhibit distinguished style, fine artistry, and keen intellect but create whole universes of imagination and thought.
2. They portray life as complex and many-sided, depicting both negative and positive aspects of human character in the process of discovering and testing enduring virtues.
3. They have a transforming effect on the reader's self-understanding.
4. They invite and survive frequent rereadings.
5. They adapt themselves to various times and places and provide a sense of the shared life of humanity.
6. They are considered classics by a sufficiently large number of people, establishing themselves with common readers as well as qualified authorities.
7. And, finally, their appeal endures over wide reaches of time."

Great books are timeless, address important themes, are memorable, have educational value, help us keep perspective by avoiding the pitfalls of our own age, and are part of the "great conversation"--human beings grappling with the big questions of life throughout the ages.

Although Sonlight incorporates literature of all kinds, not just "classics," one key reason we do so is because exceptional stories are enjoyable. In short, a great story is fun to read and can engage our interest in ways that textbooks usually can't. This is one reason the parables of Jesus are so engaging.

Lastly, great books help us expand our horizons by allowing us to see and experience things beyond our own limited backgrounds. As C.S. Lewis put it in An Experiment in Criticism, "We want to be more than ourselves ... We want to see with other eyes, to imagine with other imaginations, to feel with other hearts, as well as with our own ... in reading great literature I become a thousand men and yet remain myself ... I see with a myriad eyes, but it is still I who see. Here, as in worship, in love, in moral action, and in knowing, I transcend myself; and am never more myself than when I do."

What great books have impacted you significantly? What elements do you think make for a "great book"? What Sonlight books have you and your children found most meaningful?

Robert Velarde
Author/Educator/Philosopher

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The Benefits of Multiple Teachers

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The youth pastor at our church is a wiry young man around my age. His current fashion sense drips "hipster" but he's sincere even if he does wear a vest. I'm attending a parent's meeting about the upcoming winter camp. By age, I'm a solid eight years too young to be there. Being a guardian of a high schooler puts you in odd places.

"I'm so excited about what God is going to do at camp. It's so great to be able to partner with you in ministering to your kids."

The driver sign up sheet had been distracting me. Now my mind was thinking about homeschooling.

Hipster Vest
Hipster Vest

We talk about how we -- parents -- are our children's best teacher. Overall, I agree with this sentiment. But there are huge benefits of having mentors. And there are times when your kids may prefer an outside opinion as they grow up. So as I sat in a meeting for parents, listening to my friend talk about the things God was doing through the members of the church, I felt a strong desire to urge us to look beyond just ourselves. Don't teach your children alone. Don't hole up somewhere and develop a myopic view of the world. Keep a global perspective. Remember that the goal of homeschooling is to raise successful adults whom we can let go into the world.

I don't know any homeschoolers who want to limit their children. There isn't active malicious intent. But intentional or not, I'm afraid we sometimes get so focused on ourselves and what we're doing, we can send the wrong message. We're not trying to hide away from everyone else, as if we had something to hide. Rather, we see the tremendous benefits of learning at home. We have opportunities others don't. And with the flexibility of homeschooling, we can also take advantage of multiple teachers. We aren't limited to a single school. We can learn at home and church and co-ops and classes.

One of the many things I appreciate about Sonlight's approach to learning is we give multiple perspectives in our homeschool curriculum packages. Textbooks provide a distilled view of history, offering "the" explanation of the past. With Sonlight's literature-based approach, we get to learn from various perspectives and people. Sonlight is built, in part, on the benefits of multiple teachers. Through excellent biographies, we can learn from many teachers throughout history.

Multiple teachers allow us to see things from a different perspective, explain concepts with new insights, share ideas we haven't considered, and take on topics we feel unqualified to explain. None of these benefits detracts from our role as parents and educators, but these partnerships provide opportunities to offer our children more than ever. My student is going to winter camp. I don't have one of those in my backyard.

 ~Luke Holzmann
Filmmaker, Writer, Guardian

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Why Sonlight Doesn't Feel Like School

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Short answer: It's the books.

We've been reading another Sonlight title for my cousin's high school history class. The book we're reading comes from the fantastic literature in Core D. Proof that great books span many age groups. And like our previous experiences reading Sonlight books to high schoolers, this one proved just as engaging.

I finished a chapter and looked up. Her eyes had already flicked over to the next page. Curled up on the oversized green chair under the window, she read the title.

"You want to keep going?"

She answers with her German syntax, "What you would want to." She's said this several times to me. Near as I can tell it translates roughly, "Why, yes, I am enjoying this book very much and would thrill to press on in the reading should you find the fortitude to do so and experience similar joy in continuing the story."

We finished the book last night.

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Reading Together

We all love great stories. If my google results are right, Americans currently spend around $500 billion on entertainment ... a year. I couldn't find anything that looked remotely reliable, but it seems we spend about $600 billion on education. Makes me wonder: what if more of our education felt like entertainment but was actually, really, just a phenomenal education based on amazing literature? Then everyone would be using Sonlight, saving money, and loving school. Some may still dislike school. I've heard of several Sonlighters who say they hate school but love reading the books.

"That is school," their parents tell them.

Sonlight doesn't feel like school because of the great books. But Sonlight is so much more than just books. Our homeschool curriculum, through the Instructor's Guides in every Core, brings all these books together and turns them into an experience you will love as much as your children.

 ~Luke Holzmann
Filmmaker, Writer, Guardian

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Every tongue, tribe and nation: global faces at Sonlight

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I looked around the meeting room and smiled. The faces around me reflected Sonlight's global focus.

I saw three colleagues from Bosnia, one from Sudan, and one Mongolian Chinese woman among the Sonlight employees. We also had visitors from Liberia and Zimbabwe that day. (Sonlight partners with these wonderful people from the mission group VisionTrust to donate many of our damaged books to their schools in developing countries.)

Our office saw even more diversity this summer, when we hired seasonal workers to help in the warehouse for our busy season. Our prayer groups gave us the privilege to pray with believers from many different countries each morning.

The management at Sonlight has gone out of its way to hire refugees when possible. We've worked with a Christian refugee placement service to help people start new lives after fleeing horrid situations in their home countries. Our three employees from Bosnia started out working in the warehouse, taught themselves English, and now all hold leadership positions in the company. Praise the Lord!

I love this diversity because it reminds us of something I hold so dear: God has a heart for the people of all nations. Though we tend to think everyone else lives just like we do, a global focus reminds of us of the reality: people live in totally different cultures all around the world. The American way of life is not the norm.

But even though people dress, eat, and worship so differently from each other, in the end we are all still people. We all have emotions, families, hopes and dreams. And we all need Jesus just as much as the next person.


Sonlight student Kayleigh S finds the geographic locations of the stories in Core P4/5

I want Sonlight children to grow up knowing and appreciating the diversity of the world, even if their own hometowns are rather homogenous. I love that my colleagues at Sonlight remind me of that diversity every day – in their accents, cultural backgrounds, and unique perspectives.

For the many Sonlight employees who are believers, our global workforce is just a little picture of heaven. What a blessing indeed.

I pray that you are similarly blessed as you "travel" the globe with Sonlight's Cores. May we raise up children who share God's heart for the peoples of the world!

Enjoy the journey,
Sarita

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From Luke's Inbox: Can I Trust Sonlight?

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Most Christian homeschooling curriculum present evolution as a sham. I cannot in good faith provide that explanation as the only one. Can you show me some examples of where you present both sides? My underlying concern is that if these topics where I personally know a great deal are not presented honestly and completely, how am I to trust other topics where I am less knowledgeable?

Evolution is a topic for which we get flak from people on all sides of the issue <smile>.

I agree that most curriculum providers -- and many "big names" in the homeschooling movement -- do a very poor job of presenting evolution. But, as I hint in my post on Random Chance, I don't think it's just the Young Earth crowd who is at fault. My limited experience in public school clearly demonstrated that "evolution" is an idea bandied about, rarely defined, and poorly understood by most of us, regardless of our educational background.

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The Blindfolded Leading the Blindfolded

But there are those, like yourself, for whom this is a subject of more fascination. I, a film major by background, would have little to offer you in this regard. Similarly, our notes on evolution are not going to present both sides completely. We do our best to be fair, but there's no way we could ever be complete. Nor would we want to.

Why not deal with a topic completely?

  1. That'd be impossible. There's always more to learn. For example, Google revealed that someone recently wrote a dissertation on "The Genetics of Speciation and Colouration in Carrion and Hooded Crows." There is no way to teach anything "completely." We must choose the foundational bits to share and allow parents and students to expand on this foundation as desired.
  2. It's not that important. We must pick our battles. Some people have taken positions on evolution (either for or against) as one of the matters of most importance. I disagree. Aspects of evolution definitely shape things like medicine, but those areas of the idea are not really under scrutiny. What you and I believe about the age of the earth can have impacts on us, but is it really more important than, I don't know, making sure "Johnny" can read? Because, once Johnny can read, he can continue to learn and may discover that the impacts of animal captivity ignite his passions.

And that leads us back again to the idea of "Education, not Indoctrination." We want to give you tools so you can teach your children what you believe and why. As you look through our materials, you will notice that we present largely from an Young Earth perspective. As you know, some of the books we carry contain presentations of evolution. I feel it balances out sufficiently. Others, of course, disagree <smile>.

This brings us to your underlying question: Can you trust Sonlight to present truth?

In many ways, no. Not because what we offer is untrue. We seek to educate so we choose not to make statements that indoctrinate. Neither you nor I want a curriculum that says, "This is how it is, reject all else." What I believe best helps students to learn is more along the lines of, "This is what we believe and why." As students are ready, we can then move on to share what others believe and why and why we do not agree.

So can you trust Sonlight's presentations on topics with which you are less familiar?

Absolutely. We seek to learn and help you learn with your students. We do our best to present things honestly. And where we are incomplete and you want to learn more, you are encouraged to dive deeper into the many facets of that area of study. It's one of the many advantages of homeschooling.

Sonlight's approach is rather unique. I have found it incredibly helpful throughout my life-long journey of learning.

 ~Luke Holzmann
Filmmaker, Writer, Guardian

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Living in the Mundane ...

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2014 is upon us ... a whole new year stretching out with anticipation. Lots of folks are filling Facebook and blogs with New Year's Resolutions. I think goal setting is an admirable and necessary exercise for living life effectively. However (and you knew there was going to be a "however"!), one of my favorite authors talks often about living life in 10,000 little moments. Paul David Tripp recently shared this comment when writing about the coming new year ...

I don't want to discourage you from making a resolution or tell you to throw away what you've already written, but I do want to challenge your way of thinking. You see, the character of your life won't be established in two or three dramatic moments, but in 10,000 little moments. Your legacy will be shaped more by the 10,000 little decisions you make in 2014 rather than the last-minute resolution you're about to make.
(Ringing in the New Year by Paul David Tripp)

I think this view of the new year is especially true (and valuable) for homeschooling moms and dads. Down in the trenches of the daily grind of home education, it can be difficult to set life-altering resolutions when it seems that each day is more of the same. But learning to take each day in small increments of individual moments makes life much more doable.

So I challenge you on the threshold of a brand new year ... learn to rejoice in the small victories found in those 10,000 little moments. When your struggling reader gets through a whole page on their own ... rejoice! When your challenging teenager answers your request with a gracious response ... rejoice! When you successfully wrestle your way through those frustrating fractions with your middle-schooler ... rejoice! Learn to look for and rehearse those small victories at the end of each day ... and realize that the mundane is where character is formed and lives are changed.

Still on the journey ...
~Judy Wnuk

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