What's New: Sonlight F (Eastern Hemisphere) now book-based, too

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As John and Sarita's daughter, I can say that Sonlight F – Eastern Hemisphere – most accurately shows the heart of my parents. They long for the Church to be a house of prayer for all nations. They long for people from every nation to meet Jesus. They long for people in the West to know about, and pray for, the people in the East.

So it is with great joy that this year we present …

A New Centerpiece for Sonlight F

Every Sonlight History program has a centerpiece book, or "spine," that serves as the foundation of that particular program.

This year, we are pleased to announce a new title, Journey to the Eastern Hemisphere, as the spine for Sonlight F. This book, which replaces the digital World Book Encyclopedia, is packed with informative articles about the countries and regions that Sonlight F covers.

Each location has a big-picture overview, a description of the geographical features, a look at everyday life, a summary of the area's history, and full-color maps and photos.

Journey looks in-depth at 11 countries: China, North Korea, South Korea, Japan, Russia, Vietnam, India, Israel, Saudi Arabia, Australia, and New Zealand.

It also looks at five regions: Southeast Asia, the Middle East, Africa, the Pacific Islands, and Antarctica.

Journey Sample Page
Click here to view a sample!

I got to do a final proof of the book, and I enjoyed the descriptions of the various places. If you've ever tried to summarize a lot of complex information, you know that condensing can be difficult. I thought the author did an admirable job summarizing such a wide range of topics as the Vietnam War and the story of the Endurance.

And … a Revised Reading List

Journey to the Eastern Hemisphere is informative. But it isn't intended to be story-based, the way most of our spines are.

For stories, we have the rest of the books!

Counting the Instructor's Guide, this program has 51 items (plus 13 more, if you add Science F). Sonlight F has 19 Readers, 18 Read-Alouds, eight History books (not counting timeline figures, the China Kit for calligraphy, and origami), and, for Bible, a book and a CD with Bible verses set to ethnic music.

This is a rich program!

In the 26 years since Sarita started Sonlight, the book publishing industry has experienced an explosion of new books from this part of the world. We're excited to introduce you to these new books.

Here's more of what you can expect.

We now have a collection of incredible stories of God at work in Iran.

The section on Russia expanded with two glorious books about life in St. Petersburg, one about the siege during WWII (it's outstanding!), and one set about 50 years later … same family, different time. Such a great way to look at these pivotal moments in the largest country on Earth!

We also have a collection of short stories from Africa, beautifully illustrated with woodcuts (Ashley Bryan has such joyful pictures). We have a Newbery Honor book set in Mozambique and Zimbabwe. We have a book set during the Partition of India! (How many books have you read about the Partition of India?! It's such a gift!)

And we have one of my personal favorites in recent years, Cornelia and the Audacious Escapades of the Somerset Sisters. A young girl enjoys the stories of her globe-trotting neighbor, and this helps her find her own voice. (One sentence is not going to do this book justice. Even if you don't ever get to Sonlight F, you should read this book.)

To sum up: Sonlight F now has a book for a spine, and the other books in the F program have more stories, and more stories specifically about the Eastern Hemisphere.

This program was already a customer favorite. We believe it's even better now.

Celebrate all the richness of diversity on this planet and how God is at work!

Hooray!
Amy Lykosh

P.S. If you haven't heard the music from the Sing the Word CD, you should check out the sampler. "All nations whom you have made shall come and worship before you, O Lord! And they shall glorify your name, for you are great, and do wondrous deeds. You alone are God!" So many different musical styles!

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The book of Acts includes a description that always makes me smile ... and makes me wish that I had been there to experience what those early Christians shared ...

All the believers were united in heart and mind ... so they shared everything they had ... (Acts 4:32)

"Community" is a popular term these days ... sometimes referred to as "small groups" or "life groups" ... and it finds its roots in passages like this one from Acts. It describes a relational commonality ... a place to find support and encouragement among those who share common convictions and goals.

When I was first homeschooling, local co-ops were a great place to find "community". I have wonderful memories of meeting with other homeschoolers on a weekly or monthly basis, and coming away refreshed and recharged. But co-ops are not always available or possible for many families, so that avenue may not be a source of community for some.

I had the tremendous opportunity to meet up in "community" with almost 100 Sonlight users last Thursday evening. We held a somewhat spontaneous Meetup over on the Sonlight Facebook page. Sarita (Holzmann) says that you can tell a fellow Sonlighter when you meet ... there's just something that draws us to one another. Even without being able to "see" the ladies at Thursday evening's gather, it was obvious that we were among fellow Sonlighters! The conversation was energizing and encouraging, and I came away feeling blessed.

If you're stepping into March and having difficulty shaking off the February doldrums, I would encourage you to seek out opportunities for community. If you don't have access to a local co-op or support group, perhaps you will find it via your iPad or computer. While I wholeheartedly believe in "skin-on" community, sometimes it's nice to find it digitally as well. The Sonlight Forums are a great source for online community.

We had such a great time last Thursday evening, I suspect we'll do more Facebook Meetups. But you don't need to wait for us! Feel free to create your own "community" ... you never know who might be encouraged if you reach out!

Still on the journey ...
~Judy Wnuk

PS: Another great spot to find community is at a homeschool convention. Check to see if Sonlight will be at your local event, and stop by the booth to be encouraged by fellow Sonlighters. And don't forget to bring a friend!

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A Voice They Can Trust: A Gift to Your Children

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As a homeschool grad, people ask me all the time if I'm glad I was homeschooled. Though I've given a wide variety of reasons I'm thankful I was, I have a new favorite answer after reading Kate's powerful post.  I may just start saying that homeschooling meant that I got to be the prettiest girl in the world.

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Yes, homeschooling meant I got to be beautiful ;).

But more than that, homeschooling meant the voices speaking into my life most often and most closely were the voices of my parents and the truth of God's word.

What do you want to speak into your children's lives? Whom do you want to do the speaking? What truths do you want burned deep into their impressionable minds? What truths will they try out in the world as they grow?

I'm not advocating that we totally shelter our children from the world. I'm simply saying that the chance to be the primary voice in your children's lives is a true gift.

You act as a guide as they come to understand the myriad of perspectives they'll encounter in life.

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As you whisper life-giving messages, you are creating a soundtrack for their hearts. You speak melodies of truth that soar and inspire, bolster courage and shape character. You are giving them a trusted voice of one who knows them and loves them unconditionally and most of all, you are pointing them to One who can always be trusted.

I wrote this letter for my little daughter this week as I prayed for her and thought about making our homeschool a place where she can thrive.  I long to engrave on her heart some truths that will stick with her for life.


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Dear Daughter,

When you don't know which voice to listen to, remember this:

I laughed to myself today as I watched you tramp ahead in hot pink snow boots with your Sunday dress. You wanted to dress yourself. Your independence and confidence is so beautiful. You are not perfect, but you are perfectly loved.

I pray your homeschool years give you a chance to marinate in that love a little more, undistracted.

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In "class," you don't have to be that percentage of girls who rarely raise their hands. You have questions and ideas and an open forum—right here on the couch —to get used to expressing yourself well.

You don't just yet have "mean girls" distracting you from learning as they constantly tell you their estimation of your value.

You don't have anyone sneering that "girls don't like science" when you ask to do one more experiment, or calling you a nerd for enjoying math or bringing home that huge stack of library books. You are getting to set your own normal without everyone dictating that for you.

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You're going to hear a lot of voices in the course of your lifetime, lots of opinions about who you are, if you are good enough, what you should be, think, and do.  People will offer acceptance and rejection. You will feel deep feelings. You will have victories and hard days.

You will have to choose which voices and messages you will allow to soak beneath the surface.

How will you decide who to trust?  What is your litmus test for truth? Where will you get your foundational ideas about who you are and why you are in this world? What will you pour yourself into to accomplish in this life? What matters most of all? What can you not live without?

These can be hard questions. I pray you will find answers in solid places and weigh carefully the voices you choose to listen to. My prayer is that right now, in your early days, you learn what it means to be fully known and fully loved.

I can't answer every question you will encounter in a lifetime, but I pray I can point you to the source of truth and introduce you to the Voice you can always trust.

There will be mean girls and there will be heart ache, but I pray you go into those situations knowing without a doubt that love conquers all, that you have innate worth and beauty, that you are cherished and treasured and so are those around you. We're building that foundation now, together.

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That's why I'm so glad that we are going through this homeschooling journey side by side. I'm making it my mission to speak life-giving words to you each day. To demonstrate your value through the way I spend time with you and listen to you. I won't do this perfectly, but I love you more than anyone in this world and will do my best to help you thrive.

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I pray you'll get strong and confident and know yourself as you serve alongside your family and process the hurts of the world with people who can talk it out with you. I pray you will enter your place in the world as a woman who can make an impact.

You'll have the confidence to consider others before yourself because someone else has already considered you of immeasurable value. You don't have to strive and fight for that love and attention. You've got it overflowing.

Through homeschooling, we have a few more hours together in these days that are rushing past so fast. Time to whisper those truths and give you a place for a little while where you are free to flourish just as you are.

You are loved,
Mom

(You can read parts 1-3 of this series here: The Gift of Your Presence, The Gift of Godly Heroes, and The Gift of Play.)

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2016 Sonlight Scholarship Winners

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Sonlight students exemplify academic excellence, creativity & servanthood. Congratulations to our 2016 Sonlight scholarship winners! Like so many Sonlight students, they have a heart for learning, exhibit exceptional character, are active in their communities, demonstrate leadership skills, are creative, cultivate spiritual depth and are well-prepared for the academic rigors of college.

What part does a Sonlight homeschool education play in the past successes and future goals of these students? All have completed at least five Sonlight History / Bible / Literature programs (including high school-level programs). Their exceptional talent, along with an eagerness to follow God's leading, make it a joy for Sonlight to invest in their continuing education.

Sonlight has awarded almost 1.25 million dollars since we began the scholarship program, including $88,000 over the next four years to these 12 winners. We look forward to seeing all God does in and through them as they take what they've learned – through Sonlight and their homeschool experience – into college and the world beyond.

$20,000 Scholarship Winner

($5,000 each year)

Robert Norwood

The oldest of eight children, Robert "Bobby" Norwood of Siloam Springs, AR, has been studying with Sonlight since preschool. "And I loved it!" he reflects. "I can't imagine not having access to all those great books." Among this top scholar's interests, adventures and accomplishments: Eagle Scout at age 15; church/youth group vocalist, guitarist and worship leader; missions trips, from Iowa to the Dominican Republic; New Life Ranch, OK, leadership development training; photographer and business entrepreneur; swim and cross country participant; poet/writer; student government board member; and federal employee. "Perhaps the most disciplined student I've met, Robert seeks to serve others and glorify God by exhibiting high character, self-discipline, reliability and leadership," his pastor of more than a decade observes. The National Merit Finalist, who scored 2210 on the SAT and a 36 composite on the ACT, will study at the United States Military Academy at West Point, with the goal of becoming an Army officer upon graduation.

$10,000 Scholarship Winners

($2,500 per year)

Isabelle Coleman

Isabelle Coleman of Augusta, GA, has studied with Sonlight for 12 years. Despite an ADHD diagnosis, Isabelle has persevered, achieving excellence in her many endeavors, as evidenced by 28 awards from Science Olympiad competitions. A National Merit Commended Student, she has been inducted into the National Classical League Honor Society and the National Homeschool Honor Society. She's also a gifted singer, actress and artist who has soloed, played principal roles and filled her family's home with creative expression. A self-described relational individual who desires to pursue a career in occupational therapy, Isabelle notes, "When you show a personal interest in not only a patient's physical care, but also the emotional life, the Lord often opens a door to form a more intimate connection."

Kathryn Gage

Kathryn Gage of Flint, TX, likens her life to a friendship bracelet of many threads that are being woven together into a beautiful design. Preacher's kid, homeschool student, bibliophile, writer, puppeteer, karateka, teacher, cellist, childcare worker and volunteer: These are some of the colorful strands that comprise her life. A primary thread is a love of reading "the best [Sonlight] books," which she's been enjoying since kindergarten. "I've been writing all my life, mimicking my favorite books and authors. I have characters in my head with unique tales to tell," says the aspiring author, who plans to pen stories that glorify God and inspire the next generation of teenagers. She'd also like to become a children's minister, adding "an exquisite thread in the pattern of my life."

Carolyn Raquet

Carolyn Raquet of Beavercreek, OH, loves problem solving. Understandably, she's considering college studies in molecular biology or engineering. "From the heavens to the atom, God created the mechanics of this world to be an organized and finely tuned dance," she appraises. The National Merit Finalist, who also scored a 34 composite on the ACT, is additionally a gifted musician (piano and viola) with creative culinary skills (e.g., the "Carol surprise"). She was handpicked for Project Protégé, an elite group of youth invited to play with the Springfield Orchestra. A highlight of her life thus far? Serving as nanny, at age 15, for a Christian family working in the Middle East. "Sonlight's emphasis on people groups around the world provided the foundation for my desire to see all nations worship Christ," Carolyn affirms.

Caroline Willett

Caroline Willett of Virginia Beach, VA, struggled to read early on. Some years later, after much hard work and vision therapy, she competed in the Scripps National Spelling Bee, not once but twice. She's a member of Phi Theta Kappa Honor Society and the National Society of High School Scholars, a competitive swimmer and figure skater, an accomplished violinist and pianist, and a middle school choir director. She volunteers in a therapeutic horse riding program for disabled kids and, with her sisters, has a cookie ministry to shut-ins. A Sonlight student since the age of four, Caroline loves science and has wanted to be a doctor from her youth – a calling confirmed by recent missions experience. "God is great, and He has given me a beautiful purpose," she says. Caroline hopes to attend Wheaton College.

$4,000 Scholarship Winners

($1,000 each year)

Sonlight will additionally award these eight outstanding students a $1,000 scholarship for each year of college, up to four years:

Alison Bell

Alison Bell of the Middle East has been programming computers since the age of 11, branching out to website design and systems administration. She took Advanced Placement computer science her freshman year and scored a perfect 5 on the exam. A National Merit Commended Student, she scored 2210 on the SAT. A Sonlight student from Pre-K through 12th grade, Alison exemplifies a Love to Learn attitude: In her freshman through junior years, she read 169 additional books beyond the curriculum! She composes and plays music, has written several novellas and regularly blogs on the website she designed and developed. She's also fascinated by linguistics and enjoys constructing realistic languages based on research and imagination. Alison envisions a future as a computer programmer trained in linguistics, "reaching hundreds of people groups for God's glory."

William Jones

As a child, William Jones of Salisbury, NC, confided in Mom that one day, he'd homeschool his children. William and his brother, who are close in age, began the Sonlight adventure with shared studies. Fast forward to the present: a National Merit Finalist who earned a 2360 on the SAT and a composite score of 35 on the ACT, William is now poised to attend veterinary school. The modern-day Renaissance man – violinist, actor, poet, political participant, farmer/rancher, public speaker, explorer and community volunteer – desires to become a well-rounded, informed and engaged citizen. His ultimate goal, he reflects, "is not only to provide comfort to all creatures, but also to act with integrity and do my best work for God's glory."

Sarah Kreutner

Sarah Kreutner of Vinton, IA, has an insatiable love for learning and creating: emergency medicine, writing, calligraphy, crafting, drawing, painting, photography, music and more. One of her photos has been displayed at the Smithsonian Institute. She's a published poet, as well. Sarah has won numerous 4-H awards, including the National Leadership Award, has exhibited at the State Fair, and was recently crowned Benton County Fair Queen. A willing helper at her church, she teaches children's Sunday School, is a longtime soloist, assists with the church's TLC Preschool, and befriends the elderly. She plans to attend Iowa State University. "A communications degree will fit countless trades, in addition to Servant of God," she muses.

Jonathan McGee

Jonathan McGee of Sherman, TX, designed and built a life-sized Gibson electric guitar from LEGO® bricks, exhibiting the kind of creativity that he also made good use of in his involvement with a local homeschool robotics team. Jonathan is quick to offer his time and talents wherever needed: mission trips to Guatemala, worship team ministry, packing lunches for hungry kids, and building a prayer garden for the homeless, to name a few worthy endeavors. Gifted in mathematics, science and music, he scored a 33 composite on the ACT. He's also an Eagle Scout and athlete who plays varsity-level basketball. Homeschooled with Sonlight for the past nine years, Jonathan has been accepted at Texas A&M University, where he'll study electrical engineering. "My goal is simple: to follow God and to use His gifts to His glory," he states.

Yukang Park

Yukang "Kevin" Park of Ireland is a leader whose name means "gentle and strong." As a preacher's kid, Yukang has lived in four countries. Wherever he goes, service to others is his hallmark. A gifted cellist, he often leads church worship. A frequent volunteer, Child Evangelism Fellowship and teaching English to non-native speakers are endeavors dear to his heart. He's an actor and an athlete, with a penchant for dramatic performance, speed skating, soccer and Tae Kwon Do. He foresees his role in life similar to that of an orchestra conductor: "Sometimes I gently draw out the music in a beautiful, soft piano. At others, I drive out a powerful, charismatic forte with strength. My job is to tie everything together into an effort that results in something greater than the sum of its parts."

Allison Rowell

Allison "Allie" Rowell of Hixson, TN, excels in learning foreign languages and is fascinated by worldview studies. As a frequent traveler on mission trips, she's brought joy to the elderly and disabled by helping with home maintenance projects here in the states; she's also taught VBS, played with the children, and danced in the rain in Haiti. Yearbook, piano, choir and worship team are a few of her favorite things. And basketball: She started playing in eighth grade, rose to varsity level and has since organized a camp to teach middle schoolers the sport. Contemplating her future, Allison mentions several Bible verses that guide her way: Deut. 31:8; 1 Chr. 16:24; 2 Cor. 12:9; and her favorite, 1 Thes. 5:24: "Faithful is He who calls you, and He also will bring it to pass."

Mark Shaklee

Mark Shaklee of Stillwater, MN, has been studying with Sonlight since kindergarten. "Consequently, I consider myself not just a homeschool graduate, but a Sonlight graduate, as well," he states. Marks plays varsity soccer, was nominated team captain by his fellow players, and received All-Conference recognition for his skills. Off the playing field, he's involved in children's ministry at church, facilitates student-lead prayer after services, and is a drummer on the worship team. A National Merit Semifinalist, he scored 2260 on the SAT and a 33 composite on the ACT. Like his father before him, he plans to pursue a materials science degree, most likely at the University of Minnesota. "My goal is to give 50% of my personal income to fund full-time missionaries," he projects.

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The Voice Bringing Tales to Life

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IMG_6317Ask anyone who has parented long enough to see their child's shoe size dwarf their own: things change as the years go by. It's true across the board. The favorite t-shirt you had to pry from your son's body to sprint into the wash someday finds its way to the bottom of the drawer from disuse. The darling, age-appropriate pronunciation of "spaghetti" disappears. The five-point harness gives way to a booster seat, which eventually finds its way to a corner in the garage ("just in case!") when your little girl is suddenly big enough for just a seat belt.

When your family homeschools, change takes on another, more quantifiable aspect. As each skill is mastered, it is carefully built upon until the math manipulatives are eventually sold second-hand and you no longer consider Miss Frizzle your back-up science tutor. Before you know it, the child who struggled to learn his times tables is calculating something about S-curves as you google furiously, trying to keep up. This is change, real-time. And it is good.

Sometimes, though, things have a way of slipping through our fingers and becoming part of the past when they still hold value. Reading aloud to teens is one of them.

We know the benefits of reading aloud to babies and toddlers and preschoolers. We are thrilled as they drag the worn compilation of Little Golden Books to our laps for one more telling. We know that they are painlessly picking up vocabulary, grasping the nuances of language, anticipating action, understanding social norms. We praise them for remembering their favorite tale, and help them point out the little black spider hiding behind the bush, or count the birds in the sky.

As we begin our homeschooling journey, we read differently. Yes, we are still praying for all the earlier bonuses of gathering for a reading. But now we realize a new weight as we plunge into each new story. We want them to learn. We want them to get a feel for a time period, or crawl inside the skin of a character who has lessons to teach through their experiences. But mostly, we want our children to fall in love with books. We want them to become readers in their own right, the kind of people who can spend hours wrapped in a good story and come away full, as if from a banquet. We want them to learn how to learn ... and that skill is so closely entwined with being a reader than when we find our natural places on the couch, splayed on the floor, or draped in the most comfortable chair, we are constantly alert to passing on our own love of books.

And yet, one day, we simply stop. Among Sonlighters I know, the transition usually occurs right before Core 100. It makes sense; this is the Big Change moment, the point when the countdown to the end of the homeschooling years really begins.

There are younger children in the family who won't enjoy those books. Life has gotten busier, and committing 2 hours a day to reading a book just isn't doable any more. He really prefers to do his schoolwork alone, in his room. We have several Cores going, and I can't manage to read from all of them.

I get it. Things change. The pace of life picks up as children creep ever closer to graduating. There are co-op classes, and science labs, and younger siblings still learning to find their way around fractions. But can I gently suggest that these are even more reasons to examine your schedule and find a way to read aloud to your teenagers?

In our house, it's far too easy to find a way to focus on the younger kids, or prioritize independence so much in our older learners that we forget that in reading to our teens, the game itself has changed. We are no longer reading to simply help them master new words, or to color in the details surrounding the Spanish Inquisition. It's not about building a relationship with books; it's about building a relationship with us.

When my children were all small, read aloud time was the highlight of the day. In some seasons, and with certain books, it was the bulk of the day. I can remember sitting on our loveseat with a cup of tea on my lap, my little ones on the floor building Lincoln Log cabins as we worked our way through Core E. I'm sure there were other things that happened that year, but in my mind, it was the reading that we shared that shines brightest of all. I'm blessed to be experiencing that season again with my younger children, but no, my teens honestly don't have time in their schedules to set Physics and French aside to bask in The Great Wheel again.

Still, I know the value of listening together, of sharing an adventure, of building a common family culture. No, my teens don't need me to read to them. Not for information or to fall in love with the written word. My teens need me to read to them to keep them knit into the "we" that is our family.

Because of the large range of ages and skills represented under our roof in this season, our family read aloud time looks much different than it did in those sweet days of Core E. Now we gather for lunch around the dining room table and fall quiet, everyone from the infant to the college girl, and embark on the journey amidst chewing and spilled cups of water. I no longer read only school books (unless they are particular favorite repeats of my older kids), trying to keep things fresh for everyone. Our sessions don't stretch over hours, because the teens usually have work calling them back. More often than not, I miss out on a hot meal. But I've decided that that eating cold leftovers is a small price to pay for being able to hold all of my children in one orbit for forty minutes.

Reading to my teens has paid more dividends than I can count. From being able to wink at a 5 year-old sister who is now in on the family jokes stolen from Cheaper By the Dozen to whispering to me as we wash dishes about the ludicrous example of personification presented in a rabbit gripping the hilt of a sword, I am delighted that some things have not changed. Some of my babies can rest their chins on the top of my head. Others are closing in on their third decade of life. But our family is still a family of readers. And I am still blessed to be the voice bringing the tales to life.

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Heather Mills Schwarzen is the wife of one globe-trotting, church-planting adventurer, and Momma to 9 beautifully messy people who range from toddlers to late teens. She writes about parenting, homeschooling, adoption, special needs, and serving a very big God on the family's blog, To Sow a Seed. You can follow the entire family's adventure in a life of ministry on their Facebook page.

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A Devotional Guide to Help Your Family Prepare for Easter

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John and I don't come from liturgical backgrounds, and other than Advent, I've never paid much attention to the traditional Church calendar. But this last year we were encouraged to try something new during the Lenten season. We used a devotional guide to help us prepare for Easter, much like you might use an Advent Guide to help prepare for Christmas. I really enjoyed the daily devotional guide I used and wanted to pass it along to you in case you find it helpful as well.

In most local churches I've been a part of, Easter shines brightly for a day and then we move on. But last year I spent the 40 days prior to Easter reflecting on Jesus' work and sacrifice, and considering that our sin placed him on the cross. I looked forward to the glad celebration of Easter in a fresh and new way. When Easter arrived, I found I could celebrate the Resurrection with even more joy and gratitude.

If you'd like to look at what I used, it's called Journey to the Cross: Readings and Devotions for Lent, by The Gospel Coalition. It's a PDF you can download at no charge and use on your own or with your family each day. You may need to modify it for younger children, but you could at least read the Scripture together and ask them some of the reflection questions that would be on their level. The Lenten season starts this year in just under two weeks, on February 10.

Last year was also the first time that John and I attended an Ash Wednesday service. I was humbled to kneel before the altar and have the pastor put a cross of ashes on my forehead while saying, "Remember you are dust, and to dust you will return." It was a comfort and relief to remember that I am a mere mortal, and that God knows this. As Psalm 103:13-14 reminds us, "As a father has compassion on his children, so the Lord has compassion on those who fear him; for he knows how we are formed, he remembers that we are dust." That humility before God helped me appreciate His great gift of abundant life even more.

I learned that the ashes they used at the service came from the palm branches of the previous year's Palm Sunday celebration. (Palm Sunday is the Sunday before Easter, when we remember Jesus' triumphal entry into Jerusalem just a few days before his execution.) I thought that was a neat picture of Jesus' triumphal power coupled with his willing sacrifice of Good Friday.

You can certainly appreciate Easter whether or not you do anything during the Lenten season. But I'm glad I had the opportunity last year to use that traditional time to get ready for Easter in a new way.

What have you found helpful to prepare your and your family's hearts for Easter?

Blessings to you on the journey,
Sarita

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The Gift of Play

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It's just another day of school. You know, math, reading, slaying dragons, building forts and climbing trees. Sound like your typical classroom?

Today I want to give us all permission to let loose a little and PLAY. (I thought about titling this post “Why I let my children run around like hooligans and yours can, too.”)

Seriously, one of the great benefits of homeschooling is that we have freedom to set a schedule that helps our children thrive. The great news is that making time for play doesn't keep us from helping our children grow and learn, instead it enhances their ability to do just that.

Not only is it great for our kids emotionally and physically, it turns out that play actually benefits kids intellectually as well. When they are playing, they are learning.

IMG_0646Check out these studies for juicy details like how playing with blocks might help your kid perform better in math one day. And that pretend play? You get to see that come up in vocabulary development years down the road after all the basic reading skills have leveled out. Movement actually helps those little brains make connections that stick.

(It also might help them become stronger leaders. Check out Sarita's post about how Steve Jobs and other well-known leaders spent lots of time creating rather than consuming as children. Inspiring!)

Make play a priority

Rather than seeing play as something we fit in around the really important things, I'm thrilled to make play a priority with our kids.

Play is often talked about as if it were a relief from serious learning. But for children play is serious learning. Play is really the work of childhood. — Fred Rogers

Oh Mr. Rogers, I always knew you were a wise man.

This may seem too simple.  All kids play, right? But I think most kids in our society are starved for play. With all the pressure to make sure kids are academically advanced at an early age and the huge emphasis on test scores, it’s easy to forget about the playground.

This article from The Washington Post is one of many that highlight the danger of children forced to sit at desks all day versus being free to play. The article states that in the U.S., "the average first-grader spends seven hours a day at school, sometimes without any recess, much less one outdoors and unstructured."

What they need to play

So we can agree play is a good thing, but we have to be intentional to make it happen in a society that values a frenetic pace and constantly shuffling young children to organized activities. It’s easy for doubts to creep in when all around us we see busyness=productivity.11110516_10152765079572611_8801279122736825327_o

  • The rare and precious thing kids really need to play is unhurried time. When we give then the gift of time to be children, we are opening a world of wonder to them that is only open so wide as this right now.
  • Fill their minds with good books to give fodder for the imagination.
  • Give them basic raw materials they can use to create. (Tools Not Toys.) Notice I am not saying they need fancy gadgets. Jump ropes, balls, blocks, building toys, and fabric (not to mention my kitchen spatulas and strainers) can all be used in endless ways.  Give a child a cardboard box, a stick, and a scarf. You'd be amazed at what he comes up with!
  • Let them get outside and fill their lungs with fresh air and exercise. Sometimes I have to force my kiddos out the door, but they are almost always smiling more broadly and have a reset in their attitudes 15 minutes in.

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A glorious play buffet: Good books, raw materials, fresh air and lots of time.

What they don't (always) need to play

Kids don’t have to have highly directed play to have a great time. In fact, they benefit from initiating their own ideas.

Okay, I don’t know how to say this without feeling like I might offend the very organized moms out there whom I wish I could be like. But I think there’s a big trend toward planning and preparing children’s play so much that perhaps we over-direct sometimes. While I love it when our fun activities totally tie into a theme, not everything has to be perfectly coordinated to be beneficial and my kids don’t seem to care about that as much as I do.

(I think it is very wise to have boxes of special toddler toys, or fun crafts or activities planned for little ones. This just makes sense. Sensory bins are a blast! But I also had to get to a place where I realized that a very detailed, perfect plan for each day in the way of play was not realistic or always necessary for me.)

A dose of reality from this laid-back mama is that, around here, what happens for playtime is most often a surprise to me until it happens. I am totally okay with that.

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We spend lots of time together, but they thrive on coming up with activities that they initiate. My 4- and 2-year-old conducted a circus while we did math yesterday.  They made a ship out of the couch while we did handwriting, and then they came to join us to draw and scribble respectively on slates and paper.

They marched in a parade and then “climbed mountains” while I started lunch and played "Narnia" while I put the baby down for a nap. “Hurrah for Cair Paravel!” from my 2-year-old (copying his sister) is something I never would have heard in a game I would have planned for him. Their creativity overflows and I love hearing them interact with each other.

I have a lot to figure out about homeschooling as I just begin this journey, but praise God for family and the chances to interact with siblings and share life and stories and time unfettered.

I know my teenagers won't necessarily be able to build a ship on the couch12010708_10153094066432611_1921955996679070706_o during math time. I get that academics need to get done. But I hope they will take time to create for the rest of their lives. It's one of the prime qualities that leaders possess. Give room for play and prepare the way for minds that are ready and hungry to learn.

With homeschooling, we have freedom to shape our days according to our priorities. We have freedom to let our kids be kids and explore the fascinating world we live in.

Let's let them breathe, run, create and laugh, discover who they are and what they can create.  Let's give our children the gift of time to play.
How do you make time for play?

(Read Parts 2 of 5 Gifts You Can Give Your Children or Part 1: The Gift of Your Presence.)

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