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As the new school year begins, what do you really need for your homeschool? I need a checklist for my heart.
Continue readingI hope you enjoyed the first part of my list of Top 25 Reasons Sonlight is 25 Years Old. I've had just as much fun digging deep and asking folks for ideas for the rest of my list. List-making is a passion of mine! Once you've read through this last list of my reasons, please feel free to add to it any you think I've forgotten.
13. Our customers love to celebrate Box Day. It's almost as good as, or some would say even better, than Christmas!
14. We give scholarships to our Sonlight students. I think this is one of the best arguments for homeschooling in general, and more specifically, for why Sonlight "works"!
15. We pick the best books. When we first considered homeschooling some 20 years ago, this reason was at the top of my list for considering Sonlight as an option. Sarita's 7-point All-Star test for choosing books quickly became my own.
16. We have the best convention rep's in the world! I admit to being a bit biased on this one, but if you've ever had the opportunity to meet one of our representatives at a convention near you, I think you'll agree. They're a great group of hard-working, passionate, veteran Sonlight moms. They love nothing better than spending their summer weekends sharing that passion with other families.
17. We have a top notch customer service team. Just like our convention rep's, this group of folks is passionate about providing our customers with the very best. They give new meaning to "going above and beyond".
18. We help families develop a lifestyle of learning.
19. We enable parents to give their children a broader world view.
20. We give students the confidence to engage with others.
21. We provide free access to experienced homeschool counsel and support. Our Sonlight Homeschool Advisors are ready and excited to assist you with choosing and using Sonlight Curriculum materials.
22. We help you to develop close family bonds.
23. We assist you with training your students to defend their faith.
24. We help you to develop a love for reading aloud to your children (and someday perhaps to your grandchildren!)
25. We offer what we believe to be the very best, unmatched money-back guarantee in the industry. We provide you the freedom to try our program with the knowledge that you can get your money back if it doesn't work for your family.
I hope you've enjoyed this reminder of all the reasons why Sonlight is celebrating our 25th anniversary this year. Perhaps you will be part of the next 25 years worth of reasons! As Sarita reminded us at our company celebration in June ... look at what God has done! May He receive the glory.
Still on the journey ...
~Judy Wnuk
Or "How You Get a Classical Education with Sonlight You and Your Children Will Love"
The basic idea behind a "Classical Education" or the "trivium" is that learning progresses through three main stages:
Some homeschool programs are built around these stages, segmenting instruction by stage and age. This approach is based on child development theory which indicates that children in elementary school are ready for Grammar, middle school children crave Logic, and high school students demand Rhetoric; built into this thinking is an idea that younger children are not yet ready for the upper level stages of learning.
There is much truth to this, shown by the success of these programs. Still, limiting discussion to specific ages because young children aren't interested in, say, "why" questions yet is demonstrably misguided. As one mother recently said to me, "Two-year-olds ask why all the time! Clearly they are interested in some kind of logic." Another mother told me that her young children found memorization exercises boring. "That approach would be draining to my family," she said.
Sonlight, like every other educational model I've encountered, covers grammar, logic, and rhetoric; we just don't label them that way. Also, we start from a different foundation. Rather than limiting discussion (rhetoric and logic) to children "ready" for it, we encourage you to talk with your children in age appropriate ways. And how do we spark such communication?
Through stories.
But not just any stories. Sonlight begins with a History focus and makes connections from there. Your curriculum is packed with historical fiction, biographies, beautiful picture books, and more. These ignite the imagination and provide ample opportunity to talk with your children, no matter their age. What about the developmental stages? No problem. You, as the parent, know what your children are ready for. Should you attempt to engage a child in "rhetoric" prematurely, you'll get immediate feedback and can adjust slightly. But should your four-year-old want an explanation, you can offer one that is on level.
Grammar
Proponents of a Classical approach suggest kids need "hooks" to which they can attach understanding. These are the facts learned in the Grammar stage. Every program gravitates to this naturally. These are the years where children learn their alphabet, the colors, days of the week, a good bit of vocabulary, and such. But rather than build a program confined to this idea, Sonlight introduces your children people, places, things within the context of a story. We encourage memorization where appropriate, but your children will remember the key ideas without resorting to dry repetition of data points. The hooks in stories are, in my opinion, a bit more memorable.
Logic
This is where Sonlight puts you center stage. We have a strong commitment to education, not indoctrination. Practically, this means we provide you with tools to introduce your children to what you believe and why. You'll also have opportunity to discuss the ideas you find untrustworthy or less rational. By the time your students hit high school, you will have already established a process by which you mull over big ideas together. For me, the most exciting aspect of driving toward Truth was through the biographies and historical accounts of people who have gone before. Seeing their lives play out gave me insights into how the world works in ways that dogmatic pronouncements never have.
Rhetoric
Throughout your Sonlight years, you will help your children solidify what they believe, and why. The Sonlight College Prep courses cover everything from the historical impact of Christianity to how the Gospel impacts how we think about money. Yes, you can even add a public speaking bit to your studies should you so choose. But when it comes to communicating ideas, your continued discussion is the best platform. As you wrestle through the darker aspects of history, and the ways men and women of God have extended grace in those situations, your conversations will deepen. And here, as your students teeter on the cusp of adulthood, you will discover the depth and breadth your children have covered.
How does Sonlight handle the trivium? How do you get a Classical Education with Sonlight?
Through great stories, deep discussion, and a global missions perspective, you'll naturally progress through the "Classical" stages of learning as you read, discuss, and experience Sonlight's literature-based homeschooling together. Learn more about
Perhaps you know the feeling. It's 5:30 pm, the house is a mess, and you haven't even thought about dinner. Sometimes the logistics of life just get away from us as stay-at-home moms. There is so much to do!
So how do you juggle everything on your plate as a homeschool mom?
I won't pretend to be the expert here. You can find lots of tips and helps online, so instead I'll just share what happened to work for me.
While I was at home with the kids, I seriously narrowed down what I wanted to focus on. My list included: homeschooling the children; nurturing my relationship with them, my husband and the Lord; and helping Sonlight become a blessing to families. I let a lot of other things go; I had to in order to stay sane, enjoy the good in life, and have the energy to serve my family and Sonlighters.
Routine was key for me. We would get up about the same time each day, and then follow a regular pattern. We always started with our Bible reading together. That made sure we got it in each day, and it was truly an encouragement to my soul to read Scripture daily with my children and talk about it together. From about 8-10 in the morning I would have the younger children read to me, and everyone would do their independent seat work such as math, handwriting, copywork and spelling. While the kids did their seat work, I would clear the breakfast table, throw in some laundry, make the bed, and pull out any frozen food for dinner.
At 10, we'd take a break for a snack. Then we'd sit in the living room and do all the books we read together. The children would usually play quietly with Legos or simple art supplies while I read.
Reading together after our break helped motivate the kids to stay focused for that relatively short seat work period. If they didn't finish their seat work by the break, they had to finish it after lunch. That seemed to encourage the kids to work quickly - a good life skill to develop.
After lunch, the kids were on their own. They would play outside, work on their own "just for fun" projects or play with friends. John would read to them at bedtime, which gave them a time of bonding and calming prior to settling down for the night.
That's the schedule that worked for me. Give it a try if you want, but know that other moms approach the schedule quite differently. My daughter Jonelle works in chunks as she homeschools her children. They focus on one topic and work through all their materials in a day. It gives them a sense of closure. I'm more of a "do a little every day in every topic." Both methods work just fine.
When it came to cooking and cleaning, I adjusted my standards and kept it simple. As soon as they were old enough, I taught the kids to make their own simple easy breakfast and lunch each day. For dinner, I kept a repertoire of meals that I could make quickly and easily, and pulled them out on days I was running too quickly. We didn't eat fancy things, but simple and healthy enough worked for us.
I also accepted that the house would not stay as neat while the kids were home and active. I preferred a house full of creative kids with supplies and Legos spread out, over children plugged into the TV or sent out of the home all day.
As John read to the kids each evening, I picked up so we would start the next day with a (reasonably) neat home. I often vacuumed in the evening - it was amazing how polished it made the house seem. Is there something easy like that you could find for your own home?
One of my favorite tips from the Inspire 25 event we hosted with Crystal Paine and Heidi St. John was that if you feel overwhelmed, sit down with your spouse and talk about what specifically is putting you over the top. Is it dinner each night, or the laundry, or clutter, or a discipline problem, or the taxi service you provide to your children's activities? Could you try anything new for this problem area? Many husbands love helping think of practical solutions to problems. You may be amazed what the two of you can come up with in one brainstorming session.
You might also check out the Sonlight Forums, where a whole community of wise moms share struggles, ideas and encouragement in everything from discipline to homemaking and, of course, homeschooling.
It is hard work being a stay-at-home homeschooling parent. But it also such a blessed stage in life. I pray that you find strategies that work for your family so you can enjoy this precious time while your children are at home. Stay on the course. You can do it!
Blessings to you and yours,
Sarita
Summer is such a fun time for relaxed outdoor learning. Warm summer evenings are a great opportunity to learn about astronomy, especially since you don't have to worry about "school night" bedtimes.
Something my family looks forward to in August is the Perseid Meteor Shower event. Do you know about that? From mid-July to mid-August, we enjoy looking for "falling stars." Of course, the showers are best seen if you can get way out in the country away from the city lights.
One August, late in the evening after it got dark, we grabbed blankets and pillows and piled into the pick-up and headed out for a dark country road. Once we reached a safe place to pull over, with no man-made lights in sight, we spread our blankets in the back of the truck and laid on our backs looking up at the stars. It took a few minutes for our eyes to adjust to the deep darkness, but then out of the corner of my eye, I saw a flash across the sky. "There's one!" I pointed. Of course, by the time the others looked, it was gone. But then someone else saw one. We realized it wasn't possible to point them out to each other, but by keeping our eyes on the sky, it really did seem to be a shower of falling stars. That was a fun family memory.
Other times we've stayed up to watch a lunar eclipse. There's one coming up September 28 this year. Of course, it will depend on where you are... and the weather! ...as to whether or not you'll be able to see it.
Even when there's "nothing special" going on in the sky, we still enjoy looking at the stars, picking out constellations, and noticing the appearance of some of the planets at various times.
I'm actually not all that knowledgeable about the skies, but we have read several books on the subject over the years and I love the Google Sky Map app on my phone. It identifies stars, planets, and even satellites. Occasionally I'll notice an extra bright star that isn't usually there, so I click on the app, hold the phone up towards the sky, and find out that it's Mars... or one of the other planets. Not that I can do anything about it. I just like knowing.
I've collected some great books and activities about astronomy on our Pinterest board, if you need more ideas.
The heavens declare the glory of God;
And the firmament shows His handiwork.
Day unto day utters speech,
And night unto night reveals knowledge.
Psalm 19:1-2
Have you ever taken your kids out at night just to look at the sky? I'd love to hear about it!
Enjoying the adventure,
~Karla Cook
Lifelong Learner
It's hard to believe that our 25th anniversary year is more than half-way through! I was flipping through some of the great pictures that were captured at last month's Anniversary Celebration and it struck me that there's so much more to celebrate, and very little time. I took that sense of urgency into one of our recent team meetings and had great fun brainstorming some "Top 25" lists about Sonlight. Not wanting you to miss out on any of that fun, I decided to make some of our lists into a blog series. I hope you'll enjoy yet another reminder to celebrate with us!
Top 25 Reasons Sonlight is 25 Years Old! (Part 1)
1. Our customers love our curriculum! And they love to tell us why ...
2. We listen to our customers. Which is one of the reasons why I believe our customers love our curriculum!
3. We help homeschool families connect with one another. With the advent of Facebook and Twitter, this has become much easier. But before social media was as wildly popular as it is today, the Sonlight Forums offered a virtual connection for thousands of families around the world.
Just wanted to say how much I value and appreciate
those of you who have graduated your kids
and yet still take the time to check in here and lend your voice.
Your experience is valuable, your calm is steadying,
and your success is inspirational for this mom still in the trenches!
Thank you!
~momof4boys!:)
4. We make teaching easier since the work is all done for you. Just yesterday I was chatting with a new-to-homeschooling mom on the phone, and after describing how our Instructor's Guides are put together, this was her reaction. She was thrilled that she wouldn't have to spend hours researching and pre-reading and scheduling in order to give her kids a quality literature-based education.
5. We use our profits to impact the world through missions.
6. We produce award-winning curriculum programs.
7. We provide curriculum options for Pre-K through graduation.
8. We help families with the most important decision they'll ever make.
9. We take good care of our employees.
10. We have boxes that turn into castles!
11. We exhibit good stewardship.
12. We provide strong academic materials.
That finishes part 1 of my list. You may be able to think of other reasons why you believe Sonlight has reached this milestone as a homeschool curriculum provider. Please feel free to share those reasons ... we'd love to hear them!
Still on the journey ...
~Judy Wnuk
PS ... stayed tuned for part 2 next week!
A friend shot me a link to the current quora thread If given a choice, will you homeschool your child? Why?
The response at the top right now is by Hiland Hall. He says...
I entered public school in 5th grade. It was traumatizing. I had no idea how cruel kids could be in general, and as an outsider, that cruelty was very quickly turned towards me. I'm 35 and I still have social anxiety that I believe started when I entered public school.
Reading that, I was totally confused as to why he also said, "I can't imagine homeschooling."
Why in the world would you toss your children into a system that traumatized you? Please, don't. Homeschool instead. It's awesome. It's good for your kids. It's good for you.
The most popular comment is from David Stewart. He is a special needs teacher, which I believe significantly skews his perception. Let's dig into why.
This is based on his first hand experience (read: with special needs students). Special needs issues are multi-faceting, difficult, and have no easy answers. I know homeschoolers who homeschool their special needs students because the schools did a terrible job and created a very harmful environment. I also know homeschoolers who don't homeschool their special needs children because the schools offer a better environment. I'm not anti-school. But any transition in schooling -- ignoring the special needs element -- leaves kids reeling. Why do you think there are so many novels and movies about switching to a new school? It's difficult!
David is right: It's not pretty when homeschooling collapses for a family for one reason or another. But that's hardly a reason not to homeschool! Car crashes aren't pretty, but we still drive because of all the benefits it affords us. Same here. Homeschooling is awesome, but there are extreme cases where things aren't awesome. My guess: It's not awesome at school in those cases either, hence David's negative outlook.
And I can see how, in a highly specialized field of working with special needs, this matters a ton. Resources and training are helpful. And that's what we parents do with our own children! My wife and I took classes when we were in the adoption process. Parents read parenting books and pregnancy books and talk to friends and family and look stuff up online when their child exhibits a new behavior that they don't know how to handle. We learn all the time because we specialize in our own children. No other expert does that.
As far as not knowing stuff, two things to come to mind: 1. That just shows that you don't learn everything in school; and 2. You can learn and teach your children stuff you didn't learn the first time around. Seriously. And, by the way, it's awesome. Homeschooling is awesome.
First, how does he know this? But, secondly, even if that is true, it's not reality. See, I get to talk to real teachers from the real world who teach in real classrooms, and their experience is more like this. The idea of every classroom led by an excellent professional dedicated to teaching in the field is a fantasy. Even my fantastic private university had some terrible teachers. I also suggest you swing by my short series on educators.
Well, my own experience going from homeschool to public school was the opposite. What now? Whose anecdote do we accept as "reality" by which we should base our decisions? Rather than play that silly game, I simply contend this: Homeschooling lets you learn how to learn. You will succeed in whatever environment you get placed in, unless, of course, you've learned that schools can be silly and you have better priorities.
<sigh> What about it?
Oh, you're talking about socialization ills? Gotcha. Yeah. Homeschool.
Why do people keep bringing up things that are negative about schools as if they were reasons to send your child there? I don't get it...
Nope. You can't. But homeschooling is awesome because of what it's like to live a sheltered life while homeschooling. Can you do the shelter thing wrong? Absolutely. Don't do that. Instead, use the fantastic benefits of homeschooling to prepare your children for life.
Totally agree. But homeschooling does not stop you from enjoying all the benefits of multiple teachers.
There's more. There's much more to be said about homeschooling. This blog is packed with posts about learning both at home at and school and the interplay between the two.
The bottom line: Homeschooling is awesome.
~Luke Holzmann
Filmmaker, Writer, Pseudo-Dad