Careful What You Post Online

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One of my friends has a secret social media account. She posts stuff there she doesn't want anyone she knows to know about. It's a cathartic experience for her where she can let slip all the dark, nasty, painful things she's experiencing as a teenager. I don't think it's healthy, but I'm doing my best to pick my battles. But since she didn't want me to know about it, I just had to know about it. Yeah, I'm that guy.

"You know," I said, "you may want to remove your picture from your profile."

She looked at me blankly.

"If you don't want people to know who you are, putting your picture on the account isn't a great way to keep it hidden."

The profile picture has since been changed.

Internet Irony
Internet Irony

This is just a friendly reminder to be careful what you post online. I'm sure you never divulge any personal information or anything like that, but maybe it's time to remind your kids or friends about the simple fact that the internet is public. Even Facebook. Or, did you not hear about all those privacy concerns some crazy conspiracy theorists have been ranting about?

This warning isn't new. I've seen videos and posts and even websites dedicated to urging people to think before they post.

But then some guy -- I looked at the list of his other videos and I'm not planning on watching them -- does the obvious: Look at your social information and then go up and talk to you like he knows you.

And people flip out.

If you're interested, check out the SOCIAL MEDIA EXPERIMENT video.

I get it. The world's a big place and few of us have stalkers who would go to the trouble of looking us up. I mean, I've been to several homeschool conventions, have my picture and name all over the internet, and, like, four people have recognized me. (Hi, friends!) And if someone as amazing as me <cough> can't get noticed, I can see why others wouldn't think they'd be noticed. Worse, as a blogger, I know how it can feel like no one notices you exist.

But the fact remains: The internet is public.

Don't get paranoid. The NSA already has everything it needs on you. <smile>

Just think before you post. ...or "Like" something that could be used against you in a court of law.

Still online? Cool. You already know about the Sonlight blog, but we're elsewhere in social media as well. Come find hang out with us.

 ~Luke Holzmann
Filmmaker, Writer, Guardian

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Thankful Thursday

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The title isn't new or unique to me by any means, but it seemed appropriate for the time of year and day of the week. I have enjoyed reading my friends' daily "thankful" posts on Facebook of late. It helps to offset my growing disgust with retail stores that totally ignore Thanksgiving and jump directly to Christmas. Even while grocery shopping last evening I came across a shelf of "discounted" Thanksgiving items. As though the store was attempting to get rid of the stock because the need for the items was past.

Then I am reminded that scripture exhorts me to be thankful in all circumstances, even if the local merchants have missed the point. I am reminded that there is reason to be thankful even if the future appears uncertain ... even when one or more of our children is struggling financially ... even when a friend is struggling with a cancer diagnosis, delivered the day before he walked down the aisle with his new bride ... even when political events/decisions adversely affect my elderly parents ... even when good friends are wrestling with an unexpected change in employment ... and on and on the list goes.

How do we teach perpetual thankfulness to our children? Certainly the time of year presents a wonderful opportunity to share not only the historical roots of this holiday, but also how to incorporate an attitude of thanksgiving in their daily lives. Developing a daily spirit of thankfulness takes commitment and effort, but the benefits are unending. According to one article, the benefits of being grateful include:

  1. Better behavior
  2. Brighter outlook on life
  3. Better academic grades
  4. Making you a better friend to others
  5. Better sleep
  6. Stronger relationships
  7. Better heart health
  8. A stronger immune system

Who wouldn't want to enjoy all those positive results of thankfulness?! So look for creative ways to remind your children to be thankful, even in trying circumstances. Perhaps the best way to do this is to train ourselves to do the same! And may you not rush through this season of thanksgiving in order to reach Christmas more quickly. Take the time to thoroughly enjoy the opportunity to be thankful with your family.

Still on the journey ...
~Judy Wnuk
Sonlight Customer Champion

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Instructor's Guide Links

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Sonlight's Instructor's Guides are so much more than an easy to use daily schedule. The IG includes notes and vocabulary and teaching tips and more. The guides also used to have long strings of text -- like http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=dQw4w9WgXcQ -- that you could type into your browser to learn more about a particular topic. But who wants to do that?

So we created a single place on the Sonlight site where you could quickly access all* the clickable IG links: https://www.sonlight.com/iglinks.html You're busy. You've got better things to do with your time than type random URLs to get to useful content on the web.

Speaking of useful content, there is more than just the IG links URL in Section 4 in the back of your Instructor's Guide. I know it's labeled "New User Information," but even if you're a Sonlight Pro it could well be worth a quick peek.

~Luke Holzmann
Filmmaker, Writer, Guardian

* Yes, all. There's even a recursive link back to www.sonlight.com/iglinks on the IG links page. We're awesome like that.

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Something Encouraging

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I have been mulling for a while about what to blog about. It's only once a month, but still, to try and find something that could possibly be of interest and encouraging to you today...it's harder than you think. (Kudos to those who blog daily!)

But when I got right down to it, there is one thing that is always encouraging, and that's Christ: the focus on him and what he is doing. It isn't always fun, it's rarely easy, but one thing about him remains true: he is worth writing about. And writing about him is encouraging. And praising him is worth it.

I've been doing the Thankful month, posting each day on Facebook what I'm thankful for. I've done Ann Voskamp's study. I try to be positive. But I'm doing a study right now on Isaiah. When we were looking at who Christ is -- Wonderful Counselor, Mighty God, Everlasting Father, the Prince of Peace -- I just broke down.

This Wonderful Counselor, of whom I can ask any question, from whom I can beg attention, who never tires of hearing me seek help and who gives good counsel ... how I long for that!

The Mighty God, creator and ruler, beyond all others, the one who puts things in order and in their place. Who says, "As I have promised, so shall it be," who can stop him? It stops me in my tracks. The things God has purposed, they will come about. I'm so glad that when I look around and see chaos, God is not surprised. He is not overwhelmed. When I cannot see the good or the reason, God is above that, bigger still than that.

And the Everlasting Father, someone who is so large and so great, yet, a father. A good father. One who is near. One who will never leave. Never forsake. Never hurt or abuse.

Prince of Peace. One who brings comfort. One who offers something that is integral to who he is. One who reigns with peace. Who provides peace. One who will one day usher in a period of peace.

These different aspects of God, these small parts of the whole of who he is...it's amazing. And definitely something to focus on.

Until next time,
Jonelle

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Rising from the Ashes of Shattered Dreams

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She had big plans for college sports even as a junior in high school. Then, as a junior in high school, her knee gave out. With it, her dreams of college collapsed as well. Her life, she told me, spiraled. Her story has not been a happy one. Much the opposite. Entirely the opposite. And last night, as she wept on my couch, I had a panoply of thoughts bumping into each other in my head. Their stampeding over one another did not help. One thought, however vague in the swirl, went something like this, 'It's such a bummer her shattered dreams burned her so.'

I'm one of those deeply philosophical types, you see.

Here's a theory my subconscious has been assembling by itself since last night: Her life burned to the ground because the foundation of everything had been removed.

My subconscious is pretty bad about mixing metaphors.

Ashes
Ashes

She really didn't like school. She maintained the minimal grade point average needed to keep playing sports. "College is the only way to secure a future," I'm sure her teachers told her, intentionally or not. And so when the one and only thing that nudged to toward college gave way, her life lost all direction. And despite an unenviable childhood, I'm pretty sure no one shared stories of redemption with her. I don't think anyone told her about men and women who had survived hardship and calamity and, by God's grace, came out the other side. I don't think anyone has ever told her about God's grace at all.

Even knowing about God's grace does not make you immune to the devastating impact of shattered dreams. It's even worse when it's something that feels like God's grace itself has failed. Been there. Done that.

One of the best ways to see hope on the other side of hopelessness is to read stories about how God has provided in the past. My mom has written some excellent posts on this subject, such as Teaching children how to fail and Why Sonlight shows students that the world isn't perfect. These kinds of examples -- which can also be found throughout Scripture -- demonstrate what it looks like to walk the road of life with God. We grow spiritually as we travel the miles down the road God has called us to walk.

Life can be really hard, even when we're right where God wants us. Isn't that one of the lessons we can learn from martyrs? Isn't that something we see in Paul? Isn't that what we see in Christ?

As Thanksgiving approaches, I'm looking forward to the service our church holds where we get to stand up and share things God has done for which we are thankful.

"Does anyone thank God for cancer?" one of my co-workers wanted to know.

"No," I said. "But I have heard people share about how God has brought them through the experience of cancer, whether He healed them or not. And seeing that, seeing God bring them to a place where His peace is there... wow! It's really encouraging."

Has God raised you from the ashes of shattered dreams? I've love to celebrate that story with you!

If you, or someone you know, is currently in the midst of abject disappointment, may God's peace that surpasses all understanding guard your heart and mind in Christ.

And I would very much appreciate your prayers for my wife Brittany and I as we seek to share the hope of Christ with people who are hurting and, sometimes, have been burned by religion. We desperately need God's grace and wisdom in those situation as well.

 ~Luke Holzmann
Filmmaker, Writer, Guardian

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Where are they now? Updates on past Sonlight Scholarship winners.

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Ethan Green graduated Sonlight and started college in 2010. Each year he receives $2,500 from the Sonlight Scholarship Foundation for his studies.

Now a senior at Washington University in St. Louis, Ethan and his roommates founded an organization to help people with Parkinson's disease. They developed new software that will help people all over the world easily assess the progression of their disease. Their solution is currently twelve times faster and three times less expensive than other products on the market. They've already received development funds and plan to open up to outside investors soon.

All this from a student who used a literature-based curriculum through high school. I love the diversity of what Sonlight students go on to accomplish!

Years ago, I wanted to support Sonlight students as they pursued their callings. (I also wanted evidence as to how well Sonlight prepares students for college.) So we started the Sonlight Scholarship Foundation. Each year the scholarship committee carefully evaluates the stack of applicants, selects the winners, and awards $4,000 to $20,000 total to each.

If your Sonlight student will start college in 2014, he or she should apply now before the December 4 deadline. Your student can choose which category to apply for: one that prioritizes academic achievement, or one that prioritizes mission-mindedness, creativity and acts of kindness. (Learn about eligibility and meet the 2013 winners.)

I recently heard what some past scholarship winners are up to now. What fun to get these updates! After using Sonlight in their homeschool (at least for high school) these young adults have finished undergraduate studies and are following their callings. Past scholarship winners are now:

  • At Harvard Law School after a stint with Teach for America
  • Serving as a Naval Civil Engineer
  • Pursuing a Ph.D. in Philosophy and writing a dissertation on Augustine of Hippo
  • Serving as a US Marine Corps Ground Intelligence Officer
  • Pursuing a Ph.D. in Chemical Engineering
  • Earning a Master's degree in Applied Linguistics with an emphasis in Teaching English to Speakers of Other Languages (with plans to teach English abroad)
  • Training in advanced linguistics in order to become a Bible translator

This quick list reminds me that Sonlight provides a broad education that teaches students how to think. That, in turn, prepares them for all sorts of careers (including the worthy task of possibly homeschooling their own children someday!). Every scholarship winner I've had the privilege to talk with is articulate, thoughtful, and clearly has a heart for the Lord. They all want to follow God's call in their lives.

So please keep Sonlight scholarships in mind. Whether or not your child has stellar test scores, if he or she has a heart for serving the Lord and wants to put a college education to good use, I'd encourage him or her to apply. (Read about eligibility here.)

Or just take the Scholarship winners as a reminder that Sonlight really does work. If your children seem "just average," or have plans other than college, you are still serving them well through giving them such a well-rounded and robust education.

Because after all, the point isn't to raise children who win scholarships. The goal is to raise children equipped to do whatever God calls them to. I pray that Sonlight is helping you do just that.

Blessings,
Sarita

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Lost in India? Empty Your "Backpack" Before Tomorrow Night

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If you've been involved in Lost in India, you've probably already received a few (dozen?) reminders to add up the money you saved in your "backpack" and give online. But I know I'm busy and tend to plan to get to something before something else comes up.

We're halfway to the goal as of writing this post. We're praying we meet -- or exceed -- the goal in the next 24 hours.

If you've been meaning to give but haven't done so yet, stop reading this post, log into your Lost in India account and donate.

And if this the first you've heard of this amazing giving opportunity, check it out and consider giving a few dollars. Even $5 can radically transform the world.

The matching opportunity ends tomorrow night. Get to it! <smile>

 ~Luke Holzmann
Filmmaker, Writer, Guardian

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