Homeschooling in a Family Mix of Introverts and Extroverts

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Homeschooling in a Family Mix of Introverts and Extroverts

Many people confuse being an extrovert with being outgoing and an introvert with being shy. Although there’s often quite a bit of overlap, they’re not the same thing. Extroverts sometimes need periods of solitude and silence, but they’re energized by being around other people.

Introverts, on the other hand, often enjoy being in the company of other people, but they recharge by having time alone. So what happens when the personality of a homeschooling parent doesn’t jibe with their family’s homeschooling reality?

Extroverts Who Need to Stay Home

Sometimes an extroverted parent finds themselves in charge of introverted kids. Mom or Dad wants to take advantage of the freedom that homeschooling allows, filling up their days with teams, classes, groups, and excursions. Their kids, however, want to stay home, quietly going about their days. Most outings are met with poor attitudes and behavior from kids who are simply maxed out.

Both sides need to compromise somewhat. It wouldn't be fair for the entire family to stay home every single day. Those more introverted kids need to learn to go with the flow when they don’t feel like it, but parents also don't need to overextend their introverted kids.

Maybe the problem isn’t about opposite personalities, but rather a need to buckle down and take care of academics. The extroverted parent can easily flit from one activity to another and neglect key academic responsibilities. That doesn’t mean the outside activities aren’t beneficial or that the kids aren’t learning things in the midst of the fun things they’re doing. But we each know when we’ve crossed over into irresponsibility for our own family.

How can an extroverted parent get their people fix without jeopardizing their introverted kids’ sanity or academic achievements?

  • Social media – It’s important to have self-discipline and not allow social media to consume your days, but it’s such a great way for extroverts to get regular human interaction in a season of life where they need to be home more often than not.
  • Email loop – Invite a small group of friends to participate in an ongoing email conversation. The opportunity to invest in friendships while staying at home, and doing so in a manner that doesn’t conflict with school responsibilities, can be priceless.
  • Weekly outing without kids – Find something to do for your own benefit, a regular activity you can attend while your spouse or another person you trust stays home with your kids. It doesn’t even have to be a formal meeting. Connecting with friends at a coffee shop or going on a walk together one night a week can do the trick.
  • Weekly outing with kids  - Pack up the introverts and set aside the day’s school assignments to do something fun. It’s important for you, as an extrovert, to have outings with your family and for them to understand the value of putting other people first.

Introverts Who Need to Get Out

In some families, there’s an introverted parent spending each day with an extroverted kid or two. They’re desperate for some peace and quiet, a chance to be alone, but their kids are going stir crazy and begging to hang out with other people. Those kids don’t need every square on their calendar filled up, but it’s important that that they have opportunities to develop relationships with people outside of their own four walls.

Sometimes it’s not the kids who need to get out as much as the introverted parent who’s raising them. It’s not uncommon for an introvert to take their need for time alone to an extreme and end up isolating themselves. While there’s nothing wrong with generally avoiding big crowds or constant interaction, we are created to need each other. Introverts have things to offer the people in their lives and can benefit from what those people offer them.

What are some ways the introverted parent can get themselves and their kids away from home on a consistent basis without being overwhelmed?

  • Groups/classes led by others – Being part of something where you can sit on the sidelines or help out behind the scenes allows your household to enjoy the benefit of doing things with other people in a way that doesn’t stretch you beyond what you can handle.
  • Park days – If you head to your local park, you’ll find the extroverts in your family will instantly find other people to play and visit with. You can spread a blanket on the lawn and read a book while they entertain themselves. Or you can enjoy casual conversation with other parents there.
  • Weekly outing without kids – An introvert’s kids may be awesome, but it’s still going to wipe them out to never get a break. A regular chance to leave the house by yourself and do whatever you want is important for your sanity. An equally good option is to have a spouse or friend take your kids away for a few hours so you can be alone in your own home.
  • Weekly outing with kids – Make a point to go out and do something with your kids each week. Not only will it be good for you to spend that time with them, but you’ll also be setting a good example of how to stretch one’s comfort zone for the greater good.

Worth the Effort to Change

Your personality can be a blessing or a burden when it comes to homeschooling. The good news is that the burden aspect is simple to fix. It may not always be easy, as you’ll be bending your own will to accommodate others, but your whole household will benefit when you take steps to balance your own needs with those of your family.

Take advantage of our 100% guarantee. No other homeschooling company can match our Love to Learn, Love to Teach™ promise. You can order with confidence that either you will have a great year, or you will get a full refund.

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The Children of India

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India has over 400 million people who have never heard of Jesus. The lostness is staggering, yet God is at work in India! Children Bible Clubs are one missionary tool the Lord is using to bring children—and eventually adults—to Christ in this densely populated nation. Rejoice with me as you read the stories of three such children--Monika, Jiadev, and Shivani. And then find out how your family can amplify the transforming power of the gospel in India.

1. Monika’s Story

Monika is a happy child living with her parents and younger sister in south India. Her life wasn’t always joyful though.

Not long ago her father was consumed by alcohol addiction. He spent his money on his addiction, leaving Monika’s family hungry. Their home was emotionally traumatic, plagued with arguments and anger. It got so bad that Monika’s mother tried to end her own life.

Influenced by a neighbor, Monika and her sister joined a Children’s Bible Club in their neighborhood. It was God’s plan in action. You see, God planned to save the whole family, starting with the children.

At the Bible Club there were stories, games, singing, help with schoolwork, and Jesus. After learning about the power of prayer, Monika started asking Jesus to help heal her dad’s heart. Monika prayed with the Bible Club members, on her own, and eventually with her mother.

Monika, her mother, and sister started regularly attending church. When her dad found out, he was angry. He marched over to the church, barged through the doors and then simply froze in his tracks, standing in the doorway of the chapel. A miracle had happened. In an instant, his anger was gone, and he felt as though Jesus was hugging him.

At that moment, her dad’s heart was changed, and Jesus rescued Monika’s family. The drinking and violence stopped. Her family now lives in peace, praying and reading the Bible together. They credit their family’s salvation to Monika and her participation in the Children’s Bible Club.

2. Jaidev’s Story

Monika led her whole family to Jesus, but there are many children still on the journey. Jaidev is such an example.

Jaidev’s journey to finding Jesus didn’t start as a journey to be saved. It started because he was struggling with his school work. You see, after Jaidev’s father died of cancer, his mother and older siblings were forced to get jobs to support the family. No one was around to help him with homework, and he was falling behind.

His friend told him he could get free tutoring at the Children’s Bible Club, so Jaidev started attending.

Soon his grades turned around. Even better, Jaidev learned about Jesus!  He began reading the Bible and praying regularly. He now attends worship groups and is still praying for the day his family joins him in faith in Christ.

3. Shivani’s Story

Shivani’s parents could not afford tutoring for their daughter as she struggled through her assignments and tests. They wanted desperately to provide their daughter with everything they did not have, starting with a good education. Over half of children who start school in India do not finish; family poverty forces them to give up their studies to earn money at a job instead.

When Shivani’s parents heard that their local Children’s Bible Club offered free tutoring, they immediately signed up their daughter. They knew she would get the academic help she needed there.

And she did! But even greater, Shivani experienced Jesus through the songs and stories at Bible Club.   

Shivani was so moved by her Children’s Bible Club experience, not only does she want to be a teacher, but she has also influenced her parents to join her in praying every night.

Children’s Bible Clubs Influence Families

One of the most astounding things that come from the Children’s Bible Clubs is, perhaps, the power of influence the children have on their families. When the children encourage their parents to join them in prayer at home or to attend worship together, they are spreading the Good News of Jesus to the whole family. In this way, the Children’s Bible Clubs bringing Jesus to the communities of India one family at a time.

Make an Impact

Sonlight and Mission India hope to impact a few thousand of those 22 million children this year by funding Children Bible Clubs all over the country. Providing a place for kids to sing, dance, learn, grow, pray, and—most importantly—meet Jesus.

Sign up today to receive your FREE Adventure Pack, which includes everything your family will need to experience India—a virtual reality (VR) headset that will allow you to participate in and Experience India in 360°, a coin collector, and an introductory booklet.

Once a week during the month of October, a new video/VR experience is released for you and your family to follow through India. As you journey along, you’ll have the opportunity to collect loose change and bills in your coin collector. Every dollar you give will be used to send a little boy or girl in India to a Children’s Bible Club—a year of fun where they'll learn all about Jesus ... many for the first time!

Every $24 raised will enroll a boy or girl in a Children's Bible Club for an entire year!

The Children’s Bible Clubs are transforming India. What an exciting time to be a part of this movement.

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4 Great Reasons to Read Your Favorite Book Again (& Again)

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Did you know that I reread the Chronicles of Narnia, and especially my favorite, The Horse and His Boy, annually? One of the marks of a good book is that it grows along with you. It bears repeated readings and opens up new insights and pleasures each time. But besides insights and pleasures, there are other reasons to read your favorite books again. Here are my top four.

(& Again)

1. Greater Understanding and Memory

American adults usually have a fairly good understanding of, say, Abraham Lincoln. Without knowing all the controversial aspects of his policies, most know that he was born in a log cabin, delivered the Gettysburg Address, issued the Emancipation Proclamation, and was assassinated shortly after the Civil War.

When children are just getting started learning, though, almost every one of those concepts is new.

  • What's a log cabin?
  • What was Gettysburg, and why did it need an address?
  • What does emancipation even mean? Or assassination?

For a child to cover the same—or similar!—material more than once makes good sense. Just like you probably find it easier to cook a recipe the second time through, and maybe think of some shortcuts, this is true for your children, too.

2. Better Brain Highways

Repeated exposure grows better highways in the brain. So if your preschooler wants you to read Go, Dog. Go! fifty times, then read it gladly. Young children enjoy the process of repeated readings, and you’re building brain highways that will serve them well for the rest of their lives.

If your young readers want to jump ahead with their Readers, let them go for it! And then repeat the Readers on schedule. Your children will be that much stronger a reader as a result of repeated exposure.

3. Subtler Appreciation

Was it C.S. Lewis who said that the first reading of a book was for plot, and the second reading for delight?

It’s true—the first time through, there’s an irresistible desire to know what happened. It’s only on repeated readings that you can enjoy the hints of foreshadowing that the author drops along the way, savor the carefully crafted descriptions, or notice all the tiny historical details woven into the story.

4. Friendliness of Familiarity

Rereading books provides the multi-layered pleasure of the act of present reading combined with the memories of all the readings before. If you are fortunate enough to read By the Great Horn Spoon! in Sonlight E for a second, third, or fourth time, you’ll find that you remember most of what happened, but the exact turn of phrase, or the details of the plot, are again new and fresh. And funny!

Which is all to say: if you find that your children are a bit bored, or if they want to read and reread, or if they tend to race through books and you’re always looking for more—pull out Adventures with Waffles, Red Sails to Capri, or The Sherwood Ring again and settle in for a delightful time. Reading your favorite books again is not a waste of time!


Ready to start building your home library? Look at Sonlight's collections to discover great books you'll want to read over and over.

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Why It's Okay That I Do My Entire Curriculum & Tick All the Boxes

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I’m going to share a secret with you. It’s not something I usually confess to strangers for fear of backlash, but I’ve recently been convicted that maybe I should be more open. Maybe, I suddenly realized, I need to be willing to prove that people like me are normal, too.

So here goes: I’m a Sonlighter and yes, I do it all.

I do the entire curriculum as designed, checking all the boxes and reading all the books.

Can I tell you how freeing it is to admit that? In most places where homeschoolers congregate—at co-ops, in Facebook groups, at library book sales—I play down the fact that I do the whole Sonlight program.

  • No, I don’t shelve science.
  • I don’t automatically ax half the Read-Alouds.
  • And I don’t set the Bible aside because a church program fills that need.

Barring incident (and yes, we’ve definitely had incidents!) we do a whole History / Bible / Literature program top to bottom—even if it takes extra time to get there.

Not Better, Just Different

I say all of this not to shame the homeschoolers who approach their Instructor's Guides like a buffet line, picking and choosing what fits their family, their season of life, and their needs. Instead, I say it to encourage moms who might not even take on homeschooling with Sonlight after hearing from so many others how overwhelming and book-heavy it is. I also say it to let other moms, like me, know that it’s okay to enjoy the process of homeschooling so very much that you dive headfirst into every resource available to you.

See, I think we’ve reached a point in the culture of homeschooling where it’s becoming a badge of honor to embrace such a minimalist approach to education that we cast suspicious eyes on mothers who don’t hold to the same ideas. We’re celebrating paring back, going bare bones, and simplifying so much that families like mine, who enjoy the rich banquet of a Sonlight education, are almost ashamed to admit that yes, at the end of the week, we’ve checked all the boxes.

I’m here to say that neither approach is right… or wrong.

Just like God created each individual family to reflect His glory with a specific calling to be fulfilled, our homeschools are hothouses for the background He wants to supply for our children. We’re all on a unique path. Why, then, is it not acceptable for one family to prune Readers, and another to strive to finish them all? Why is the admission that no, we didn’t take December off  but instead stayed the course unwelcome in some circles?

Neither is better. They’re just different.

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I’m Not Trying to be Supermom

Here’s another thing I want you to know: there’s absolutely nothing special about me that makes a full Sonlight package easier. Like you, I’m juggling multiple children, dirty dishes, and trying to get supper on the table at a reasonable hour. I’ve got a preschooler who interrupts math lessons, a husband who travels for a month at a time, and several children with learning disabilities. I have three in various out-of-home therapies, extracurricular sports for two, several in music lessons, and other obligations that mean packing everyone up and car-schooling several afternoons a week.

There’s nothing special about the way I feel on Monday mornings as I face a long week ahead, unless you count my relief at the fact that I have an open-and-go Instructor’s Guide holding my hand through it all.

I’m not exceptional in any way—trust me. I’m also not trying to outshine any one or to minimize the fact that homeschooling is hard work. I’m just doing what I feel called to do, and to do it to the best of my ability. I’m trusting that you’re doing the same, no matter what your day looks like. I’m not judging your wake up time, the number of math lessons your kids do in a week, or whether or not you count audiobooks as Read-Alouds. I have enough on my own plate without worrying about whether or not you feel handwriting is a valuable skill.

Sonlight and the Three Bears

A full Sonlight package happens to be a great fit for our family—our Goldilocks curriculum. Not too much, not too little, but just right. We tend to keep pace with the Instructor’s Guide, and don’t struggle to complete the scheduled work. We school year around. We average one program per year.

For some folks, it’s too much. They need to cut back. And, I’ve never met these folks, but I bet someone out there adds tons extra, feeling like they want even more.

And we’re all normal. We’re all doing it the right way. Be proud of who you are as a homeschooler!

Whether you do it all or homeschool buffet-style, Sonlight can work for you. Go to SmoothCourse to explore your options.

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Why Should Kids Care About Giving to International Missions?

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I was a missionary kid, born deep in the heart of southern Mexico and then lived in the former Yugoslavia. The idea of giving to missions isn’t merely conceptual to me; it played out in my life in a very real way.

How real?

Tithes often paid for our brown bread, eggs, carrots, tangy yogurt, and meat of occasionally-questionable origin. Missions contributions bought translated Bibles, many destined for a God’s Smuggler-esque journey behind the Iron Curtain. As Paul and Timothy wrote in the first chapter of Philippians, “For even in Thessalonica you sent aid once and again for my necessities.”

1. Giving to Missions Reminds Us People Are Created in the Image of God

We sometimes forget the money from missions giving goes to living, breathing people, don’t we? In the Western church, we’re so conditioned to think of missions in terms of projects and outreaches, we don’t always remember the beating pulse of tangible humanity—or the living expenses—underneath it all.

But kids don’t think in terms of programs. While adults wrangle with logistics and numbers and people groups, children always see people. Understanding that both the reached and the reacher alike are people created in the image of God guards us against the skewed perspective that we—rather than Christ—are the Savior.

2. Giving to Missions Enables Us to Obey the Biblical Command to Tithe

There’s no question tithing is a Biblical idea; a plethora of passages address the concept of giving a portion of one’s income. While the Old Testament is clear on giving ten percent, the early Christians placed a placed a special emphasis on plentiful, generous, cheerful giving. Throughout the New Testament, we can see that the early Christians considered giving to originate with the church and proceed outward; meeting the needs of whoever had lack, both within the community as well as beyond its borders:

“...a severe famine would spread over the entire Roman world. Then the disciples, each according to his ability, determined to send relief to the brethren dwelling in Judea. This they did, sending their gift…” (Acts 11:27-30)

3. Giving to Missions Generates Gratitude

Talking to kids about giving as a means to meet others’ needs necessitates a conversation about lack. Most of us find it uncomfortable to have conversations with our kids about money, especially when it comes to discussing classifications like poor and the wealthy. But a frank discussion about

  • food availability,
  • clean water access,
  • sanitation options, and
  • shelter conditions

prompts gratitude in even the most modest of settings.

And that’s just touching on food, water, and shelter. Have your kids ever whined about picking up toys? When irritated by a mess of craft supplies or strewn toys, it’s easy for me to lose perspective and forget what a tremendously first-world problem of excess such clutter is.

As parents, we can use a gentle nudge toward gratitude from time to time, too. (Have you compared your income against a global scale? An annual net salary of $12,000 USD ranks in the top 15% of wealthiest people, worldwide.)

4. Giving to Missions Shifts Our Perspective

Especially for Christian kids raised in the church, it's easy to slip into the misconception that Sunday School is a normal way of life for everyone.  But Vacation Bible School and Wednesday evening services are not universal experiences of childhood by any means—worldwide, or even within America. If you and your kids have access to freely attend church programs, that’s actually a massive privilege and luxury. Kind of amazing to think about, isn’t it? It’s definitely an important point to discuss with our children.

For many children in India, Sunday School is certainly not a reality. Even simple Bible songs are wholly unfamiliar. Prior to the launch of Sonlight’s 2018 Giving Campaign: Experience India, I was not familiar with Mission India or with their focus on year-long Bible clubs. But throughout the coming weeks—alongside my fellow Sonlighters—I’ll be collecting coins and learning about India through the free virtual reality Adventure Pack.

5. Giving to Missions Allows Us to Play a Part in the Great Commission

Won’t you sign up to Experience India too? During this fall campaign, Sonlight will match every donation up to $100,000.

And I know many of you have the same question I did: Just how much of the money my kids and I collect will actually go toward these Bible clubs? Mission India explains, “For each dollar received, Mission India spends 80 cents on our ministry work, 8 cents on ministry management, and 12 cents on development.” Good to know, right?

As we step into the Great Commission together, let’s pray for God to open our hearts and our eyes to what He wants to do in our own lives through this encounter.  And let’s pray for the kids who will be hearing about Jesus—most for the very first time—through Mission India’s Children’s Bible Clubs.


Sonlight has teamed up with Mission India to bring you Experience India—a FREE, four-week, virtual reality (VR) adventure online—focused on how Jesus’ final command, the Great Commission, is being lived out in India.

We hope Experience India will develop in your kids a heart for the unreached by providing a fun and easy way to participate in the Great Commission.

We’ve set a goal of raising $100,000 for Year-Long Children’s Bible Clubs through the Experience India adventure—enough to enroll nearly 4,200 kids in India in Bible Clubs.

But, there’s more....Sonlight will match, dollar-for-dollar, all the money that's raised through Experience India—up to $100,000!

That means nearly 8,400 kids can learn about Jesus in Year-Long Children’s Bible Clubs this year! Will you join us in helping reach thousands of children with the Gospel?

SIGN UP HERE

NOTE: Experience India is an educational fundraiser, but there is no cost or obligation to participate.

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4 Tips for Parenting Shy or Anxious Children

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My kids come by their shyness honestly. I was so painfully shy when I was growing up that my classmates would ask my parents if I could speak. They weren’t sure because they had never heard me talk! Thankfully, after years of hiding behind my mom’s skirt, I grew out of my shyness. After all, it gets harder and harder to hide behind mom’s skirt!

A couple of my own children follow in my bashful footsteps. So I’ve learned a few tricks over the years for how to work through shyness in children. Although anxiety and shyness are not the same thing, some of these tips may work with anxious kids, too.

1. Homeschooling Helps Shy or Anxious Kids

When my oldest child went to a preschool program and kindergarten at our local public school, he withered instead of blossoming. Isaac's anxiety levels grew, and he became more and more shy. We were concerned when we started to homeschool that he would get worse from the isolation.

After all, what about socialization?

But, to our great surprise, homeschooling actually gave him the confidence he needed to come out of his shell. He made friends more easily at church, and his anxiety levels took a nosedive. He was suddenly so laid back and relaxed!

Homeschooling actually did the opposite of what we feared—exacerbating his shyness, and I am so thankful! I truly believe that homeschooling helps shy children build the confidence they need before heading out into the world.

2. Model & Practice Social Situations

Model and practice. Model and practice. Sometimes it seems that my days are much less about teaching and much more modeling and practicing.

In the case of shyness or social anxiety, we have found role playing or practicing a very effective tool. Since our children were old enough to speak, we’ve had them practice meeting people. They would stand up straight, look the person in the eye, hold out their hand, and say something like, “My name is Hannah. It’s so nice to meet you.”

Now, keep in mind that they were practicing with me. Of course, on occasion we were lucky enough to get a grandparent to help us practice! But practicing with a familiar person helps them to develop somewhat of a predictable script for what they need to do in certain situations. This gives them confidence because they know exactly what to do and say in “x” situation.

You can use the model and practice trick to work on all kinds of situations when shyness can cause misunderstandings or awkwardness:

  • meeting people
  • asking and answering questions
  • ordering food at a restaurant
  • asking to use the restroom
  • asking for directions

Model and practice is also a great tool to use when working on uncomfortable or even dangerous situations. In addition to pleasantries, we’ve also coached our children on what to do if they feel uncomfortable in a situation, and every so often, we’ll have a practice session. I think this is especially important for shy children who struggle to speak for themselves.

3. Remember That Shyness is a Super Power!

We generally don’t recognize character traits as super powers in our children. After all, they are young and haven’t quite figured out how to channel that trait in a completely positive direction. However, the fact is that shy kids are likely to be introverts, and introverts have proven to be some of the world’s greatest thinkers and dreamers.

Introverts are also known for their humility, servant-hood, and their deep compassion for others. While some kids are bouncing off the walls (and don’t get me wrong here...that’s a super power too!), shy kids are sitting back, taking it all in. They are making mental notes about how not to behave, how Susan is feeling after the fall she took earlier, and how he or she can best stay out of the spotlight.

So instead of worrying, always keep in mind that shyness is simply an element of a blossoming personality, and it’s our job as parents and teachers to help them develop those super power traits to the fullest.

4. Provide a Safe Place for Your Shy Child to Talk

The downside to being shy is that you tend to bottle up a lot of emotion. This is definitely a negative way to handle big feelings. Consider doing what my mom did for me by providing a safe place to talk. I don’t think it was intentional to begin with, but the front seat of our old tan Crown Victoria became what we lovingly referred to as The Confessional Seat. For some reason, it seemed I was comfortable to pour out my heart when I sat in that seat. I think it was probably because I was alone with my mom, without interruptions, and didn't have to make eye contact.

These days, as a mom of four stair-step children, I understand that front seat conversations are not always the most private or peaceful. No worries! I have heard plenty of alternatives.

One mom invites her children in one-by-one for a tea time to talk and visit. For some families, the bedtime ritual provides a perfect framework for some great heart-to-hearts. I personally also always enjoyed talking to my mom in the kitchen while she cooked dinner. There are many variations on this idea.

Of course, a safe place not only refers to the actual location, but also the person on the receiving end. When giving a shy child the opportunity to talk freely, it should be just that—free. Allow them to explore their feelings, fairly uninterrupted. Most of the time, they don’t really need advice, just a trusted, listening ear.

I know my parents worried about me as a child, wondering if I would ever come out of my shell, but I did! And today, I’m so thankful for their patient guidance in my early years. Oh, and if you’re wondering, I started speaking to my peers in probably about the fifth grade, and by high school, they probably felt that they couldn’t keep me quiet!

And my oldest son, Isaac, who I mentioned earlier? Well, he is currently on a two week mission trip across the country. The only person he knew on the trip was my mother-in-law. I’m happy to report that he is having the time of his life! So hang in there, moms and dads, there is hope for the shy kids! They just have to hone their super power.

Provide your children a safe learning environment at home where they can hone their unique giftings and blossom at their own pace. Go to SmoothCourse to explore your options.

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Jumping Dolphin Craft Plus More Extensions for Dolphin Adventure

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Jumping Dolphin Craft Plus More Extensions for Dolphin Adventure

As we progress through HBL A, I’ve been creating a series of activities to go along with each of the Read-Alouds. Although I’ve never been a very crafty parent, I find myself wanting to get involved with these extension projects! Here are my ideas, chapter by chapter, for Dolphin Adventure by Wayne Grover, culminating in a jumping dolphin craft made from paper plates.

A Special Day: Chapter 1

The story starts with pelicans looking for food along the shore. Depending on where you live, your children might like feeding the birds. My girls loved feeding the ducks around a pond near our house; you can also feed birds around the ocean or even in your backyard. While you are feeding the birds, you might wish to discuss why we must pick up trash around the area to protect the birds and other animals from eating things that might harm them and to keep trash from polluting our water and harming animals such as dolphins.

The author takes a boat trip to go deep sea diving. My husband has a great ability to make paper boats out of newspaper, so I handed him some paper! They spent the next hour folding paper to make their own boats which we later floated in a large tub of water outside.

During reading time, one of my girls asked how the Gulf Stream pushed people around in the ocean underwater. To quickly illustrate how this worked, we added a hose to our tub of water with the boats in it and practiced pushing them around with the hose water until they started to fall apart. Then we practiced using the water to push other things around underneath the water such as small pebbles and toys.

Down Into the Blue Sea: Chapter 2

The book progresses into a lovely bit of description of life under the sea. We did a bit of “deep sea diving” ourselves by getting snorkels, flippers, and plastic fish we used when we mapped Wild Island from My Father's Dragon and explored the fish underwater in the bathtub. Later we took them outside and practiced moving them around with our “ocean currents” hose.

We then visited a pet store to watch different types of fish swimming around. The pet store owner did allow my girls to help sprinkle a bit of food for them after they asked politely. If you have an aquarium nearby (or even Sea World) you might consider looking at bigger fish or even dolphins.

A Strange Feeling: Chapter 3

We didn’t make a float ball as described in this chapter but we did go out to our over-sized tub of water and drop in a dozen or so assorted items to see which ones would float and which wouldn't. We found out that one of the items that floated was a wiffle ball, so I tied a pieces of string to it and then tied the other end to one of our ocean animals. I had my girls take turns closing their eyes and then finding the ball. Then they tried finding their way to the end of it and finding the animal by feeling along the string.

We then did a quick online search and watched a few videos about dolphins and how they speak to each other, including what the clicks sound like.

The Dolphins: Chapter 4

I had run out of ideas in this chapter but happened to have a set of dolphin stickers and a tiny 3" x 5” notebook. My girls came up with the idea to compose and illustrate a story about a baby dolphin and his parents with the stickers and blank book.

I Try To Help: Chapter 5

In this chapter, the baby dolphin and his family try to communicate with the author. As a parallel, we practiced the bit of sign language we knew. Then I had my girls pretend they were dolphins and act out ways they could convey different messages without speaking or using their arms.

During their bath later that evening, my girls took turns trying to see how long they could hold their breath like dolphins.

Surgery on the Seafloor: Chapter 6

This chapter was a bit hard for my girls. They don’t like to see anyone hurting. But in order to save the dolphin, he had to be fixed. This seemed like a good time for role play. We used felt dolls and a dull-tipped plastic needle with yarn. We practiced gently stitching up places their dolls were hurt. Later we were able to remove the stitches and see that they were healed although the stitching did leave a little scar behind.

If dolls don’t interest your children, you might consider using lacing activities or sewing cards.

The Dolphin’s Thanks: Chapter 7

I truly had run out of ideas by this chapter, but my oldest daughter came to my rescue by suggesting we make models of dolphins with a lump of blue clay. I then looked up pictures online while we pointed out dolphin anatomy:

  • the blowhole for breathing
  • the gills
  • the flippers
  • the fins
  • the tail

My girls then insisted on reworking their dolphin creations to show more of those areas.

Jumping Dolphin Craft Plus More Extensions for Dolphin Adventure

The Dolphins Return: Chapter 8

As we said concluded Dolphin Adventure, our final project was a craft of dolphins who could jump out of the water and say goodbye to us.

Supplies for Jumping Dolphin Craft

  • 2 paper plates
  • paint
  • paint brushes
  • construction paper
  • paper fasteners

Directions for Jumping Dolphin Craft

Leaving one paper plate whole, we cut the other plate about into 2 pieces—one measuring about ⅓ of the height of the plate, leaving the other at ⅔ of the height. Using the larger portion, we cut waves into the flat plane where we cut. We painted both plates in different shades of ocean blue using our paintbrushes. Using construction paper of each girls’ color choice, we cut out a dolphin shape for each child.

Once the paint was dry, we glued our dolphins to the larger plate. When the dolphin was also dry, we placed the smaller plate over the larger plate and fastened it in the middle using our paper fastener. Now our dolphin could spin, and we could watch him jump in and out of the waves.

After the Story

We also watched a few ocean-related movies for kids, including Flipper, Free Willy, and Finding Nemo. The sequel to Dolphin Adventure is scheduled later in this same HBL, so we have that to look forward to!

Sonlight History / Bible / Literature A
Dolphin Adventure is part of History / Bible / Literature A

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