4 Reasons Colleges Love Homeschoolers

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4 Reasons Colleges Love Homeschoolers

One month into my freshman year of college, my math professor asked me to stay after class. “Were you homeschooled?” he asked. My face flushed, certain I’d somehow been outed as a dysfunctional outcast. (Pervasive stereotypes can affect even the most confident homeschool grads.) I nodded nervously.

“I thought so!” he replied enthusiastically. “I can always tell. I love homeschooled students. They’re always so engaged, and they actually turn in their work!”

I heard this same refrain over and over throughout my university experience—professors love homeschoolers. Students educated at home consistently demonstrated greater enthusiasm toward learning, my instructors told me, and were much more proficient in writing than their traditionally educated peers. Yet even today, although homeschooling has been mainstream for quite some time, many parents remain concerned about the ability of homeschool students to succeed in higher education. I still hear this question all the time: “What about college?”

Both my husband and I were homeschooled from pre-kindergarten through twelfth grade, and we both went on to receive four-year degrees in traditional university settings. Neither of us found the transition from homeschooling to college particularly traumatic. Our home education prepared us extremely well for the college environment, since we had already

  • learned to study on our own,
  • become accustomed to structure and deadlines,
  • written countless papers, and
  • been researching information independently for years.

In most homeschool families, the focus is on learning, not just school. This gives home-educated students an advantage in college. What’s the difference between learning and school? Learning is a lifestyle, while school is something you have to get through. This emphasis on learning, and other traits many homeschool graduates have in common, makes homeschool students ideally prepared for the college classroom.

1. Homeschooled Students Have Excellent Independent Study Skills

For homeschoolers, there’s no way to sit through a class period without actually doing work. The work itself is the class. When the bell strikes eight, you can’t count on thirty other kids to flip open textbooks and begin the discussion without your active contribution. You have to actually begin doing the problems yourself. If you do not participate, math class (or literature analysis, or biology lab, or any other subject) simply does not proceed. Homeschooled kids enter college already knowing how to dive into individual assignments and work through them independently.

2. Homeschooled Students are Self-Disciplined and Self-Motivated

As a homeschooled kid, I quickly realized the advantages of being self-motivated. If I could

  • block out distractions,
  • focus, and
  • work quickly and efficiently,

I could complete a fifty-minute lesson in twenty minutes—and gain a half hour of free time to pursue my own talents and interests. In a traditional school settings, such motivation is rarely rewarded, since every student is required to stay in the classroom until the bell rings, regardless of progress.

Rather than expecting to be spoon-fed, or relying on the hard work of those around them, homeschool students enter college already accustomed to the idea of taking charge of their educational progress. And of course, discipline and motivation aren't just academic assets—they are essential when it comes to succeeding in the real world workforce.



3. Homeschool Students View Learning as Collaborative, not Us Versus Them

When I was in college, I often asked my professors questions during open office hours. Why not? Instructors, after all, are there for the students, available to offer guidance, give research pointers, and award extra credit.

Because these meetings were such a valuable resource—especially in understanding exactly what was required to succeed in the class—the reluctance of my peers to take advantage of open office hours struck me as particularly odd.

But when you think about the difference between traditional education and home education, their reluctance makes sense. In a traditional school setting, the majority of a student’s time is spent alongside same-age peers. Homeschooled students, on the other hand, regularly interact with a wide range of ages. (Inter-age learning, of course, more closely mimics the real world. How many corporate offices are filled with only twenty-three-year-old workers, whose birthdays fall before the first of September?)

Because of this intergenerational advantage, homeschool students tend to enter college without the adults vs. children or teachers vs. students mentality. Homeschool kids view learning as collaborative, rather than oppositional. So because they are not intimidated by adults, homeschool graduates are much more likely to

  • take full advantage of professors’ standing office hours,
  • ask for help, and
  • seek clarification.

4. Homeschooled Students Have Time to Develop Extracurricular Interests

It’s no secret college admissions departments look for more than academic prowess. For a long time, universities have been very clear about their preference for well-rounded applicants—those who have cultivated talents and interests beyond classroom success.

One of the advantages of homeschooling lie in its inherently time-efficient nature. Homeschooled kids simply have more time to pursue personal areas of interest. Traditionally-schooled students may be just as passionate—about coding or invasive species or medical technology—but find themselves limited by time. Homeschoolers, on the other hand,  are not constrained to evenings and weekends, and have the liberty to pursue extensive research projects and unique job opportunities before college even begins.

And it’s not just the admissions officers who are happy about this. This drive, authenticity, and experience outside the classroom makes homeschool kids the ideal candidates to

  • pursue collegiate internships,
  • go after research grants, and
  • take advantage of other credit-earning independent study opportunities.

But in the end, maybe  professors love curious, driven homeschool kids for reasons which go beyond academics. Because when I stop to think about it, what’s served me best in my real world life has less to do with college coursework, and more to do with why colleges love homeschooled kids in the first place: self-discipline, diligence, and the enormous importance of tenacity and perseverance.

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If Learning Style is a Myth, Let's Homeschool to Preferences

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There are many different schools of thought on how to categorize learning styles. Discover how your child's learning style or preference can impact how you approach homeschooling.

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The Surprising Ways Homeschooling Can Bully-proof Your Kids

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The Surprising Ways Homeschooling Can Bully-proof Your Kids

A few people may tell you bullying is just a rite of passage to toughen kids up. The jock, the nerd, the popular crowd, the bully ... the stereotypes of school scenes are so familiar to us, it can be easy to overlook the long term effects of bullying on mental health.  According to this study, kids who are bullied are more likely to experience problems with depression later in life, and one study even cited negative effects that surpassed those who experienced domestic abuse. And yet, almost one in three children experience bullying on a regular basis. What's a parent to do?

Will homeschooling prevent bullying?

Many parents initially choose homeschooling to remove their children from a bullying situation and, of course, there is much value in helping a child exit a negative environment. However, I think we should be careful not to fall into the ditch on the other side of the road and assume that because we homeschool our children, we can totally protect them from every pain and conflict life may offer. We live in a fallen world. It's likely our kids, homeschooled or not, will meet up with injustice at some point in their lives, whether that's on the playground or in the workplace.

So if we can't guarantee a perfect bubble for our kids, what's the point in bringing them home? Just how does homeschooling help our kids with bullying? I believe the answer lies less in what situations we remove them from and more in what we instill into their lives.

True confidence shatters a bully's power.

I believe one of the greatest gifts of homeschooling is that we get to be the primary voice in our children's lives

If someone is going to spend seven hours a day giving your child messages about who they are and what's important, who would you prefer that to be? I'll never regret a moment John and I invested in our children.

When a child develops a healthy sense of worth and identity, their basic beliefs about themselves are not subject to the whims of their peers. We can help give them a resilience that comes from knowing who they are. We can train them to be the kind of outward-looking people who help and praise others and can stand up to tyranny in all its forms with love and courage.

In The Hundred Dresses, one of the main characters has just come through a long season of serving as a bystander while her friends bullied a fellow classmate. Near the end of the book Maddie "reached an important conclusion: she was never going to stand by and say nothing again."

As we read great literature and imbue confidence in our kids to do what's right, we can raise children who not only know how to deflect bullies, but who have the courage to stand up to them in love.

Four keys to home-grown confidence

We have an opportunity in our homeschool each day to do four things to give our children real confidence (the kind that denies bullies power):

1. Speak life into your kids

When the whispers of "the mean girls" are what your child hears day in and day out, those voices can be so loud it's hard to hear the message of truth. You have an opportunity to create a safe place where life-giving words are spoken each day. In our family, we had a rule: "No put downs." This rule was in place even for children who came into our home for playdates and I honestly think even the visitors felt a sense of relief that we were all committed to build one another up.

2. Help them see themselves as God sees them

When we are speaking life into our kids, we don't want to offer flattery, but truth. As we walk our children through Scripture, we help them gain an appropriate sense of self. We help them see their immense value in Him, and yet recognize that the only good in us is not our own, but a gift from God and a result of His grace.

3. Create a strong family identity

Creating a strong family identity is one of the key components of healthy families. It gives kids an important sense of belonging. The bonds we form as a family make a peer group's opinion slightly less weighty. When kids have a strong attachment to parents and siblings and can identify with their family as a team ("This is what we Holzmanns do."), they are much less likely to feel their lives depend on their peer group's approval. Homeschooling gives us wonderful opportunities for establishing this closeness and deepening our family traditions.

4. Give them skills

Learning to perform certain skills well and then receiving positive feedback on that work is a huge confidence builder. I encouraged each of our children to learn to swim well, play an instrument, and practice judo. Unlike empty praise or a participation trophy for showing up, these skill-building activities helped our kids to enjoy real accomplishment. As homeschooling families, we can help our children identify their gifts and develop tangible skills that will grow their confidence by leaps and bounds. Whether that is playing in a band or encouraging others, we can help our children tap into the strengths God has gifted them.

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Four Things Not to Do When Your Homeschool Hits a Snag

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Four Things Not to Do When Your Homeschool Hits a Snag

A fresh start is a wonderful feeling. I enjoy thinking about goals and new habits at the beginning of a new year. But what happens when you're halfway through the year and you feel like you are behind, or something is just not working?

When you hit a homeschool snag, it's a great time to evaluate where you are, give yourself some grace, and think about anything you might want to adjust for the second half of the year. If something didn't work for you, it's not a fail, it's a step in the process of learning to meet your kids' needs.

When I first started homeschooling, we were about two years in when my children took standardized tests. I was pleased that the kids did really well and were obviously learning, but I discovered they were all terrible spellers! (I had thought they might just naturally absorb good spelling through our phonics studies.) Rather than get discouraged, I took note that we needed to add formal spelling instruction, and we moved forward. They all spell just fine now!

So when you hit a snag in your homeschool, here are four things not to do.

1. Don't Panic

It's highly probable that this homeschool snag is something you can solve with a practical solution. It's also possible it's simply a temporary season, or even less of a big deal than it seems right now.

If it is a big deal, panic won't help anyway. Your children need to feel secure that you are enjoying the learning process with them and that you have confidence that they can learn. Stay calm; you will get there!

It's usually helpful to do research, find out more about what's common for your child's developmental age, tap into different approaches to learning styles, and talk to parents who have raised a variety of personalities over the years.

Remember, this is your homeschool, and for the most part, you don't have to succumb to outside pressures when it comes to doing what is best for your child. Stay flexible. Look for ways to make learning happen and let the timelines take a back seat if needed.

2. Don't Take it Personally

The worst thing you can do is to take something your child is struggling with and make it a symbol of personal failure. Just because your child doesn't automatically grasp something doesn't mean you aren't a great teacher or a good parent. Be solutions-oriented and look for a different way of helping them thrive.


For several years I often felt like I failed at educating our children while managing our home and squeezing in some quality time with each child. Sonlight was literally an answer to our prayers. Our first year of using Sonlight Curriculum was the first time we ever completed a full school year without switching to something else halfway through. Sonlight has lightened my load, helped me feel like a success, and brought joy back into our homeschooling journey. —Shannon H. of Port Arthur, TX


3. Don't Give Up

You care about your children more than anyone else in the world. When you take the time to figure out how to help them learn best, you are giving them a lifelong gift. Education is not a race. Whatever your child's strengths or weaknesses, you are looking to make progress in ways that mean success for your child. This is worth it.

No one is going to ask your child in a job interview what age he was when he learned to read. An employer simply needs to know that he can read.

No one is going to ask your child in a job interview what age he was when he learned to read. An employer simply needs to know that he can read. Therefore, don't sweat your milestone timelines too much. Use them as general helps in shaping goals and then adapt to your children's needs.

4. Don't Go it Alone

One of the best ways to respond to snags in our homeschool efforts is to talk it out with someone who understands. I encourage you to first turn to your Creator who knows you and your children inside and out. Pull in your spouse to share both the victories and the struggles you encounter. And connect to community, whether that is in your neighborhood or your favorite homeschool Facebook group. The Sonlight Forums offer a wealth of perspective from moms who have journeyed through more scenarios than you can imagine and it's likely you can find someone who understands or who would be happy to encourage and pray for you.

May you enjoy a new year of learning side by side with your kids. I am confident you can look back on this season–both the fun times and the snags–and see how God was working in and through your family to draw you closer together and closer to Him.

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How to Forge Good Homeschool Habits and Nix the Bad Ones

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About a year ago, I realized that I was checking my phone a few times during homeschool lessons. I realized that I wouldn’t much like it if, in between two books—or maybe in the middle of a page—they suddenly checked out to talk to a friend for a few minutes. How disrespectful! I was ashamed that I had fallen so easily into such a bad habit that affected both my parenting and our homeschooling. My disappointment with myself led me to research ways to forge good habits. I've used these not only to break my bad habit of phone checking during homeschool lessons but also to add positive habits to our routine.

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7 Truths to Zap Your Fears about Teaching Homeschool Art History

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7 Truths to Zap Your Fears about Teaching Homeschool Art History

Art, it seems, is one of the more misunderstood subjects. In my conversations with homeschool parents, I’ve encountered over and over the idea that only artistically-minded families can adequately teach homeschool art history, or that art is somehow more difficult to teach than other subjects. This simply is not true!

You absolutely can incorporate art history into your weekly routine with confidence (and Sonlight makes it easy with these homeschool art electives, too!) Here are seven reasons why you shouldn’t feel intimidated by the idea of teaching art history.

1. Art History is for Math- and Science-Minded Families, Too

Our personal homeschool is heavily weighted towards the science and math ends of the spectrum, and yet we love our weekly exploration of art history. Though my math-minded daughter shows little interest in honing her skills beyond stick figures, she adores art with geometric components, like Vermeer’s 1658 painting The Little Street, or Mondrian’s primary color compositions from the 1920s and 1930s.

2. You Don’t Have to Know How to Draw to Teach Art History

Art history is about learning to recognize and appreciate the great masters, not learning to draw. As a homeschool mom, you can confidently and adequately teach art without drawing, painting or sketching.

In fact, the terrific Come Look With Me art appreciation books don’t even incorporate hands-on projects. I love the author’s thoughtful and narrative approach to art. For each lesson, you and your child will

  • look at a richly detailed, colorful work of art,
  • read about the artist’s life, and
  • ask curiosity-provoking questions which encourage close observation.

In just minutes each week, you can add a whole range to your cultural knowledge.

3. Art History is Not the Same as Arts and Crafts

I’ll tell you a secret. I don’t like crafts. If you’re avoiding the study of art because you’re just not a hands-on mom, that’s okay! You don’t need to love popsicles sticks, paper plates, and pom-poms in order to dive into the diverse beauty of art through the ages.

4. Studying Art History Just Means...Studying Art

The term art history can sound intimidating, can’t it? But it really just means studying art. In the loosest definition, if the art existed sometime before today—great! You’re studying art history. There’s a progression of eras of course—the Classical Greek period is distinct from the Renaissance—but you do not need to master the entire art history timeline in order to cultivate a deep love and appreciation for art and beauty.

5. You Don’t Have to be an Art Major to Teach Art History

I teach art history at our local homeschool co-op, and every few weeks, someone asks me, “Is your background in art?” My background, in fact, is in everything but art—I’ve worked in a sheet metal factory, a juvenile detention center, and a mortgage company. But art isn’t esoteric, available to only a select few. In this modern, interconnected age, the art of the masters is more accessible than ever.

You don’t have to be an art major to browse the art history section of the library, click through the galleries of any number of art museum websites, or peruse an art history timeline. In fact, you don’t even have to do any of that—you can just pick up a homeschool art curriculum like Artistic Pursuits, open it up, and go.

Why do I love Artistic Pursuits? In K-3 Book 2, for example, you’ll

  • see a full-color reproduction of a famous art piece,
  • read an overview of the artist/genre in historical context, and
  • do a hands-on project emphasizing some aspect of what you learned.

6. Art is for Everyone, Not Just for the Select Elite

There’s a common misconception of art not being accessible to all, but only to a few who are sophisticated enough to understand it. But we do not live in the Dark Ages. Today, anyone with an internet connection or a library card now has access to the famous works. There’s no velvet rope around art!

7. You Don’t Have to Know the History of Art to Teach Art History

It’s true! Remember, your goal in teaching art history is

  • to glorify God,
  • to cultivate curiosity,
  • to foster a love for beauty,
  • to promote critical thinking,
  • to encourage quiet contemplation,
  • to recognize famous and culturally-significant pieces,
  • to respect that each person’s individual styles and tastes in art differ,
  • to acknowledge the widely diverse range of gifts God has given each of us.

You don’t need to know all the historical facts surrounding a painting to accomplish those worthwhile goals.

Be free from your fear of homeschool art history. Art appreciation has little to do with one’s own artistic talent—or lack thereof. Own your God-given love for beauty. As the created, designed by the master Creator, “We do not want merely to see beauty... we want something else which can hardly be put into words—to be united with the beauty we see, to pass into it, to receive it into ourselves, to bathe in it, to become part of it.” -C.S. Lewis

Celebrate beauty, to the glory of God!

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6 Steps to Getting Back into a Homeschool Routine after Holidays

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It can be hard to reestablish a sense of normalcy after a break in the homeschool routine, can’t it? Even if the tree is still blinking in the corner of the living room, Christmas is, to borrow from Charles Dickens, past. As Ebenezer himself said,There is no doubt whatever about that.” Getting back into a homeschool routine after holidays can feel like swimming upstream in peanut butter. But it must be done. So how do we shift gears from merriment and relaxation into finishing the whole rest of the school year stretched out before us?

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