Of Tides and Seasons

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My family just returned from an off-season vacation to the Oregon Coast. We stayed at an RV park right on the beach. The weather was sunny half of the time we were there. It was cloudy and rainy the other half of the time. That's to be expected this time of year, and we had a good time in spite of the fickle weather.

I never get tired of watching the waves break against the shore, and I especially love the broad expanse of sky above the water. Each day when I walked on the beach I marveled at how different it was from the day before. But there's constancy in the ocean, too. It doesn't move around, or dry up and go away.

Homeschooling is like that. Each day is different. Some days we are able to stick to the schedule and get everything done. The kids are happy and eager to learn. More often, life happens, interruptions come along, the kids decide to be uncooperative, and I get to the end of the day wondering if we've done enough. I have learned to pray for wisdom every morning because I never know what that day will hold. I've also learned to not dwell on the moments and days, but instead to look back at the weeks and months and years, when it comes to measuring success.

I am so grateful that God's mercies are new every day, but He is a never-changing God who is always there for us.

If any of you lack wisdom, let him ask of God, that giveth to all men liberally, and upbraideth not; and it shall be given him. But let him ask in faith, nothing wavering. For he that wavereth is like a wave of the sea driven with the wind and tossed. --James 1:5-6

Enjoying the adventure,
~Karla Cook
Lifelong Learner

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17 minutes on Why Homeschooling Rocks!

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Do you need some encouragement that homeschooling is a great choice? Would you like a reminder that your decision to home educate your kids is a good one? Even if you aren't feeling like maybe this homeschooling thing is too much work, you can still take some inspiration from the following video:


The future of education in light of the past.

I'm fairly certain that Seth Godin didn't have homeschooling in mind when he gave this presentation. But as I listened, homeschooling kept being the round peg the classroom he describes is missing. His talk, which covers quite a bit of ground and moves along nicely, felt to me like 17 minutes on why homeschooling is such a great educational option. I hope you find his talk as invigorating as I do!

A couple notes:

  1. I enjoy reminders that some school teachers don't like textbooks and tests any more than I do. It's nice to find that professionals wish they could be more like us! I don't know why I forget that so easily...
  2. I disagree with several of Mr. Godin's points. At the very least, I would modify a few of them. I'm not alone. There are a couple insightful video comments that hint at weaknesses in his paradigm.

Be encouraged! Homeschooling is a fantastic opportunity to inspire life-long learning in your children and enable them to do important things with their lives.

If you're looking for a homeschool curriculum you and your family are guaranteed to love, check out Sonlight's literature-rich homeschool programs.

 ~Luke Holzmann
Filmmaker, Writer, Empty Nester

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Shake Things Up, Make a Goal

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The air is a brisk 58 degrees as I step into the sunshine for my daily walk after lunch. My phone rings three times before my wife picks up. Immediately following our exchange of hellos, Brittany passes me off to a friend who, she claims, "is going to try to convince you to do something."

Uh-oh.

"Hi, Luke! I'm going to be doing NaNoWriMo and I think you should do it too. Brittany's already agreed and if we all do it together it will be fun and we'll be able to inspire each other and stuff!"

Hmm... add writing two to three thousands words a day to my already packed schedule? This does not sound like a good idea...

But our friend is right: Simply by signing up and making a plan--not to mention getting others to help keep you going--is a very effective strategy to getting things done. In fact, written goals make you ten times more likely to do something than someone without a specific goal.

My life isn't dull, and I'm guessing yours isn't either. There's always something going on in a home filled with learning! But maybe you're feeling like you're getting stuck in a rut. Maybe you've thought you'd like to give your kids some variety in their extracurricular activities and free time. Maybe you'd like to help them start aiming for bigger dreams and working toward a goal. If so, shake things up a bit and do something out of the ordinary. Who knows, your child may discover a new interest or passion that you hadn't realized before.

As a mild example, some of the girls in our church's Young Marrieds group--my sister and wife included--decided to run in the local Color Me Rad race [NB: This group is rather tongue-in-cheek and joke freely about things of which you may not approve... please feel no compulsion to read about them]. My wife has never been interested in running, but as we trained together for her big day, she discovered that running was "kinda fun."


Brittany Running in Color

Other potential sources of inspiration: Our church is putting on an art show later this month. The Christmas pageant is coming up. Maybe it's time to introduce your children to the joy of baking a chocolate pie... or at least tasty 20 minute cookies.

I'm certainly not advocating adding more to your plate! But sometimes it can be good to try out new things and take another look at the goals for your homeschool.

At least, I hope that's true, otherwise next month is going to be miserable <smile>.

Is your family doing anything "out of the ordinary" in the coming months?

 ~Luke Holzmann
Filmmaker, Writer, Empty Nester

P.S. If you have an aspiring writer, perhaps consider encouraging them to participate in the NaNo Young Writers Program.

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Lazy vs Greedy

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I woke up thinking about a question I saw a while back: "Why is it easier to believe that 150,000,000 Americans are being lazy than that 400 Americans are being greedy?" I think the question was posed by someone of the Occupy persuasion (but I can't find a source).

In answer, my brain kept asking, "Have you not been to school?"

Maybe I'm still stuck on Mrs. C's post about kids who drop out of school when they are required to retake a year they failed. When I graduated from high school, half of my fellow classmates had dropped out. Based on that experience alone, I have no trouble believing that 50% of America's 300+ million population struggle.

But are they lazy?

Some are, sure. But others are disillusioned by a system that fails them. Many are stuck in situations that don't encourage them to move forward; socioeconomic pressures affect people. And let's not forget the kids who find school disheartening, something that Dr. Sax brilliantly illustrates in Why Gender Matters. And while an education absolutely does not equate to employment, there's something to be said for learning how to be punctual, figuring out what people want of you, working smart, and managing your time to complete assignments as required. If you don't do that in school, you'll likely have trouble in a job.

150 million people are not lazy. But there are many reasons why they may not be successful.

On the flip side, are the wealthiest Americans greedy?

I'm certain some are. But when I look at a list of the top 100, many of the people don't strike me as the problem. Maybe the 25 of the finance world are, but I wouldn't know. What I see, instead, are people who were able to make it big by being outliers. My mom is an excellent example. When she started Sonlight more than 20 years ago, she pioneered the literature-rich homeschool model. Her efforts paid off after working for years making 20 cents an hour. Today, literature-based homeschool curriculum dominates a large portion of the home education market. Numerous knock-offs have been founded based on her ideas. She started a wave that didn't exist before. And now, we have a profitable and successful company. A company that seeks to give away half of its profits to important work around the world.

[As an aside: just because Mark Zuckerberg is currently "valued" at $9 billion... I'm pretty sure he doesn't have that much money in his bank account.]

I wonder if one of the reasons we don't understand wealth and how the wealthy use their resources is because of how few great biographies there are on the topic. One factor would be that there are only 100 people in the top 100... limiting the number of possible great examples. Another is that super wealth for individuals not in government seems to be a recent phenomenon. And since a love of money is a root of all kinds of evil, it may be difficult to find people who amass large amounts of money and still seek to use it to expand God's Kingdom. But they are out there!

By homeschooling, you are in a position to overcome most of the issues I outlined above facing the "lazy" in our country. What's even better: It doesn't matter which curriculum you use. Simply by being involved in your student's education, your students tend to do better. Plain and simple.

Homeschooling also affords you opportunities to let your children pursue their interests while instilling your values. You may be raising the creator of the next revolution in our lives, be it in technology, agriculture, medicine, social reform, religious thought, or otherwise. By giving your students a global perspective and a heart for the world, they can grow up excited to use whatever wealth God gives them to expand His Kingdom and bless others. If you're not sure where to start, join our latest giving opportunity today.

I'd be remiss not to close with this reminder: Many of the most influential people in the world have been those who simply chose to follow God's call. They may not have been billionaires or brainiacs, but God used them in many powerful ways. You meet such people again and again throughout Sonlight's Core programs.

May your children grow up neither lazy nor greedy. Instead, may they change the world in the ways God directs.

 ~Luke Holzmann
Filmmaker, Writer, Empty Nester

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Monday

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I've got the Monday Blues. Or the Monday Foggy Brain. Or the Monday Exhaustion. Or, well, something to do with Monday's that mean this is my least productive day of the week.

I often find that I'm dragging out of bed and wanting a nap by 9:30.


This sums up my energy level.

I find myself shuffling through things that got taken out over the weekend and haven't been put away.*

I glance through the fridge, it's getting low but it's not shopping day. I could clean, but cleaning day is Thursday, and really, if I clean at 10am the house will not look cleaned by the time the girls go to bed anyway.

I see most of my friends over the weekend, so the need to call and hang out or catch up with a friend is missing.

We generally spend Sunday afternoon with Beppe and Grandpa, so I'm always a bit hesitant to ask if we can come over; I want to make sure they can get done what they need.

Goodness, what a whiner! I definitely need a new strategy to make Monday's a productive day.

Some things I came up with:

  • Make a plan on Saturday night with stuff to do Monday?
  • Make it an errand day?
  • A bread/muffin baking day? (Not something I currently do, but have been thinking about trying)
  • A field trip day?

I'm big on checking off lists, but I feel like Monday turns out to be the day when all of my lists are made to then be checked off during the rest of the week.

So tell me, how do you deal with your down day?

Suggestions for mine?

Until next time,
Jonelle

*I'm grateful to take Sunday as a day of rest, and so I choose to not do any housework. Therefore, the house often is in pretty rough shape come Monday morning.

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Grades: the less-helpful metric

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We went to Prom together over a decade ago. Yesterday we chatted in the church hallway while we waited for the kids in the Christmas play to finish rehearsal. I don't even know how the topic came up.

"At our school we focus on mastery," she tells me. "The kids can take tests again and again."

"That's great. I get why schools test for grades, but measuring how well a child has grasped a subject at a particular moment in time doesn't help the student much. Far better to let them learn from their mistakes!"

With homeschooling, that's exactly what you can do. You aren't bound by some arbitrary convention of when your students "should" learn something. If it takes two days or two years, it's not a big deal. You can let your students learn at their own pace. On the other hand, you can even use tests to help you identify areas where your students struggle or excel. Then, based on this information, you can tweak what you focus on and practice. That's a fantastic use of testing. But notice how that's about you and how you run your homeschool. Grades based on tests are far less helpful for your child.

To the student, getting a bad grade in spelling doesn't help much if they can't practice and try again.

Focus on helping your students master a skill, and they'll do just fine on the test.

 ~Luke Holzmann
Filmmaker, Writer, Empty Nester

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Grateful for His Provision

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Smoke snaked through the air from behind the dishwasher. A moment before an audible "pop" had reverberated through the house. It smelled like burnt plastic and boiling gutter water. Turns out the power cable to our dishwasher had arced, taking out the new supply line and charring the wall. The firemen said we're safe.

But we need a new dishwasher.


The Damage

These frustrating expenses crop up far more often than I'd like. If it were up to me, I'd spend the money on something much more useful and enjoyable; but, no.

I grumble on the way to the hardware store. I grumble on the way back to remeasure the space. I grumble while we discuss which option to buy. I grumble as we head back again. I really don't like spending money. And the one Brittany likes is $80 more than the one I'd select! <grumble>

"We're out of the cheaper model," the sales guy tells us. "And there's no indication when we'll get a new shipment."

<grumble>

"But I see that you guys were looking at this other model. Would you like it for the same price as this one?"

<blink>

They're delivering the new dishwasher tomorrow, for $80 less than the sticker price.

And once again, for all my grumbling, God provides. More than that, He blesses. Brittany says I need to be grateful for these blessings. And she's right. <grumble>

Throughout the Old Testament, God tells Israel to look back on His faithfulness when they are in situations that don't look so good. I'm sure I need to do the same today.

Do you have any stories of when God has blessed your family?

 ~Luke Holzmann
Filmmaker, Writer, Empty Nester

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